Parents should not underestimate the social interaction between children, although the social interaction between children is simple but also cruel, maybe today is still a good friend, tomorrow will tell you "we don't play with you"
This child is inevitably sad and sad, as a parent, don't say that we don't play with them, just be yourself.
These words were superficial and did not really help the child.
Parents need to help their children regain their confidence first, and when their children are rejected, the most important thing to do is to help her get out of depression first.
Once, when my daughter came back from kindergarten, she was very sad and told me:
"Today I played with XX again, but she still didn't want to be friends with me."
"Moreover, xx won't let me play with B, saying that they are good friends."
I told my daughter: "Mom saw that you took the initiative to play with xx children, very friendly and confident, after xx rejected you, not only did you not get frustrated, but today you also bravely tried to play with xx again, like a little sun, confident and sunny, so mom is not worried about your ability to make friends at all, mom knows that you can quickly make good friends wherever you go."
In any case, pick the child's bright moments first, and help the child bring back his self-confidence little by little. When she feels okay, she feels better.
Help your child change his mind
Many children will blame themselves for the problem when they are rejected, thinking that others don't like me or that they are not good enough.
So I later told my daughter:
Mom is not worried about you making friends, but is a little worried about xx children, she seems to be still learning how to accept invitations from others, even if she wants to play with other children now, she doesn't know how to express herself in a friendly way.
After my daughter heard my words, her little eyes immediately lit up.
So be sure to tell your child:
When others reject you, it's not that they don't want to play with you, but because they're still learning how to play with children.
Others laugh at you, not because you are not beautiful, but because he has not learned to be polite.
Let the child develop such a receptive thinking from an early age, and if she encounters rejection and rejection in the future, she will not easily put the problem only on herself and cannot get out of frustration.