What does it mean for a girl to have her nose bitten off by a mouse? It's not just a physical loss, it's a huge mental trauma.
In 1996, Xu Qinqin, a girl from Anyuechi County, Sichuan, experienced such a misfortune when she was 29 days old. Since then, she has lived a life of inferiority and does not dare to raise her head to be a person.
It wasn't until she met her true love Lin Zhouqiang that with the help of her husband and all walks of life, Qinqin finally ushered in a turning point in her life and embarked on a new path.
Xu Qinqin
Qinqin's tragic experience
In the autumn of 1996, an ordinary farmhouse in a mountain village in Sichuan welcomed a lovely baby girl. "
The Xu family was very happy about Qinqin's birth, looking forward to her growing up quickly and adding more joy to the family, Qinqin was born 29 days ago, one ordinary afternoon, her mother Lin Yuezhen breastfed her daughter as usual, and saw that she was asleep, so she went to work in the field.
More than two hours later, when her mother was immersed in her love for her daughter, Qinqin's seven-year-old sister Xu Li ran into the field and shouted: "Mom, go back quickly!
When Lin Yuezhen heard her daughter's shout, she was shocked, threw down her sickle, and rushed home. The moment she opened the door, the scene in front of her made her legs weak, and she collapsed to the ground, and her little daughter Qinqin was lying on the bed, her face was bloody and blurred, and her little nose was gone!
The whole family hurriedly sent Qinqin to the county hospital, and during the rescue process, the doctor did his best, but Qinqin's nose could never be recovered.
From then on, she became a "noseless girl" and began a tragic fate, and as she grew older, Qinqin's appearance became more and more painful for her.
Xu Qinqin
He was ridiculed when he went to school
When it was time to go to school, under the persuasion of her parents, Qinqin still walked into the campus with a nervous mood, however, the reality was as she expected, and the first time her classmates saw her, they screamed in fright and avoided it.
They pointed at her to her face, calling her a "monster" and an "ugly monster", and when class ended, no one wanted to play with Qinqin. Qin Qin often sat alone in the corner, crying silently.
The teacher said to Qinqin distressedly: "Child, don't pay attention to their words, you are a kind and sensible good girl, and you will definitely meet people who appreciate you when you grow up." "
Qinqin sobbed and nodded, but the haze in her heart became heavier and heavier, she didn't understand, she was like other children, why did everyone treat her like this?
Since then, Qinqin has become more reticent, she no longer takes the initiative to talk to her classmates, and she does not dare to leave the classroom after class, she is afraid of seeing the strange eyes of her classmates, and she is afraid of becoming the object of ridicule again.
Drop out of school to work
Gradually, Qinqin began to hate school, hated this world full of discrimination, and finally, at the age of 12, Qinqin, who couldn't bear the pressure, chose to drop out of school. She locked herself in her home, saw no one, and spent her days in tears.
In the days after dropping out of school, Qinqin could barely reach the door, and the laughter and laughter of the children in the village often pierced her heart, and sometimes, Qinqin would lie on the window and watch other girls wearing beautiful clothes, with a bright smile on her face.
As for herself, she can only hide in this small world, avoid people's strange eyes, hide from this cruel world, what is the meaning of her life? Why does God punish her like this?"
Xu Qinqin
Looking at her daughter's heartbroken appearance, Lin Yuezhen's heart was like a knife. She gently walked up to her daughter and took her into her arms. "Child, Mom feels sorry for you! You have to be strong and don't be defeated by these tribulations."
"Fate is fair to everyone, but in different ways, believe me, one day, there will be a boy who will find out your goodness, truly love you, and take care of you. "
But Qinqin didn't seem to believe her mother's words, she said in despair, "I don't want to live like this anymore, I want to leave here and go to a place where no one knows me."
After Lin Yuezhen heard this, she knew that her daughter was going to run away from home! But Qinqin had made up her mind, she shook her head and said: "Mom, I know that you are for my good, but I really have enough of this kind of life, I would rather suffer outside than live in hiding like this."
Looking at her daughter's resolute eyes, she hugged her daughter tightly, took out all the belongings from the box, and stuffed them into Qinqin's hands. Early the next morning, Qinqin packed her simple bags, and before leaving, her father Xu Dalin patted her daughter on the shoulder with red eyes and told her to take good care of herself outside.
In this way, with the determination of the future, Qinqin left the small mountain village where she lived and got on the shuttle bus to the county seat.
Subsequently, Qinqin went to Guangzhou to work, hoping to start over. But the unforgiving reality hit her hard again. Workers pointed fingers at her, children would cry when they saw her, and a heartbroken Qinqin quit her job and returned to her hometown, isolating herself from the world.
Tragic marriage
The peers in the village started a family one after another, the mother felt sorry for her daughter and gave her a family affair, Li Qiang is a small factory owner in a nearby town, has a career, and seems to be loyal and honest.
Under Lin Yuezhen's repeated persuasion, Qinqin finally nodded and agreed to the marriage, however, life after marriage was like a nightmare. Li Qiang is polite in front of outsiders, but as soon as he arrives at home, his true form is revealed.
The next day, Qinqin returned to her parents' door, Qinqin finally told what happened during this time, Lin Yuezhen was very angry after hearing it, and wanted to rush to Li Qiang to ask for an explanation, but Qinqin stopped her mother, she wiped away her tears, and said firmly: "Mom, I want to divorce him!"
Lin Yuezhen saw that her daughter had made up her mind, so she could only sigh and nodded, and in this way, with the support of her parents, relatives and friends, Qinqin and Li Qiang went through the divorce procedures.
Meet true love
After returning to her hometown, Qinqin chose to lock herself in her room and seek solace in the online world. She longed to find someone who could understand and accept her, even if only in a virtual space.
One day in January 2017, a friend applied to jump into Qinqin's QQ, the applicant's screen name is "Set You in My Heart", and the avatar is a handsome boy.
Soon, the two began to chat. The other party told Qinqin that his name is Lin Zhouqiang, 23 years old this year, he is Qinqin's hometown, his speech and demeanor are polite, and there is a gentle and considerate heartfelt expression between the lines.
Xu Qinqin
Qinqin gradually let down her guard, opened her heart, and chatted with Zhou Qiang every day, which was one of the few happy times in her life, and as the days passed, the relationship between the two was also quietly growing.
Finally, Zhou Qiang couldn't hold back his heart's desire and asked Qinqin to meet, "Let's meet! I want to tell you in person how much I like you." Zhou Qiang said on the other end of the phone, his voice full of eagerness.
Lin Zhouqiang
However, Qinqin hesitated, she had been ridiculed and discriminated against since she was a child, and she really didn't dare to face Zhou Qiang. She was afraid that after Zhou Qiang saw her appearance, he would dislike herself like everyone else.
Zhou Qiang's persistence and sincerity finally touched Qinqin, and she agreed to meet Zhou Qiang and agreed to be in a park in her hometown. In the spring of 2017, the sun was shining and the birds were singing and the flowers were fragrant.
Qinqin stood under a big tree in the park, waiting for Zhou Qiang's arrival. In the distance, she saw a tall figure walking towards her. Qinqin's heart was pounding, and she lowered her head nervously.
"Qinqin, it's me. A gentle voice rang in my ears. Qin Qin raised her head and met a pair of affectionate eyes. It was a handsome face, with perseverance and courage between his eyebrows.
"You, don't you dislike me?" She asked, choked up. Zhou Qiang looked at the tears on Qinqin Qinqin's face, and said firmly: "Silly girl, how can I dislike you? In my eyes, you are more beautiful than any girl in the world." You are strong and courageous, and that is the most valuable quality. "
Listening to Zhou Qiang's confession, Qinqin could no longer control the emotion in her heart, this was the first time she felt that it was such a warm taste to be cared for and loved by others.
From that day on, Zhou Qiang and Qin Qin officially established a relationship. Zhou Qiang took care of Qinqin in every way and took care of her daily life.
Lin Zhouqiang and Xu Qinqin
In June 2017, Zhou Qiang and Qinqin hid from their parents and registered their marriage at the Civil Affairs Bureau of a small town, and since then, they have started their own small family life.
After marriage, Zhou Qiang took great care of Qinqin. Qinqin also gradually walked out of the haze with the encouragement of Zhou Qiang, and had a long-lost smile on her face. However, Zhou Qiang's parents never accepted this daughter-in-law and looked at Qinqin coldly.
Lin Zhouqiang and Xu Qinqin's marriage certificate
Perform deformation
But Zhou Qiang and Qinqin didn't care, they firmly believed that as long as the two of them were together, there was no difficulty that could not be overcome, and in order to get rid of the trouble of appearance, they decided to have plastic surgery.
At first, I was a little hesitant, worried about the risks of plastic surgery, and even more worried that Qinqin would lose her unique personality and temperament. But looking at Qinqin's expectant eyes, Zhou Qiang finally decided to support her decision.
One day in February 2017, Zhou Qiang accompanied Qinqin to Chongqing Huamei Plastic Surgery Hospital for consultation, and the two walked into the hospital hall.
The doctor carefully examined Qinqin's facial condition and said that with the current technology, Qinqin can perform nose reconstruction surgery to improve her facial contour, but at the same time, the doctor also reminded Qinqin that any surgery has certain risks and needs to be carefully considered.
Later, with Zhou Qiang's encouragement, Qinqin made up her mind to undergo cosmetic surgery, and the doctor carefully examined Qinqin's facial condition, and then said, "With the current technology, we can perform nose reconstruction surgery for you and improve the appearance of your nose."
At the same time, we can also make your facial contours softer and more pronounced through fat filling and skin grinding, and Zhou Qiang has been by her side to cheer her on before the surgery.
The operation was very successfulWhen the gauze was removed, Qin Qin was pleasantly surprised to find that she was like two people in the mirror, the bridge of her nose that had collapsed before was straightened, and her uneven face became smooth.
Qinqin cried with joy, and excitedly threw herself into Zhou Qiang's arms and felt extremely happy, because she knew that no matter what happened, she had Zhou Qiang's strong backing.
This time, her life has changed dramatically, she is no longer the weak woman hiding at home and crying, but a strong and independent woman in the new era.
She understands that there is still a long way to go in life, but as long as she has hope and courage, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
She knows that the self who was once bullied has completely become a thing of the past, and from now on, she will strive to live a wonderful life and interpret the meaning of life in her own way, because she understands that every life is equal and precious, and all deserve to be treated and cared for.
Resources
Red Star News: Nose bitten off by mice at 29 days old Sichuan "noseless girl" finally has a new nose after 4 surgeries
https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1584304811579177292&wfr=spider&for=pc
Upstream news: After 4 surgeries in half a year, the "noseless girl" finally realized her dream
https://www.cqcb.com/hot/2017-09-13/481481_pc_3.html