At such a young age, he suffered too much blow to make such a heart-wrenching decision. On April 22, an 11-year-old pair of twin brothers in Fuzhou ran away from home alone after being scolded by their parents for disobedience, and disappeared mysteriously. Twenty-four hours later, the children's bodies were found in a nearby river, and life came to an abrupt end.
The twins ran away from home in a fit of rage, and the police launched an emergency search after the family called the police, but the end result was so bleak. The death of a child has undoubtedly brought irreparable trauma to the entire family, and it is an unacceptable blow to parents. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, just because of a too harsh reprimand from the parents, it caused such a tragedy.
What's even more worrying is that children may not have the idea of actively seeking death at all, they may just want to leave home for a break, but they never think that they have encountered accidents. Life is so fragile and impermanent that a single thought can lead to irreversible consequences.
I think that when we were young, it was common to be scolded and beaten by our parents, but we never had such extreme thoughts. Why are today's children so psychologically fragile, and they can easily choose to end their lives in the face of accusations?
The death of the children has triggered the whole society to think deeply about the current situation of contemporary education. What is wrong with today's children? Why are they so vulnerable? There are many reasons for this.
First, parents dote on their children. Modern families generally have only one or two children, and they are destined to become the "pearl of the palm" of parents. Children are pampered by their parents since they were young, and their lives are taken care of in every detail. Once there is a little scolding, the children will not feel the love of their parents and will find it difficult to bear this blow.
Second, the pressure of life in modern society. With the rapid development of society and the intensification of competition, children are burdened with a heavy burden of learning from an early age. Their childhood life is filled with high-intensity test-taking education, and there is no room for security and fulfillment. If you are scolded by your elders, it is easy to lose the meaning and value of life.
In addition, the impact of the Internet age is also a reason. In the virtual world, it is difficult for children to get real-life experience and lack sufficient awareness of the sacredness of life. After receiving a little blow, it is easy to vent emotions in extreme ways, and even more so ignorant of the precious meaning of life.
It can be said that the current children's psychological tolerance is so fragile, which is not only related to the change of family education model, but also closely related to the transformation of modern lifestyle and social environment.
In the face of this serious problem, we must pay sufficient attention to it and take practical and effective measures to solve it. After all, this is not only about the safety of each child's life, but also about the future and hope of the nation.
First of all, the concept of family education needs to be appropriately adjusted. We can neither be laissez-faire nor harsh. As parents, we should give our children enough love and care, but at the same time, we should also guide them correctly and cultivate their good psychological quality. Instead of treating the children as "little emperors" and unprincipledly conniving at their willful behavior.
Second, primary and secondary education should no longer be overly focused on test scores. We should create more opportunities for children to realize their self-worth, so that they can learn the meaning of life and cultivate tenacious vitality in the practice of activities. Rather than treating them as "containers" that only passively receive knowledge.
Thirdly, in the Internet era, the society should also strengthen mental health education and teach children to correctly understand the meaning of life. Both at the school level and parents themselves, we should pay attention to preventing and resolving children's psychological distress and guide them to establish a positive attitude towards life.
In addition, the relevant departments should also deeply reflect on this incident and increase the supervision of children's rights and interests. We do not tolerate any form of harm to children, whether physical or psychological. Children's right to life should be cared for and protected.
As for these poor twin brothers, who lost their lives, we can only remember their passing with great sympathy and mourning. I hope that this tragedy can effectively awaken the attention of our whole society, so that we can protect the lives of children in a more humane and professional way, so that they can grow up in a healthy and positive environment.
The birth of new life contains the hope of the nation. Only when the vitality of children is fully protected and developed can the future of our country and nation be filled with infinite hope and motivation. Let's work together to create a warmer and more loving environment for children.