1. As for the phrase "marrying someone is marrying life, and marrying any kind of man is what kind of life is", I think it is too absolute, and it completely links a person's fate to the person he marries. Although the choice of partner can have an important impact on a person's life, an individual's fate is determined by a combination of factors, including personal efforts, social circumstances, family background, etc. Therefore, marriage cannot be completely equated with marriage.
2. Marrying a man who has a good temper, loves you, spoils you, loves you, and respects you in everything will indeed bring people great happiness and satisfaction, but it does not mean that you have the treatment of a queen. Marriage is a joint effort and dedication of both parties, and it requires mutual understanding and tolerance. No matter how good your partner is, if you don't work hard to manage your marriage, it will be difficult to maintain long-term happiness.
3. Marrying a man who is selfish, dutiful, or lazy can indeed bring a lot of difficulties and challenges to married life. But this does not mean that all such men will be like this, nor does it mean that marrying such a man will necessarily not be possible. Everyone has their own room for growth and change, and the key is whether both parties are willing to work together to improve the relationship.
4. When choosing a partner, you really need to keep your eyes open and understand the character and character of the other person. But this does not mean that appearance and material conditions are not important, and these factors can also have an impact on the marital relationship. It is important to find a partner who aligns with your values and is supportive and understanding of each other.
5. Every girl wants to find that person who is worthy of being entrusted with her life, but it takes time and effort to find. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish and manage existing relationships, and don't give up easily. Marriage is not child's play and requires serious and hard work. I hope that every girl can find her own happiness.