More and more people in life are living soberly, transparent, not embarrassed by themselves, not internal friction of themselves, not internal friction because of others, and life is getting better and better.
1. Keep your attitude when interacting with people, I will treat people who are worthy, and I will never let them down, and I will not say more about them with a smile if they are not worth it.
There is no need or possibility to please everyone, just satisfy yourself.
It is not necessary or possible to be good friends with everyone, to be a principled person, not to be unkind to every enthusiasm, and never to please any indifference.
2. Put your own feelings first, and don't care about other people's opinions and evaluations of you.
Even if others feel unhappy with themselves, or even have a lot of disappointment in themselves, don't care too much about yourself, because there are people with the same frequency in life, and there are people with different frequencies.
Because those who don't understand you, no matter how attentive, sincere, and sincere they are to treat you well, the other party will not be satisfied.
3. Don't easily reveal the part of your heart that you don't want to show to others, friends who are easily obtained by sympathy may not really respect and understand you, and may even take advantage of your weaknesses to hurt you.
Don't say something you shouldn't say, keep it a secret in your heart, and don't let yourself regret it after speaking.
Fourth, never for anyone, stop yourself to get better, no matter how bad a relationship you encounter, or a bad relationship, don't stop, they are just a passerby in your life, and you yourself are the protagonist.
Fifth, don't get angry, don't get angry, no matter what happens, don't get along with yourself, don't sulk, get angry and hurt your body, no one can replace you when you fall ill, and you are still the one who suffers.
Life belongs to you, you must understand that making yourself happy is what you should do, be less angry, and don't help others embarrass yourself.
There is only one life, you must understand that the mood belongs to you, the life belongs to you, and you must grasp it well. Life needs to be happy, not sad.
Sixth, it's hard to come to the world for a trip, don't add blockage to yourself for the imperfect past, you put it down, you can't let it go, the ending has not changed, the difference is just that the people who put it down have gained a sense of ease and happiness, and the people who can't let it go can only carry their own burdens, carry the weight forward, and not be happy.
7. There is only one life, learn to experience it well, feel it well, and enjoy this life well, so that you will not come to the world in vain.
So, don't get along with yourself, but give yourself more warmth, more understanding, and more happiness.
8. There are some things that the Bodhisattva makes you unable to do, and that is to protect you, the power goes out, the car breaks down, it is late, and it is missed. Don't complain, don't be angry, everything in the world comes and goes with a fixed number, getting is not necessarily a blessing or a disaster, and losing is not necessarily a curse.
9. If you have a good heart and good deeds, then you must be blessed. If you have good fortune but you can't get rich, then your good fortune has been transformed into a healthy body, a peaceful life, a warm family, and virtuous children and grandchildren. Good fortune doesn't necessarily make you rich, but it does make you the most complete version of yourself.
10. Don't be anxious in advance, don't worry about the sky, don't think nonsense, don't complain, life is an experience, an experience, a journey, nothing more than to see the moves, build a bridge when encountering water, open the road in the mountains, overcome thorns and thorns, survive the mountains and rivers, and you can come to the willow bank flowers.
11. The first thing to be brave is to accept all of yourself. Everyone's mood gets sick, and we have to learn to regulate it because it needs to heal itself. Loving ourselves is the beginning of a lifelong romance, we must love ourselves well and learn to reconcile with ourselves.
Twelve, life is just like this, the experience has been experienced, the hardships that should have been eaten, the grievances that should have been swallowed have been swallowed, many things are nothing more than looking away, looking down, looking down on it, everything is another spring coming.
The more you experience, the more sober you will naturally be, understand what you want, and think clearly about what you don't want.