What is trust?
Trust is that you shot me with a gun,
I still believe it was just a misfire.
During World War II, a unit engaged in a fierce battle with enemy troops in the forest, and the last two soldiers lost contact with the troops.
The reason why these two soldiers can still take care of each other in the heat of battle, is because they are from the same town. They trudged through the forest, encouraging and comforting each other. More than 10 days have passed, and they have still not been able to contact the troops. Luckily, they killed a deer and relied on venison to get through for a few more days.
Perhaps because of the war, the animals in the forest fled or were killed, and they never saw any animals except the deer. The only bits of venison that remained were on the back of the younger soldier.
One day, they met an enemy in the forest, and after a fierce battle, the two skillfully avoided the enemy. Just when they thought they were safe, they heard a gunshot, and the young soldier who was walking in front was shot, fortunately only in the shoulder. The comrades-in-arms in the back ran over in panic, so frightened that they were incoherent, hugging their partners and crying bitterly.
At night, the unwounded soldier kept talking about his mother, his eyes straight. They all thought that their lives were coming to an end, and the venison around them did not move. No one knows what kind of mental journey they went through that night. The next day, the troops found them.
After 30 years, the wounded soldier said:
I know who fired the shot, it was my comrade-in-arms, who died last year. I touched the barrel of his hot gun as he hugged me, but I forgave him that night, knowing that he was trying to survive possessing the venison alone, and I knew that he had survived for his mother.
For the next 30 years, I pretended I didn't know about it and never mentioned it. The war was so cruel that his mother still didn't wait for him to come home.
After the war, I paid tribute to the old man with him. He knelt down in front of his mother's portrait and begged for my forgiveness. I didn't let him continue, and we've been friends for over twenty years, and there's no reason why I shouldn't forgive him.
A person who can tolerate the stubbornness, self-righteousness, arrogance, arrogance, and ignorance of others depends on a great deal of heart. I can't stand malicious slander, and if I get entangled in this, I can only cause fatal damage to myself.
It is easy to repay grievances with virtue, but it is not so much a return to kindness, friendliness, and peace as it is to let yourself go.
Where does a happy and auspicious life come from?
In most relationships, the pain often comes from the people closest and trusted around you, hurting yourself.
But the real problem is that even though it has been a long time since the incident, the victims still remember it and relive it over and over again......
As a result, when the consciousness is focused on pain and resentment, it naturally loses the power to look forward and pull out the mud. As a result, Leng let someone else's mistake punish himself for a lifetime!
yes, why don't you let yourself go?
Reading this, I believe you will feel the same way as me: this is a heart-shaking story! Life is only a few decades, how should we spend it?
Some people, when they encounter some things, lock their hearts in a "cage", frowning all day long, and even bitter and hateful, and even life is worse than death.
Everything in life has only one purpose, reminding you to become wiser, more loving, and more creative.
Let go of other people's mistakes and free your own heart.
Just like the young soldier in the article, he was able to forgive that night and let go that night!
It seems to be forgiving others, but in fact, it is letting go of oneself.
Yes, what really hurts you is often not the thing itself, but your perception of the thing. Instead of holding grudges and suffering for the rest of your life, it is better to let go immediately! Life can be so beautiful!
One last sentence comes to mind:
What is trust? Trust is when you shoot me with a gun, and I still believe that it's just a gun that went off.
The three pictures of "human nature" have changed countless people!
Without action, laziness takes root!
Without dreams, the fall will take root!
The longer it goes, the deeper the roots get!
When the time comes, it will be very difficult to stand up.
No procrastination, no laziness!
If you want it, do it now. Encourage you!
Everyone needs to have two such friends in their life:
When he is in trouble, you hold on;
When you are in trouble, he holds up.
Only with such a life can you be fearless and wonderful!
This is a friend, this is unity, this is a team!
I want to be one of you.
Small cooperation should let go of self and respect each other;
Great cooperation should put aside interests and balance each other;
A lifetime of cooperation should put down character and achieve each other.
blindly taking, not knowing how to give;
or blindly willful, not knowing how to give in,
In the end, you will lose everything.
Growing together is the way to survive.
That's the case with work, like with marriage,
Friendship is the same, and so is career!