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Preface
Recently, a mother in Hainan was exposed to going out to work and locking her three children at home. What is the situation, what is the secret?
The woman went out to work and her three children were locked in the house
On April 23, the exposure of a video drew everyone's attention to three children. Is it because they are childish and cute, of course not. It's because of the pitiful situation of the three children.
The incident occurred in Hainan, and the reason why it has attracted attention is because the current situation of the three children is that they are locked in their homes. Then someone wants to say, what is the fuss about locking up at home for the safety of the child.
But the reality is much worse than everyone thinks, according to relevant sources, the three children are locked in their homes and can only eat one meal a day.
And it can be seen from the video that the fact that these three young children can only eat one meal a day is not the most embarrassing.
What's even more unbelievable is their living environment, the children are too young to have the awareness to go to the bathroom at all. So it is obvious that you can see in the video that this home is already full of feces and urine, how can such an environment allow children to live with peace of mind.
The three children also cried because they couldn't eat, and these actions attracted the attention of the neighbors. Immediately, some milk and food were taken out from home to feed the children's hunger.
Seeing this situation, I think that many people are wondering, what about the adults of this family, don't they even care about it? Just let the three children not even eat a meal in such a dirty and messy environment, like words?
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Neighbors tell the truth
This incident immediately aroused everyone's attention to the growth of children and adolescents. Not to mention that it is irresponsible to let the three children at home, but not even taking care of the children's meals does make people feel even more excessive.
But the neighbors concerned have clarified here.
They said that these three children have mothers, but their mothers are also very difficult, otherwise they would not let their children face the current embarrassment.
So what is the reason for the current situation?
From the revelations of the neighbors, the whole of the incident was gradually restored.
The insider said that the mother of these three children actually had two children, and the woman got married early at the time and gave birth to children when she was a teenager, but she didn't expect the marriage to last a long time before she divorced.
Incredibly, these five children were all raised by the woman alone, and now these three children are around, and the other two children seem to be helping to take care of them at a relative's house.
She herself was still young and had to raise three children on her own, which is unimaginable for anyone to happen.
The surrounding neighbors also noticed that it was not easy for her to take care of the children alone, and she would also be able to help them with their daily life.
Now this situation is also due to the fact that the child's mother has recently found a job, and may not think of a better way, so she will lock the three children in the house.
However, there is still a lack of important understanding, and the child is too young to be taken care of by adults.
But fortunately, the noise of the children alarmed the neighbors, and they finally had their meals.
Netizens were shocked to appear in the comment area
This incident has drawn attention to the difficult life of this family, and many people sympathize with the mother's plight, but also praise her efforts.
After all, in today's society, a person's life will still be overwhelmed by pressure from all walks of life, which is why more and more young people are reluctant to have the next generation.
And this mother, who is less than 30 years old, is still trying to find a way out and build the future of her children with her own abilities and hands, so we can only say that the way she takes care of her children is wrong, but we can't deny her love for her children as a mother.
She also did let us see the woman's weak but mother's strength.
But some people said that if the conditions are not good, they have to have so many children, not only to suffer themselves, but also to their children.
It's hard to say whether her decision was wrong or not, because no one can predict what the future holds. But we can't blame her for everything, now we are just standing in God's shoes, or feeling unworthy for her. Or feel sorry for her.
But this woman, as a mother, is indeed already trying to survive, for her and for the child.
Therefore, in addition to this person, everyone is also concerned about where the child's father or other family members are, why they can't help out, and let a mother take care of everything.
The government has stepped forward to provide subsistence allowances
This matter is related to people's livelihood and people's feelings, and the local government has also quickly dispatched to solve the matter.
On April 24, after learning about the situation, the staff of the Women's Federation applied for a subsistence allowance for the family. There is a monthly subsidy of 3,000 yuan, and the three children will also have kindergarten care education. And in order to prevent the woman from going to work in the middle of the night and to take care of the children in time, the local government also provided her with new jobs.
The rest will also continue to pay attention to their lives and help in a timely manner.
Extension and reflection
This incident has made everyone think about the current social situation.
Some netizens left a message in the comment area: The greatest kindness of adults is not to have children indiscriminately.
This can't help but make everyone think of the reason why many young people are reluctant to have children today.
In the eyes of many people, the current situation of the woman in the video is the last thing everyone wants to meet, the already depressing life, regardless of the partner and the child waiting to be fed, which is a heavy pressure for young people now.
Moreover, today's young people have knowledge and thoughts, and they also know what kind of experience they have gone through in the process of growing up to have their current self.
Therefore, in their opinion, if they want to have a child, they should take on the responsibility of parenthood.
But raising a child is never as simple as talking, so when they haven't figured out their future, they don't dare to raise a young child easily, otherwise it is really as netizens said, not only their own suffering, but also their children.
Therefore, when the country advocates the second and third children, you might as well think about the reasons why no one wants to have children at the moment.
Because sometimes not giving birth is also a kind of kindness.
epilogue
There must be many similar livelihood situations, and more attention needs to be paid to them. This also reminds the relevant departments to carefully consider the current development situation, and implement the assistance policy for those who really need help, so that there can be fewer and fewer embarrassing and difficult family lives like this.
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