Preface
It is said that parents love their children for far-reaching reasons, while some parents dote on their children infinitely, causing them to embark on the wrong path of life, and actor Di Ying implements such a wrong educational concept.
Not only does she not believe in the difference between men and women, she spoils her son Sun Anzuo as a mother's treasure, and also connives, why does she develop such a view of parenting? What has she experienced in her life to get satisfaction from her son so much?
Temper tantrums and unhappy marital experiences
In fact, Sun Anzuo's temper is inseparable from Di Ying's words and deeds, after all, Di Ying's temper has always been very irritable.
At the beginning, she was also born in an art family that did not worry about eating and drinking, and her parents were art practitioners, giving her a very privileged life.
However, there were unforeseen circumstances, and the happy life did not last long, Di Ying's father died due to an accident.
In order to support her daughter, her mother carried everything in her life. In order to protect the dignity of herself and her mother, Di Ying was forced to become a "tigress" and developed a big sister who did not accept it.
Because of her family's financial constraints and her good looks, coupled with her parents' artistic influence, she naturally embarked on the road of acting.
Unexpectedly, in the entertainment industry, her temper has not changed, and she often conflicts with people, even celebrities who are bigger than her wrist, she will do it if she is not convinced.
Lan Jieying didn't arrive on time on the set because of traffic problems, which made her feel very unhappy, and as soon as Lan Jieying came, she walked up scolding and kicked Lan Jieying.
Her actions frightened everyone, and Lan Jieyingfang's eyes widened even more, explaining that they had asked the crew for leave, but she still didn't give up, thinking that the other party was just late because she felt that she was hot and looked down on everyone in the crew.
This incident was obviously a misunderstanding, but she always felt that she was doing the right thing for heaven, and she boasted on the show, which made people feel speechless.
In addition to her sense of justice, she shot to help her boyfriend get angry. Before, her boyfriend was a crew member, and she was criticized by the director because the work was generally done, and when she saw her unhappy boyfriend, her nameless ghost fire jumped from her heart and beat the director.
In fact, many people have been beaten by her, but she is not ashamed but proud, and feels that everyone who has been beaten by herself will be popular, and everyone who says that she beats likes to be beaten by her.
Obviously, few men can hold such a temper, so her love path is very unsmooth.
Although she has a big temper, she is really beautiful, so she has always been worried about getting married. At the age of twenty-three, a rich boss proposed to her.
Even if she married into a wealthy family, she did not restrain her temper, and after a few months, the other party finally couldn't stand it anymore and quickly divorced her.
Later, she had a relationship with Li Guoguo, but for the same reason, the two ended up divorced after six years of marriage.
Although she has been dumped because of her bad temper, Di Ying never felt that she should change. On the contrary, I felt that I had not met the right person.
Finally, at the age of thirty-five, she finally met her true son, actor Sun Peng.
Compared with Di Ying, Sun Peng is not a good bird, he once broke the news that he and his classmates had molested a female teacher, so the two of them are also what kind of pot and what cover.
Di Ying, who loves Sun Peng deeply, wants a child very much, but she is not young anymore, and it is very difficult for her to conceive. I did the test tube four times before I had my current son, Sun Anzuo.
But the marriage between the two was not stable because of this, she and Sun Peng divorced once, and later wanted to give her son a complete home, so she remarried again, and with a son, she could no longer hide her desire for control and doting, and began the road of a perverted mother.
Spoiled mother's love
Because this son is not easy to come by, Di Ying can be said to be devoted to him, and even has almost no self.
In order to give her son the best, she insisted on breastfeeding, generally speaking, children should be weaned at about three years old, but Di Ying, who was reluctant to give up her son, did not wean her son until she was twelve years old.
And she is also keen to sleep in the same bed with her son, even when her son is at the age of development, she does not consider splitting the bed, and lets her son stroke her chest to sleep every night.
This is a very bad habit, but Di Ying didn't realize her mistake at all, and she didn't give up intimate contact with her son until she felt that her son had a reaction that belonged to a man.
This is not the most rebellious, in order to show her love for her son, she and her son participated in a kissing contest, she kissed her son for three hours, and did not separate her mouth until her son fell asleep.
In order to feed her son fat, she can stare at her son for seven hours a day to eat, and she is not satisfied until he gains ten pounds a month, and she has reached an outrageous level in her son's friendship.
She is very strict with her son's friendship and privacy control, once Sun Anzuo ate a piece of cake made by her classmate's mother, she went crazy, and used salt water to wash her son's stomach, and she must let her son spit out all the food he ate.
Because of this, Sun Anzuo has developed a withdrawn and rebellious character, not only has a serious tendency to violence, but also has no friends. In order to change the situation, the couple sent him to the United States to study, thinking that the change of environment would allow their son to make more friends, but they sent his son to prison.
As we all know, the United States has very loose gun control, which has led to many school shootings, but it is generally the marginal white boys in the school who do so, and it is hard to imagine that Sun Anzuo is almost on the same list as them.
It turned out that he was just as withdrawn even when he went to the United States, and he also aggravated his antisocial personality, not only stockpiling a lot of guns and ammunition, but also openly threatening the school that he would carry out a school shooting.
Although it was only an attempt, he was also arrested by the police and faces nine years in prison. Hearing the news, his parents sold their house and car and hired the best lawyer to reduce his sentence to more than two hundred days.
After returning to China, he did not restrain himself at all, not only did he become an Internet celebrity without doing his job, but also messed with the relationship between men and women, and impregnated another girl when he was in love.
In addition to the problems in his private life, he also made even bigger mistakes and constantly touched the red line of the law.
He gathered with fox friends and dog friends to take drugs in KTV, and even when the police came, he did not restrain himself, and he looked like he was not afraid of heaven and earth.
And he not only takes drugs, but also makes drugs, which is really creepy.
epilogue
It is correct for mothers to love their children, but they must also pay attention to methods and scales, blindly spoiling will only harm children, I hope that similar tragedies will be fewer and fewer, and I also hope that Sun Anzuo can be punished by the law.
Information sources:
News/Sun Anzuo's Prison No.18002136 "Looking forward to returning to Taiwan in June to participate in the Bidian"!The slowest 4/2 to see my parents.Dongsen News.2018-03-31 [Citation date:2018-04-1]
Di Ying Star Information Daquan-Di Ying News.iQiyi [Citation date: 2021-05-13]