Text丨Xinlan Shuhua
Editor丨Xinlan Shuhua
Preface
As a well-known boss in the Beijing circle, Ge You has created many classic roles, such as Fugui in the movie "Alive" and the master who is good at pretending to be confused in "Let the Bullets Fly".
He successfully captured the hearts of the audience with his superb acting skills, and because of this, when his name is mentioned, the first thing people think of is his achievement of winning the actor Grand Slam.
But few people know that this actor, who is loved by the audience, has been with his wife Dink for 30 years, and what is even more unexpected is that Ge You actually announced that he had a son when he was 51 years old.
Was this his biological child? Did he give up Dink with his wife?
The son who came out of the way
It turned out that the boy was nominally Ge You's son, but in fact he was not his biological flesh and blood, but the child of his friend Fu Biao.
So who is this Fu Biao?
Fu Biao was born in 1963, and was admitted to the China Railway Art Troupe in 1984 as an actor.
His fate with Ge You was formed as early as 1991 when he was not famous.
In 1991, Ge You rose to prominence because of the movie "Overheating" and won the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actor, and in the same year, after the release of "The Story of the Editorial Department", his career went to the next level.
In the play, Ge You plays the role of the actor Li Dongbao, while Fu Biao is just a soy sauce character, the two fell in love as soon as they met, and quickly became friends, often making appointments to drink tea and chat together.
After "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge" was widely acclaimed, Fu Biao's career has also improved, and he has participated in many excellent works, and won the 21st Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actor in 2001 with "The Story of Escort".
Unfortunately, the world is impermanent, Fu Biao was diagnosed with liver cancer in 2004, and the situation took a turn for the worse, and he emptied his family funds in order to treat the disease.
As a friend, Ge You was very worried, went to the hospital every now and then, and even made a promise with other friends, just to make Fu Biao feel at ease.
But God did not fulfill people's wishes, in 2005, Fu Biao still passed away, and when a group of friends were grieving, they still did not forget to fulfill their promises.
Ge You adopted Fu Biao's underage son Fu Zien, and this is the scene where he brought the child home.
Artist of both virtue and art
After Ge You's wife He Cong learned about the cause and effect, instead of getting angry, she praised her husband for doing the right thing, and then the two expressed their meticulous care for Fu Zien with practical actions and cared for his growth.
Under the cultivation of Ge You and his wife, Fu Zien, who was born in 1991, chose to follow in the footsteps of his two fathers and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became a young director.
Ge You, who was born in 1957, is 67 years old this year, and throughout his life, it can be said that he has achieved the ultimate in every field, and he can afford the title of a virtuous and artistic artist.
As an actor, he was a late bloomer, and even when he frequently hit a wall in his youth, he did not give up the road of acting, and it is precisely because of his persistence in art and his willingness to spend time crafting the role that he has contributed many classics to the audience.
Whether it is the previously mentioned "Alive" and "Let the Bullets Fly", or "Party A and Party B", "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", including the spicy and satirical "The Story of the Editorial Department", they are all good works that can stand the test of time.
Excellent works are naturally inseparable from the efforts and dedication of the creative staff, and Ge You is obviously among them, because of his interpretation, one role after another has become extremely vivid and has a different charm.
As a husband, after he became famous, he was not blinded by the false prosperity of the entertainment industry, but always remembered the promise he made when he asked to marry his wife and fulfilled it to the end, and spent his life pampering his wife, which can be called a good man.
As a friend, Ge You was able to patiently comfort his friend Fu Biao when he was frustrated, help him when he was sick and hit a low point in his life, and was willing to adopt the other party's underage son as his own.
Ge You's Dink marriage
If you want to talk about the process of Ge You and his wife He Cong getting married, it is really a beautiful talk.
In 1985, Ge You was still working in the ACFTU Art Troupe at that time, and his life was as plain as water.
But fate is so wonderful, one day Ge You went to the National Art Museum of China to see an exhibition at the invitation of a friend, and met his true daughter He Cong by chance.
He Cong is a painter, and because his work needs to go to exhibitions and study, the two met in this way through the introduction of his colleagues.
Ge You's impression of He Cong was unexpectedly good, a bit of love at first sight.
Since the two met, he has kept creating opportunities for chance encounters, making his relationship with He Cong closer and closer.
At that time, Ge You was not famous, but he moved his sweetheart with his sincere heart and humorous personality, and the two officially became lovers.
But the good times didn't last long, for this son-in-law, He Cong's parents obviously did not approve of it, and forced their daughter to break up with the other party.
In the face of the pressure exerted by her parents, He Cong also wavered, but in the end she chose to stick to the person she liked.
Ge You did not live up to his girlfriend's wishes, carefully planned the future of the two, and won the approval of his prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law with determination.
After overcoming the biggest obstacles, the two finally entered the palace of marriage.
After getting married, Ge You's career is thriving, and he has received many invitations to plays, and it is common for husband and wife to get together less and leave more.
In order to make his wife feel more secure, Ge You took the initiative to let her be his assistant.
The glitz and glamour of the entertainment industry did not destroy the trust between the two, but made them understand each other and deepened the relationship between them.
Since both of them are career-oriented personalities, they discussed maintaining Dink's marriage and living a beautiful world between them.
You must know that Dink is risky, and there are many people in the circle who regret Dink and choose to divorce and have children.
But Ge You did not live up to his wife's trust, and he has always doted on He Cong very much.
epilogue
In the complex entertainment industry, there are very few pure people like Ge You. Although his achievements in his career are respectable, the character he shows in his private life is even more eye-catching and worth learning.
In life, we should maintain a pure and kind character, cultivate ourselves, plant good causes, and form good relationships, and a happy life may be pieced together from a little bit of good karma.