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Male attractiveness is not directly related to material things
In addition to fishing for women, except for women with strong purpose, except for women who want to "choose a mate upward", normal women do not attach so much importance to men's material conditions.
The fulfillment of material conditions is not as important as you think.
In other words:
In a short-term relationship, a woman doesn't care if you have money or not, as long as you are attractive enough in the rest of the way, she is even willing to "stick it to you".
In a long-term relationship (rushing to marry you), a woman will consider material satisfaction, but as long as your conditions are not bad, she will still not be too harsh and ask you for an annual salary of hundreds of thousands or millions.
People who don't talk about the process and only look at the results want to provoke the confrontation between men and women from the beginning.
Look at the high-ranking scumbags around you, how many of them are really in excellent material conditions?
Why do some men have no reliable jobs and little income, and there are still women who are willing to post upside down?
For example:
There are 3 types of men in the marriage market.
Male A: The conditions are medium to high, the feelings are blank, and the wood is not romantic.
Male B: The conditions are average, the emotional intelligence is acceptable, and he can basically communicate with girls normally.
C male: The conditions are the worst, but he has rich emotional experience and full emotional value, and he can say that he will flirt.
Which one do you guess women will choose?
The first thing to exclude is male A, and then to screen between B and C;
Those who are not emotionally experienced and have poor experience are often confused by C;
If you're a little sensible, you'll choose male B.
What is the essential reason?
Although a woman is strong, if some of your values or merits are not enough for her to admire you and worship you;
She will give preference to emotional values and pursue "emotional sustenance".
"No one stands at dusk with me, no one asks me about porridge and warmth" and "Someone accompanies me under the moon", women care more about the latter.
What kind of men will subconsciously "link the relationship between men and women with material"?
I don't have much material, I can't speak, I can't fall in love, and I don't provide emotional value.
Although the words are cruel, you can understand the meaning of this sentence if you go to the marriage market for a walk, or have an accurate understanding of the opposite sex around you.
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Brave people love the world first
I love that.
The same is true in the relationship between the sexes, where the brave, active person is given priority to the "right to choose a mate".
Why are boys who are materially good, but have low emotional intelligence and are emotionally wooden, not attractive?
Because even if he meets a girl he likes, he doesn't dare to take the initiative;
His heart is inferior, wavering, tangled, and blank for feelings.
You asked him to stand in front of the girl, and he couldn't say 3 complete sentences, and the girl bowed her head in an instant.
The only people he can attract are those who have a strong purpose, who are running for his money, and who are willing to endure humiliation and be willing to be the "emotional provider".
Normal females, in this case:
A girl who has her own income, has the ability to support herself, and can live well even if she is not dependent on male substances.
What is the attraction of this kind of girl?
First: full of emotional value
She said: "My eldest aunt came and her stomach hurts".
What does she need? What is her subtext?
"Do you have time, can you come and accompany me?"
Instead of you saying lightly: "Niu X, drink more hot water".
Second: you can be her spiritual sustenance
In all the boring, depressed, and helpless days, she wants you to turn on the switch of her emotions, to be the container that can carry her emotions.
You turned on the switch of her heart, and the love and heat in it can also be returned to you, which is the two-way rush in the relationship.
Third: you are unique
What is Uniqueness?
You're surrounded by these kinds of boys, but you have a clear sense of deviation that makes people shine;
This is the right way to use the cards that are in your favor within a limited resource.
The cards in everyone's hands are almost the same, and even the state of the cards is open, how can you win?
Tian Ji horse racing.
Show your advantages, your attractiveness, and your value in front of the girls first.
You take the initiative a little and the story is there.
What is the core logic of scumbags attracting women?
will pick up stalks: Every sentence and every topic of the girl, he can skillfully catch it.
It will release emotional value: it carries the emotions of all the fawns in the female body.
will release mystery: the girl is a cat, the scumbag is another cat, and the game of hide and seek is full of tension.
Off the beaten path: Bring girls a sense of freshness and adventure that they have never felt before.
Ordinary men, as well as men below the middle level, should never play the "material card".
Why?
Men at the top of the pyramid have taken over 80% of the priority right to choose and screen a mate in the marriage market;
So how do the remaining 20% of men win the favor of girls?
You have to be good at playing cards that work in your favor, not rushing into the Red Sea with everyone.
This is true in any field:
What you want, first you have to come up with the matching value;
Value is the foundation, means is the process, and combining hands is the strategy that determines the outcome.
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