After that, in order to force Zhou Moumou to meet him, Zhao Mouchao threatened her by phone many times, and even threatened to kill her family.
On July 20, 2023, in order to ensure the safety of the meeting, Zhou Moumou specially called five men and one woman to accompany him, but he still failed to avoid the tragedy. On the streets of Guangzhou, Zhou Moumou was stabbed by Zhao Mouchao on the street.
Today, April 25, 2024, the verdict in this case was finally announced, and Zhao Mouchao was sentenced to death.
Here, I would like to remind all female friends: when choosing a man to walk with you, you must stay sober, keep your eyes open, and choose carefully.
If the person closest to you is a pervert, then the most dangerous person is always yourself. So, how can tragedies be prevented, and what kind of men might be violent?
1. Lack of empathy
When he sees others being hurt, he always looks indifferent and thinks that others "deserve it". For example, when he heard that pets were abused, he said, "Pets, not people, don't take it too seriously." ”
If he heard that a woman had been violated, he would say, "Who is to blame for dressing like that?"
This is a typical lack of empathy, he is unable to empathize, compare his heart to his heart, feel pain from the perspective of others, and have no sympathy in his heart.
Two people come from different families, have different growth environments and hobbies, and if they want to live well together, they have to understand each other.
But the kind of person who has no empathy doesn't understand your thoughts at all, and they don't care about your feelings. They only have themselves in their hearts, and they are selfish.
Just like when you sometimes can't cook because of menstrual discomfort, normal people will say, "Your body is important, so you should have a good rest." ”
And people who lack empathy will complain: "I originally said that you cooked, but now you can't touch cold water because you have a stomachache, and it turns out to eat takeout." ”
What's even more excessive is: "Why do you have a stomachache at this time, are you doing it on purpose, you want to starve me to death!"
They don't care if you're feeling well, and they always look indifferent. They only think about themselves, and they feel that you have not done what you promised, and they have no food, and they are all to blame.
This kind of person who has no empathy doesn't understand your feelings at all. How can you be respected with him? When he gets tired of pretending, he will reveal his true nature.
2. Strong desire to control
The kind of person who is very controlling, they always quietly find a way to cut you off from family and friends, and isolate you on an island where there is only him.
They will find all sorts of excuses to tie your life to your children, so that you can't participate in other activities and meet new people.
Even, they will limit the amount of fuel in your car on the grounds of safety, in fact, they want to restrict your movements.
These people are also very good at controlling you with the "CPU" set. Many people know about "CPU", but once they become the object of "CPU", they will be fascinated by the authorities, and it is difficult to realize it.
At first, he may say to you, "I was hurt emotionally and thought I would never love again, but you gave me hope of love again" to show your importance and stir up your "heart of the Virgin".
Once your relationship stabilizes, they start making all kinds of demands, such as asking you to answer their calls at any time, not hiding anything from him, etc.
They will pretend to be pitiful, saying that they have been hurt in the past and are now afraid of being deceived again.
Then, they start to magnify your "mistakes" and control you little by little.
If you are fooled by their words and really start to feel that you are at fault, then after a long time, you will be firmly controlled by him.
When you are completely controlled by him, and you have only him in the world, then he can do whatever he wants with you.
Don't think that this kind of thing won't happen to you, because human nature is far more complex and changeable than you can imagine, especially if you have a problem.
3. Use violence to vent emotions
At first, he probably won't do anything to you. But as soon as you quarrel, as soon as he gets emotional, he starts throwing chairs, pounding walls, kicking trash cans, and sometimes even hurting himself.
Don't be superstitious about "this man actually loves you, and he won't be willing to beat you when he quarrels with you".
Once he gets into the habit of venting with violence, he may start to do it to you when the things around him are finished. Because smashing things can't satisfy him anymore.
Why does everyone say that there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence? It is because once he tastes the sweetness of violence, he wants to use violence to solve it when something goes wrong in the future. This is called violent tendencies.
Once you have this inclination, the consequences may not be what you can imagine. If you keep pampering him, the next time it could be a broken bone, an internal bleeding, or something worse.
That's how those terrible cases often start.
If you feel that your significant other has any of these problems, it's best to stay away from them as soon as possible. It's not that people with these problems will definitely commit domestic violence or crimes, but with him, it's really hard for you to be happy.
If you're feeling physically and mentally exhausted and overwhelmed by the man who hurt you for some reason, then consider joining our High Energy Relationships course.
Through learning, you will regain your inner energy and strength, face the challenges in your relationship with a more positive attitude, and ultimately achieve self-redemption and growth.