A good relationship between husband and wife is made out of sleep, do you agree?
"A good relationship between husband and wife comes out of sleep", this sentence may seem a little frivolous at first glance, and some people may even think that this is just a joke. However, if you taste it closely, you will find that there is a deep emotional wisdom involved.
Imagine a husband and wife who are busy during the day and come home at night, but they each play with their phones and ignore each other. Doesn't this kind of life make people feel depressed? How can such a relationship between husband and wife be called good?
As for the other couple, they may be busy during the day, but at night, they will put down their mobile phones, put down their work, snuggle up to each other, and share what they have seen, heard, thought and felt during the day. In such moments, their hearts are tightly connected, and their feelings are invisibly deepened.
Some people say that marriage is like a glass of boiled water, although it is bland, but it is indispensable. And I think that "sleeping" between husband and wife is like adding a piece of sugar to this glass of boiled water, making it even sweeter. "Sleep" here refers not only to physical contact, but also to spiritual integration.
Imagine how warm and happy it feels when you come home after a hard day, someone who can give you a warm hug, someone who is willing to listen to you tell you about the bitterness in your heart, and someone who can cook you a bowl of hot soup.
"Sleeping" between husband and wife is not only a physical need, but also an emotional need. In the process, they can let go of all pretense and show their truest selves. They can share each other's joys, share each other's pains, and face life's challenges together.
Some people say that between husband and wife, what they are most afraid of is sharing the same bed and having different dreams. But I think that as long as you have a heart, as long as you are willing, even if you are in the same bed and have different dreams, you can become one heart and one mind.
As long as they are willing to understand, tolerate and cherish each other in the process of "sleeping", then their relationship between husband and wife will definitely get better and better.
A good relationship between husband and wife is not only based on love, but also on the basis of mutual understanding, mutual respect and mutual support. And "sleep" is a platform that allows them to achieve all this.
In this process, they can experience the ups and downs of life together, share each other's dreams and hopes together, and face all kinds of unknowns in the future together.
Of course, some people may say that in real life, not all couples have such a good relationship. They may have conflicts or even part ways for various reasons.
But what I want to say is that whenever and wherever they want, as long as they work hard, they can make a difference and make their relationship a better couple.
Because, a good relationship between husband and wife is never innate, but needs to be created by the joint efforts of both husband and wife. And "sleeping" is an important part of their creation of a beautiful relationship between husband and wife.
So, when you see a loving couple, don't just envy their love, but also envy their efforts and persistence in the process of "sleeping".
Because, only in this way, can they have true happiness and goodness.