A few days ago, a video of a wife throwing scissors at her husband went viral on the Internet and attracted widespread attention. In the video, a woman holding scissors throws angrily at her husband, who can't dodge and the scissors fly over and hit the bucket, splashing everywhere. This dangerous move immediately caused an uproar on the Internet, and public opinion was full of accusations.
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Most people believe that the woman's behaviour is excessive and that the husband is the victim of this domestic violence incident. When we learn the ins and outs of the matter, we find that this story is reversed. It turns out that the woman is the victim of this long-term domestic violence, and the husband is not as honest as he seems.
The woman came forward to accuse her husband of all kinds of misdeeds over the years. The woman revealed that her husband was her family's son-in-law, and the life of the two after marriage completely depended on the woman's family. Not only is the money for buying a car and opening a shop at the time of the wedding paid by the woman, but the daily living expenses are also borne by the woman.
The husband not only did not fulfill the responsibilities of the male host, but often made trouble unreasonably, and once suspected his wife of cheating and asked for a paternity test. What's even more outrageous is that the husband also pushed his mother-in-law and beat his elders. It turned out that the seemingly honest husband, a hypocritical and selfish son-in-law who did not work hard, was hidden under the honest coat of people before and after.
But is a person's honesty only based on not doing evil? Is a person who has no responsibility, no action, and only shirks responsibility worthy of being called honest? The so-called honest person often means selfishness and uselessness. They will only swallow dates and never reflect; It will only dodge the problem and never solve it. The cowardice and incompetence of an honest person will gradually erode the foundation of the family.
When the problems accumulate to the point where they are unbearable, the woman, who has been suppressed for a long time, finally loses control of her emotions and expresses the resentment in her heart in the wrong way. At first glance, the woman is the party who is at fault and should be held accountable for this matter. But isn't it also a reminder that our husbands haven't done anything good? Don't jump to conclusions too early, especially on the Internet.
No one is completely right, and no one is completely wrong. The reality of life is often contradictory, and we need to look at each person's motivation dialectically, rather than making judgments lightly. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. We need to jump out of the perspective of a blind eye, maintain rational thinking, and examine an event from multiple angles, in order to achieve respect for the truth.
Don't be fooled by superficial appearances, and keep a rational look at everyone's motivations and behaviors. Behind a person's words and deeds, there is often a more complex background. We must learn to think from the perspective of others, listen to different voices, and strive to break through the limitations of cognition, so that we can have a more comprehensive understanding of the world that is close to the truth.