When a person is low on energy, but especially expects to turn over one day in the future, he must learn to control his mouth and not talk nonsense, and at the same time maintain a good personal mental state.
Because, when you don't have the strength, the dreams or goals you say will sound like after-dinner talk and jokes to others, which will not only not help you realize your dreams, but will also play a negative role.
To maintain a good state of mind, one is to encourage oneself and believe that you will be able to achieve your goals in the future, and the other is to let your partners see the hope of success from you, and strengthen their confidence in maintaining cooperation with you.
As the saying goes: if you are secret, you will do it.
In the plot of Minglan in "Do You Know", after Minglan lived alone in the branch of the housekeeper, the eldest lady and Lin Xiaoniang respectively sent eyeliner to Minglan in the courtyard.
The handmaidens who were sent over, although their respective circumstances were different, they all relied on the strength of their original masters to set up music in Minglan courtyard, and they didn't take the Sheng family, the youngest sixth girl, very seriously. Not only did they think about the benefits of being with the old master, but they often ran to report the situation in Minglan Courtyard to the old master, and properly behaved in Cao Ying's heart in Han.
In order to completely drive these annoying maids out of the twilight cangzhai, Minglan did big things with her head bored, pretending to be stupid and weak to connive at these little maids more and more unruly, and did not take the six girls' twilight cangzhai seriously at all, and many times in this small courtyard, she forgot her identity as a slave and maid, and played her temper if she wanted to, and blatantly stopped Changfeng who came to this courtyard from being coquettish and whispering. There is also the ginkgo sent by the eldest lady, not to mention teasing Changbai, but after being rejected, she actually put on a face that became more and more frustrated, as if she had eaten Changbai.
In the courtyard of this twilight cangzhai, the master Minglan is 'timid and afraid of things', and these maidservants who were sent have their own tempers and personalities, and they don't treat themselves as outsiders at all, which constantly makes all kinds of troubles, so that the big lady who originally planned to watch the joke can't sit still, and wants to reach out to help Minglan clean up the door.
When Minglan made up her mind to completely drive out the servant girl who was sent, no one discussed or told her, not even the Dan Tang and Xiao Tao beside her, it was precisely because her mind was hidden deep enough that the matter of 'slave bullying the master' became more and more troublesome, and even affected the eldest lady's heart and baby son Changbai. At this time, the eldest lady couldn't sit still anymore, she took Mother Liu and others to Minglan in the twilight, and after some operations, she cleaned up the few unsightly maids.
Sheng Minglan is a good 'secret is done, borrow a knife to kill'.
If Minglan had just told others that the news had leaked when she was about to do this, not only would those handmaids be vigilant and restrain their behavior, but even Lin Xiaoniang and the eldest lady who sent them over would also give them ideas on how to continue to stay in Minglan 's yard, then this matter would either not be done, or it would have to drag on for a longer time. At the same time, Minglan will also attract ridicule from the eldest lady and Lin Xiaoniang and other cadres.
The power of the explosion is all accumulated in silence.
Minglan , the heroine in "Do You Know", since the death of her biological mother Wei Xiaoniang, she has begun to deeply appreciate her biological mother's good intentions of teaching her to be 'clumsy'.
Since then, until she married Gu Tingye, Minglan was low-key in the Sheng family. She is quietly learning, watching carefully, observing silently, and looking for opportunities to practice. At the same time, she hid the essence of what she had learned, and continued to play the role of the cowardly and cowardly Sheng family who did not dare to provoke right and wrong, and seemed to be living a trembling life.
It wasn't until she married Gu Tingye and became the head of the house, and when she really had the right and opportunity to be the master of the house, that Minglan showed what she had learned over the years one by one. At this time, the Gu family, who originally looked down on her very much, understood that this little concubine of the originally unknown five-grade official family had extraordinary strength and should not be underestimated. And the eldest lady of the Sheng Mansion also discovered that the timid and well-behaved six girls in front of her were the most powerful housekeepers and husbands among all the daughters of the Sheng family.
Minglan has been smart since she was a child, but her housekeeping skills and control skills have been slowly learned by her grandmother in the Sheng family over the years. Although she has also managed the family for a period of time in the Sheng family, after all, there is the eldest lady who is in charge of the house, and there is a little lady Lin who is eyeing her beside her, and Minglan also took advantage of the opportunity to practice in the Sheng family.
And after getting married, Minglan has the official Gu Tingye who loves her to support her, and all the energy and talent she has accumulated before finally have a stage and a chance to explode. Therefore, Sheng Minglan went from being a small concubine of a five-grade official family to becoming a marquise in one step, and she was able to make a smooth transition and sit firmly with her personal ability. This is the role of the powerful core that she has cultivated through a long period of forbearance and clumsiness in the process of growing up.
When you hit the ground, you amaze everyone.
So, if you have weak energy in the moment, but you still have good dreams in your heart and believe that you can do it in the future. Then please grit your teeth, dress yourself up every day with vigor and ambition, and unswervingly move forward towards your goal.
Don't tell anyone about your plan in this process, but be sure to resolutely implement every small goal and small plan you have set in place, and when you encounter difficulties or bottlenecks, don't care about any face, and be ready to ask who you should ask for advice.
At all times, you must be confident in yourself! Persist, one day you will be able to see the moon.