Preface
In recent years, there has been a popular saying: "I don't have a hand to hold you when I lift the bricks, and I have no money to support you if I put down the bricks." ”
Recently, three children in Hainan were locked in their homes, and the news of eating one meal a day made countless parents cry and worry.
Especially the eyes of my sister looking forward to her mother's return through the window, which is very distressing!
Where is their mother? Why haven't they come home so late? After learning about the situation, it is even more worrying, the eldest of the three children in the family is only 4 years old, and the youngest is 8 months old, and the mother has to lock them in the room to go out to work in order to make ends meet, and they only return in the middle of the night every day.
I only eat one meal a day, and I have feces and urine all over the floor
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The scene in the video is poignant. The footage shows several of the children being very young, seemingly only three or four years old. They are stuck at home and unable to go out.
There was a little boy crying for his mother, and they hadn't eaten for a day. A little girl said through a window with an anti-theft net that her mother would not be able to bring food until midnight.
Because they were locked in the house, it was not clear whether there was no toilet in the house, or the children were too young to know how to use it, and the house was full of feces and urine, which was very dirty.
How can children live in such an environment? Won't they get sick? Children's lives matter!
The neighbors in the neighborhood were very sympathetic to this situation. Seeing that the children were hungry, he bought food and handed it to them through the window.
The younger brother was so hungry that he got the milk and devoured it.
It is understood that the children's mother has only recently started working and has been relying on the help of neighbors to get by. When they go to work, the children are left unattended and have to wait at home hungry.
Good Samaritans come to the rescue
You can't see it! Such a young child is left to fend for himself, and if there is no time to get food for the child, then they have to do the basic hygiene problems, right?
A netizen recounted that one day she was passing by and saw the family of three poor children, and the older sister ran over to her to find her to eat after seeing her.
This kind-hearted netizen saw that there was urine and feces on the table on the floor at home, and the smell of choking filled the entire hut, and the children played and rested in such an environment. There are no toys either, and the ones that are played with are scraps that may have been picked up in the surrounding area.
When communicating with the children, the little girl said that her mother was sleeping in it. The strong sour smell on the girl's body made this kind person teary-eyed, what kind of mother can go so many days without washing her child?
The little girl couldn't wait to open the netizen's food and eat it, and the netizen asked her why you are so dirty, and she said that her mother hadn't bathed us for many days. Netizens decided that they would bathe them after eating.
Since there is no water at home, this kind netizen can only hold the youngest to go to the next faucet to get water to scrub the child. My 4-year-old sister hurriedly went to find clothes for her younger brother. So small but so sensible.
When netizens opened his 8-month-old brother's diaper, he was teary-eyed again: because the child did not change diapers and did not take a bath for a long time, his PP was already rotten, and there were places on his body that were rotten.
She said: Because when I helped them take a bath, I was the only one who couldn't photograph the little one, the small breathing sounded, and the little ones were covered with some rotten wounds, and the neighbors would take medicine to help them wipe them when they saw the pitiful.
The good Samaritan hurried to his sister's house to get the children's clothes for them to wear. After changing into a skirt, my 4-year-old sister asked: Auntie, is it another New Year today?
Now in 2024, such a young child can say this, which really makes countless mothers cry again. It can be seen how sad and bad the life of the three children is!
The mother did not accept the bailout
Neighbors revealed that the children's aunts couldn't bear to see their nephews and nieces like this, and would quietly come to help them from time to time. But once the children's mothers find out, they punish the children harshly and even lock them in the house.
The neighbors saw it and had to sneak some food through the windows for the children. From the neighbors' messages, we can understand that this mother has a very strange temper, and others want to help the child, but she ignores it and doesn't talk to others.
She neither takes care of the children nor allows others to help. Withdrawn, the neighbors have to wait for her to go to work before secretly delivering things to the children.
Especially for the children's aunt, the assistance seems to touch her sensitive nerves.
邻居道出家情
Is this mom just because she's busy with them? Not really!
When the well-wishers helped the sisters and brothers to take a bath and eat, the neighbors came up to help, and at the same time, they also told the truth about the family.
According to reports, the mother got married in her teens, and the child's father and neighbors have not seen it, and she gave birth to a total of 5 children, two of whom are not around, and the three are the children who are waiting to be fed in the video. The mother had been living on the help of her neighbors for many years, and when she recently found a job, she locked her children in the house in the middle of the night before returning to get them food.
Some netizens couldn't sit still, speculating that the male protagonist of their family was not there, and the female protagonist didn't care about the children:
Many netizens stood up and said that this missing father was wrong:
There are many versions of speculation, and this incident quickly attracted the attention of the Women's Federation of Chengmai County, Hainan.
The report came, and the inside story was exposed
On the evening of April 24, the official public account of Chengmai County, Hainan Province, made the following notice on the situation of "3 children in Hainan were locked at home":
The main content is extracted: 1. The children's father is not leaving them alone, but serving a prison sentence.
2. Five children, two older ones are being cared for by the children's uncle, who are already in primary school in the local area.
3. Subsistence allowance and temporary assistance are already being processed.
4. The issues of schooling, care and employment for the three children and their mothers are also being addressed.
The intervention of the relevant departments must have relieved the hearts of those of us as parents, and we hope that our three children can be loved by the society and can be properly cared for.
Netizens couldn't sit still
This incident touched the hearts of countless mothers, some condemned and some empathized.
This netizen recalled his childhood: It was also his mother who locked him at home at work. Every sentence is bitter tears.
This mother sells breakfast with her 5-month-old child, and the child cries, and the mother cries.
You really have to think about these, if you don't have the ability, don't give birth so much, the children and parents are miserable.
There are also other reports that the mother of the child gave birth to 5 children, and she is only 23 years old.
Some netizens also think that the children's mothers are already great, at least they haven't discarded them. If you don't experience the suffering of others, don't persuade others to be kind.
There are many such parents, and they really have to pay attention: my sister and I were like this when we were young, no one took it and locked it in the house all day long, and I forgot a lot of things before, and I remembered the past when I saw this news.
And this: I suddenly remembered the tragedy in Nanjing many years ago. A female XD, who left her two daughters at home to wait for the Women's Federation, found the children when they were gone.
Write at the end
The editor would like to share a point of view here: if the conditions do not allow it, you really shouldn't have a child rashly.
In today's incident, the children live in a harsh environment, and the experience is distressing. These children are innocent, they just innocently endure the bad decisions of the adult world.
Obviously, if a person is not ready to take on the responsibility of raising a child, one should really think carefully about whether to have a child. This is not only responsible for children, but also responsible for society.
What do you think about this incident, welcome to leave a message to tell me.