My name is Xuanxuan, and I have been caught in an emotional entanglement that I shouldn't have. The married man, who had broken into my life, had an intimate encounter with me. After that, I gradually noticed that his psychology often showed the following three mentalities.
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First, there is guilt and avoidance. After that night, he began to avoid me, as if I was a nightmare he wanted to escape. At one point, I finally couldn't resist stopping him and asking him why he was doing this to me. He lowered his head and muttered, "I'm sorry for you, I know I did something wrong, but I can't go on any longer." I have my family and I can't lose them. I looked at him, my heart was full of bitterness, and I understood that his guilt was just a kind of self-comfort.
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The second is indifference and indifference. There were a few times when I tried to communicate with him to find out how he really felt about me. But he didn't care, and said coldly: "It's just a momentary impulse, we should all forget about it." Don't pester me anymore. "His indifference chilled me, as if I was just an insignificant person in his eyes.
Third, greed and exploitation. There were also times when he would take advantage of my feelings for him and ask me for something. He would say sweet things and let me do this and that for him. And when I realized that I wanted to reject him, he would show that false smile and say, "Don't you love me, what is the point of doing all this for me?" I looked at his greedy face, and my heart was full of anger and disappointment.
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This experience made me deeply aware of how dangerous it is to get entangled with a married man. Their psychology is often complex and selfish, and we, as women, must know how to protect ourselves and not easily fall into such emotional traps.