In the countryside, there are a lot of sayings and proverbs, many of which are still very reasonable, and it will be the May Day holiday soon, and the old man said, "May Day 3 does not borrow, borrow the family to cry", so during the May Day holiday, what can we not lend to others? Understand that don't commit a taboo, and it will be too late to regret it.
As we all know, some old sayings, are the ancestors with life experience summed up, they are not only easy to understand, but also contain a lot of truth, even today, these various sayings, still worth learning, it has become an indispensable part of our lives.
In life, borrowing other people's things, or borrowing things from others, seems to be a normal thing, but often the conflicts between the two people are also because of these small things, which leads to them. As mentioned here, "I don't borrow on May 13, I borrow my family to cry", which is very worthy of our understanding and learning, what are the three things that can't be borrowed? Will it really lead to disharmony among the family, and even bring quarrels and crying?
The author believes that there is still a certain truth, the ancients had three non-borrowing, namely the house and the medicine jar and the knife, this is the three non-borrowing in the mouth of the ancients, but today's three do not borrow, but there is a new understanding, which also shows that these sayings are also according to the times, change and change.
May 13 don't borrow, borrow your family to cry, 3 don't borrow what?
1. Don't borrow a car
May Day will usher in a relatively long holiday, at that time, the highway will be free, the car will be more, but there is a car, note, even if you don't use the car, it is best not to lend it to others, the reason is also very simple, some people borrow a car when they talk well, but after borrowing it, they will play missing, and you can't find anyone when you need to use the car.
Secondly, the car is soiled, sticked, and the car stall is in a lawsuit, these are things that can happen at any time, and in such a situation, as a car owner, you need to bear these responsibilities.
2. Don't borrow money
At this time, you lend money to others, unless your funds are relatively abundant, and you don't care about money, then you can borrow at will, but most people are ordinary people, and money is slowly earned back, so naturally you have to be more cautious.
If you have money, it is best not to lend it to others, so as not to bring trouble to yourself, especially on May Day, when you encounter unexpected situations, you also need to use funds.
3. Don't borrow a house
There is another kind of thing, the ancients mentioned that the three do not borrow, there is a house, today's three do not borrow, there must also be a house, it is a harbor of a person's soul, if you lend the house to others, do something hurtful, or make a mess in the house, it will also affect a person's mood.
Therefore, on May Day, if someone comes to your house to play, or if you have a house in another city, it is best not to lend it to others to live, so as not to bring big trouble to yourself.
In the author's opinion, we often say that we don't borrow three now, there is still a certain truth, the car is lent to others in an accident, or the money is lent to others, people do not pay it back, the house is lent to others, and it is destroyed, it will definitely affect the family conflict, and in the end, family quarrels, husband and wife discord appear, then the gains outweigh the losses.
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