I have been divorced from him for many years, but whenever I think of him, I still feel a ripple in my heart. Do men have special feelings for their ex-wives? I think I'm qualified to talk about that.
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Once upon a time, we also had good times. We have been through a lot together, with laughter and tears. I remember one time, we were planning a trip together, and he arranged everything with care, and I felt extremely happy with that kind of care and thoughtfulness.
However, the trivialities and stresses of life gradually wear down our feelings. We started arguing constantly, and eventually we got divorced.
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For a period of time after the divorce, I deliberately avoided contact with him and tried to get myself out of the relationship as soon as possible. But once, at a gathering of mutual friends, I saw him again.
The moment we looked at us, time seemed to stand still. He opened his mouth first: "Long time no see, are you okay?"
I pretended to be relaxed and replied, "It's okay, what about you?"
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"I'm okay with it, but sometimes I still think about our old days," he said. ”
I was silent for a moment and said, "That's all in the past. ”
He sighed softly and said, "I know, but some memories can't be erased. ”
We talked about a few other topics, and although it seemed calm on the surface, I could feel that he seemed to have mixed emotions inside.
Later, I also thought about this question. Maybe a man does have a special affection for his ex-wife, a deep connection that has been experienced together, and even if they have been separated, that emotion still exists somewhere in the bottom of their hearts. But this feeling is not necessarily love, but it may also be a kind of nostalgia, regret or nostalgia for the past.
In any case, he and I have our own new lives, and those former feelings can only become part of the memories.