On April 22, 2024, a shocking incident occurred in Yancheng. A mother was scolded by her son for not letting her son watch TV: You are not worthy of being a mother, waste!
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It is understood that on the day of the incident, her sixth-grade son wanted to watch TV, but his mother refused her son's request because she thought that watching TV for too long would affect her eyesight and learning. Unexpectedly, the son was very dissatisfied with this, and in his emotion, he actually said such things to his mother.
In the video, we can clearly hear the child say this.
The son she worked so hard to raise was like this to herself, and her mother was also heartbroken: "I have never felt so wronged!"
The comment area is even more broken:
"At this time, it is time for mother's love to leave the field and let father's love play!"
"Cold and violent him, ignore him, don't talk to him, cook only my own, and don't wash his clothes. ”
"The boy only serves people who are better than him and stronger than him, let his father give him a meal of fish-flavored shredded pork!"
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It can be seen from the comment area that people have condemned his son's behavior. At the same time, it has also triggered people's deep reflection on family education.
In fact, this is not the first time that such a thing has happened, children's self-control is poor, the temptation of TV and mobile phones is difficult for them to control, it needs parental supervision, some children are more obedient, willing to listen to parental arrangements, and can also realize the harm of long-term addiction to electronic products.
However, some children are obsessed, which leads to conflicts between parents and children, similar to what happened in the video, especially boys, rebellious thoughts, at this time only by force can not make him obedient, and at this time the boy's strength is much greater than that of his mother.
Therefore, it takes certain skills to communicate with children, and he can't accept a tough and direct way, and in the family, how parents should correctly educate their children and guide them to establish correct values and codes of conduct has become an important topic.
In fact, educating children is not only to accompany and guide, but more importantly, to guide, it is said that parents are the best teachers for children, and every word and deed of parents will be deeply imprinted in the child's mind when he is a child, forming his three views.
If a family does not have a good atmosphere and no good guidance, then the child's three views are not established, he does not know how to distinguish between right and wrong, and blindly indulges in willfulness, so he develops an arrogant and domineering character at home, and even overrides his parents.
We should recognize that homeschooling is essential for a child's development. Parents should not only care about their children's material life, but also pay attention to cultivating their moral character and quality. In the process of educating children, parents should lead by example and influence their children with their words and deeds. At the same time, we should also pay attention to communication and communication with children, understand their inner world, and give them enough care and support.
In addition, the society should also strengthen the publicity and guidance of family education, and provide more resources and help, so that parents can better fulfill their educational responsibilities. Only with the joint attention and efforts of the whole society can we create a good family education environment and let children grow up healthy and happy.