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Some people say that as a parent, you should love your children, because they are a piece of flesh that has fallen from your body.
As a parent, how can you not love your children?
However, some people are not so lucky and are not born well treated and are not well cared for.
When he grew up, he was cold by nature, maintained a wary attitude towards anyone, and did not dare to trust anyone, let alone approach anyone.
Quietly stay in your corner by yourself, even if you are injured, you choose to bear it alone, even if you need help, you will not say it easily.
So, there are two reasons why your parents at home don't love you, don't know.
1. Unsound health and dislike by parents.
In fact, our parents at home don't love us, and that's because they don't see hope in us.
He wants to rely on us, but his own health is poor and he can't rely on it.
When I am old, I have to take care of my children, but in fact, I am more or less unwilling in my heart.
You may have had a serious illness when you were a child, and since then, you have not been seen by your parents.
I used to wear beautiful princess dresses, and since then I have worn old clothes and old pants.
My brother can eat dried noodles while you can only eat noodles, and my brother can have the most popular toys of the moment, and you can only watch with a blank eye.
Even your brother dislikes you, your brother doesn't play with you, and your brother thinks you're a fool, so he doesn't play with you.
But even the most fragile life must be cared for and loved.
It's not that a fool doesn't have feelings, it's not that a fool doesn't understand feelings, it's not that a fool doesn't know how to be grateful, and it's not that a fool doesn't know how to be filial.
However, parents don't think so.
Existence is only a burden to him, and existence is only a shame for him.
So, even so, if you are still sober, then don't easily leave your fate in anyone's hands.
Learn to be strong, learn to be brave, and learn to be independent.
No matter how difficult the days are, never give up, even if you are unbearable, you still have to have hope, life is, walking and walking will be relieved, walking and walking, everything will come to the extreme.
Second, there is no ability, and parents do not love.
Parents are role models for their children, and children are the hope of their parents.
It's just that sometimes, parents only look at the surface.
Life is not easy, sometimes you try your best, or live unsatisfactory, sometimes you try your best, it is still difficult.
At this time, parents don't think of your difficulties, not your difficulties.
What my parents thought was that you didn't fight for me, and you lost my face.
You didn't shine on the lintel, and you didn't let me worry, but you still wanted me to help you, so I was angry.
It is difficult for such parents to love themselves, often he only thinks about what he thinks, thinks only about himself, and does not think about anything else.
This kind of parent is very selfish, and in his eyes he only has money, fame, status.
If you can be angry, then you will be smiling, if you can't be angry, you will curse and scold all day long and not be allowed to enter the house.
In fact, no matter what our parents are, we should always be ourselves.
Our parents gave us life so that we could live in this world and experience a good life.
Then live for yourself and don't live up to this wonderful life.
Even if our parents don't love us, even if our parents despise us, it doesn't matter, this world can't be perfect, it's the norm.
Accept calmly, as long as you live seriously, it is enough to have a clear conscience in this life.
Conclusion: How many pains in the original family need to be healed for a lifetime?
Are we one of the thousands?
We can't choose our birth, and we can't choose our parents.
In fact, after reading the four precepts, we can understand that our destiny is in our own hands.
It is necessary to rely on oneself to be aggressive, to rely on oneself to work hard, and to rely on oneself to strive for it.
Maybe we have such a fruit in this life, because we didn't plant good causes in our previous life, so we have to accumulate virtue and do good deeds in this life.
Only with benevolence and innocence in our hearts can we get better and better on this road of life.
Change yourself, don't complain, don't break the jar, don't be resentful, but change yourself and counterattack your life.
In fact, looking at the life around you, there are many people who are more difficult to live than themselves, and there are many experiences that are even more difficult to heal.
If our parents don't love us, what does that mean?
It just shows that we will have a defect when we grow up, but it does not mean that we cannot live, and it does not mean that we will be bad.
Everything is good, everything is good!
The grace of parenting is as great as the sky, just remember it in your heart, and if you have love in your heart, you will not be bound by hatred, and you will be able to live the life you want to live.
May life be sunny, clear and bright.
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