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Recently, Internet celebrity Ayang's friend Ding Ding confirmed in the live broadcast that Ayang's wife Shataji had died in Pakistan on April 21 at the age of 35. Her premature daughter also died. At present, the mother and daughter have been buried in the local area. This is undoubtedly another layer of grief for the already battered Ayang family.
Shataji suffered from congenital heart disease before his death, and his physical condition was already poor. After giving birth prematurely in Pakistan, she was weakened and soon diagnosed with sepsis and admitted to the ICU.
Just when she was dying, a phone call from her mother-in-law told Shatagi that her premature daughter had died. Under the double blow of grief from the loss of her child and her own dying health, Shataji did not survive.
Shataji's death was a devastating blow to her family. Especially her 3-year-old daughter, Angela, the poor little girl, cried and begged "Mommy not to leave me" when she first learned that her mother was in danger.
It is really distressing that she has to endure the trauma of losing her mother at such a young age. Angela, who could have had a complete and beautiful home, is now an orphan without a father and mother, how can she bear this cruel reality?
Looking back on the experiences of Shataji and Ah Yang, it can't help but make people sigh. More than a year ago, Shataji experienced the trauma of two miscarriages, which caused physical and mental damage. She could have chosen to recuperate, but became pregnant for the third time in just a few months.
Frequent pregnancies have made her physical condition worse. What is puzzling is why Ah Yang still supports her to continue to give birth knowing that his wife is not in good health. In retrospect, their decision was too rash and presumptuous.
In addition, in order to give birth to the child of his heart, Shataji refused to give birth in China and insisted on going to Pakistan to ask for a child. Medical conditions there are significantly inferior, and the risk of childbirth is greater than in China.
But Ah Yang did not decisively dissuade him, but accompanied him throughout the process, which eventually led to this tragedy. If I had stayed in a domestic hospital for childbirth, perhaps the result would have changed. But at this point, regret and remorse can not be helped.
Before Shataji's death, Ah Yang had asked to hide the news of her premature daughter's death, but this request was not conveyed to her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law directly informed Shataji of the bad news when she was critically ill, which undoubtedly made matters worse. But life comes and goes without a trace, and people's hearts are unpredictable. We should not be demanding of the mother-in-law's choice at that time, she may also want her daughter to have a decision.
Today, Shataji has been reunited with his two lost children. Ah Yang, who remains in the world, faces great grief, and his first priority is to return to China as soon as possible, and then raise Angela with his family as an adult.
We sincerely hope that Angela can be fully cared for and cared for by the people around her, get through the shadow of her childhood, and feel the warmth of home again. At the same time, I also hope that Ah Yang can face the reality strongly, get out of the grief, and protect the only child in the family.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are the only ways to go through life. Shataji chose to embark on this path early. Those of us who are still alive must embrace the arrangement of life and help each other, so that this warmth can alleviate the impermanence and suffering of life. May the deceased rest in peace and the living exuberant, and this encounter has become a precious experience for us to increase our wisdom.
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