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Peach Blossom Eyes
Peach Blossom Eyes
Preamble:
Is love a blessing or a curse in life? In this world, there are always some people who are destined to experience the difficult twists and turns of love, and their love stories are often bloody and wonderful.
Lin Yilian is a typical representative of them.
This talented diva has gone through countless trials and pains on the road to love, but she finally chose to be celibate, what is the reason for this? Let's walk into her life together and solve this mystery.
遇见初恋
In 1982, Lin Yilian, who was only 16 years old, stepped into the door of radio work.
This girl from an ordinary family, with her lively and cheerful personality and humorous personality, quickly rose to prominence on the radio.
And at this time, she met her first love, Chen Huihong.
Chen Huihong, like Lin Yilian, is also a DJ on the radio.
At first, he didn't have a very good impression of Lin Yilian.
"She was dark and thin, and she looked like she could fall apart at any moment, and she often had a stinky face on her face. "
Chen Huihong commented on Lin Yilian back then.
However, as time passed, Lin Yilian's unique personal charm slowly attracted Chen Huihong.
Despite her young age, Lin Yilian has already shown maturity and stability beyond her age.
Although she may seem melancholy at times, her smile is extraordinarily moving.
Chen Huihong found that she was deeply attracted to this not very outstanding girl.
So, he began to take the initiative to approach Lin Yilian and make her happy in the recording studio, and the two often commute to work together to exchange ideals and dreams.
Once, Chen Huihong made a small mistake during the recording, and the other staff didn't care, but Lin Yilian couldn't help but snicker.
It was at this moment that Chen Huihong realized that he had fallen in love completely.
Under Chen Huihong's enthusiastic pursuit, 18-year-old Lin Yilian quickly agreed to his courtship.
The two fell in love and stuck together all the time.
Chen Huihong saw Lin Yilian's musical talent, so he encouraged and helped her start her career as a singer, introduced her to a gold medal producer, and arranged music courses.
Just when the careers of the two were getting better, an unintentional episode began to crack their relationship.
As there is less and less time to meet, and there are fewer and fewer common topics, love begins to slowly cool down.
In the end, before the relationship came to an end, Chen Huihong and Lin Yilian chose to break up peacefully, avoiding fierce conflicts and hurts.
Although she ended up with her first love, Lin Yilian's music career soon ushered in a new opportunity to take off.
Two people who are crazy about love
In 1992, Lin Yilian met a talented musician, which changed the trajectory of her entire life.
That year, the two collaborated on the same stage and recorded the theme song for the movie "Farewell My Concubine".
During the recording, between the electric and flint, the eyes of the two met, and feelings began to rise in the bottom of their hearts.
This musician is Lin Yilian's greatest true love in this life - Li Zongsheng.
After this encounter, Li Zongsheng was strongly inspired to write the popular song "Ghost Lost Heart".
The lyrics tell his beautiful but cruel love story for Lin Yilian.
"No matter how beautiful the spring breeze is, it can't compare to your smile" - this is exactly the portrayal of Lin Yilian in his heart.
It's a pity that this beautiful love is a real harm to Li Zongsheng's wife Zhu Weiyin.
Zhu Weiyin chose to swallow her anger for the sake of her two daughters.
But she didn't expect that this would make the relationship between the two more pure and firm, vowing to spend the rest of their lives with each other.
In 1994, Lin Yilian went abroad to relax, and Li Zongsheng also held a "Ten Year Farewell Concert" in the same year, and then went to Canada to recuperate.
It was revealed that during that time, both were in Canada, and only Zhu Weiyin was forgotten at home.
Zhu Weiyin persuaded her husband to turn back countless times, but Li Zongsheng has hopelessly sunk in love with Lin Yilian.
This "love triangle" undoubtedly broke Zhu Weiyin's heart.
In 1995, Li Zongsheng created the song "Scars", in which the lyrics of "Love Beauty Can't Be Eternal" completely pierced Zhu Weiyin's heart, and she realized that this relationship could not go back.
Shortly after the Spring Festival in 1997, looking at the frowning Li Zongsheng, Zhu Weiyin finally chose to divorce.
On that day, Li Zongsheng finally showed a childlike smile, just because he was finally free to love Lin Yilian.
Just one year later, Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian got married in Canada and ushered in the crystallization of love.
However, this sensational wedding is not the end of the love between the two, but just an ordinary beginning.
The ups and downs of marriage
After getting married, Lin Yilian's career has been soaring, but Li Zongsheng's creation has fallen into a predicament and he can't write new works.
Although the occasional quarrel is harmless, the inner estrangement is deepening day by day.
In 2001, Li Zongsheng wanted to move to Shanghai to live.
Although Lin Yilian can't bear to see her lover alone, the focus of her work is in Hong Kong, and she has to fly around every time she holds a concert, and long-distance separation brings great inconvenience.
Lin Yilian and Zhu Weiyin are very different.
Zhu Weiyin can resolutely give up her career for love, but Lin Yilian will never be able to do this, because she loves her career as a singer too much.
During the days in Shanghai, Lin Yilian stayed alone in the empty room every day, and Li Zongsheng also fell into extreme loneliness and suffering.
Marriage is not love after all, it requires both parties to maintain their cherishment and understanding of each other after the passion has faded.
However, as time passed, long-distance separation became an excuse for the couple's emotional estrangement, and the inner gap became deeper and deeper.
Eventually, in July 2004, the two had to officially separate, and each issued a statement wishing the other to find new happiness.
In this way, a marriage that had a difficult start fell apart after only 6 years.
This is really a ridiculous and sad ending for the two people who did not hesitate to move forward for love back then.
Despite this, the parties have never explained the cause and outcome of this marriage, and perhaps even they themselves are no longer able to talk about it.
She after the divorce
After the divorce, Lin Yilian joined EMI Records and released the Cantonese album "True Colors", rejuvenating the charm of the "sexy Catwoman" of the year.
At the same time, she also regained her old relationship with her first love Chen Huihong, but only a year later, the two broke up again, and the past love could no longer regain the enthusiasm and passion of the year.
Later, in 2010, Lin Yilian met a new boyfriend, Gong Shuoliang, and the age gap between the two by 11 years did not stop the development of their relationship.
However, 8 years later, the two still chose to part ways.
But Lin Yilian does not regret the many failures in her marriage, she said: "Touching love is regarded as a lifelong exchange." "
During this time, Lin Yilian's ex-husband Li Zongsheng also fell into a trough in his career.
He admitted that among all the female singers he has worked with, Lin Yilian is the one who fascinates him the most.
In 2014, 56-year-old Li Zongsheng re-sang the golden song "When Love Is a Thing of the Past" with Lin Yilian at a concert, but when the lyrics of "Don't mention the past again" sounded, he couldn't help but burst into tears.
Li Zongsheng admitted frankly that he didn't like the city of Shanghai, because it was here that Lin Yilian chose to break up with him, which made him lose too much.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Lin Yilian is over half a hundred years old.
Now 57 years old, she still chooses to be single and firmly denies the possibility of getting back together with Li Zongsheng.
But every time the two of them sing their past works on stage, those warm memories still can't hide their nostalgia.
They are all of the same kind, like two hedgehogs who keep their distance to avoid harm.
Today's Lin Yilian knows what she wants better than before.
She has experienced numerous failures in her marriage, but she has never been crushed by the hardships of the past, but continues to move forward with an optimistic and positive attitude.
For her, the past has long since dissipated, and only precious life experiences remain.
Epilogue:
Love sometimes brings great pain and hurt to people, but it is also these pains that allow people to gain valuable life experience.
Lin Yilian's love story is full of ups and downs, bloody and complicated, but it is this period of ups and downs that has created her calmness and calmness in facing everything calmly.
Perhaps in a person's life, they are destined to go through such hardships in order to forge inner fortitude and tenacity.
Lin Yilian relied on her own courage and optimism to regain her strength from setbacks again and again and continue to pursue her dreams.
Her life course is both talented and painful, but in the end she chooses to be calm about the past in a rational way.
For Lin Yilian, every relationship is a gift from God, even if the ending is uneventful, but it also draws precious life nutrition from it.
She is now alone, but she has never been alone in her heart.
Because she lives her own life and feels the world as she wishes.
This is Lin Yilian, who can be called a winner in life.