In the prosperous Tang Dynasty, Li Xiaobai was a high-profile young man, who was not only talented, but also widely praised for his popularity. The relationship between Li Xiaobai and his in-laws is particularly harmonious, and the families of the two sides have close contacts, and there is constant laughter and laughter at every gathering. However, even if the relationship is close, Li Xiaobai also knows that when interacting with his in-laws, some words cannot be easily spoken. He summed up the "three sentences" that could not be said, and always adhered to this principle to make the relationship between his in-laws and families more harmonious.
One day, Li Xiaobai was invited to a banquet at his in-laws' house. At the banquet, the in-laws sat around and talked about their own trivial matters. The atmosphere was warm and harmonious, and Li Xiaobai also participated in it with great interest. However, at this moment, an in-law accidentally broke a wine glass, and the atmosphere suddenly became a little awkward.
Seeing this, Li Xiaobai hurriedly stepped forward and comforted: "Oh, it's okay, don't take this kind of trivial matter to heart." Who hasn't missed a beat?" his words were light-hearted and humorous, which made the in-laws feel relieved and the atmosphere was enlivened again.
At this time, another in-law sighed: "Xiaobai, you are really good at talking. Unlike some people, when they encounter a little thing, they will worry about it, which makes everyone unhappy. ”
Li Xiaobai smiled slightly, but secretly rejoiced in his heart. He understands that it is precisely because he avoids the "three sentences" that he cannot say that he can maintain a good relationship between his in-laws.
The first sentence that cannot be said is "Your child is really inferior to mine". Every child is the heart and soul of the parents, and no matter how well the child behaves, parents want to be recognized and praised by others. Therefore, when interacting with your in-laws, you must not compare your own children with the children of your in-laws, let alone say anything that is derogatory to the other person's children. Li Xiaobai knows this very well, he never hesitates to praise his in-laws' children, and always looks at them with appreciation, which makes his in-laws feel very gratified.
The second sentence that cannot be said is, "There are so many rules in your house." Every family has its own habits and rules, which are part of the family culture. When interacting with in-laws, we should respect each other's family rules instead of complaining and blaming. When Li Xiaobai gets along with his in-laws, he always tries to adapt to the other party's rules, even if he is not used to it, he never complains. He believes that only mutual respect and understanding can make the relationship between relatives and families more harmonious.
The third sentence that cannot be said is, "The conditions of your family are really not as good as mine." The quality of family conditions is not a measure of a person's worth, and when interacting with our in-laws, we should pay more attention to each other's emotions and qualities rather than material conditions. Li Xiaobai never shows off his family conditions, nor does he belittle the conditions of his in-laws. He believed that true friendship and affection were based on mutual respect and equality.
It is precisely because Li Xiaobai has always adhered to the principle of "three sentences" that he has won a high reputation among his in-laws. Whether it's a family gathering or a daily routine, he is always able to use the right words and attitudes to make each other feel comfortable and happy.
Once, Li Xiaobai's in-laws encountered some difficulties and were very depressed. When Li Xiaobai learned about it, he immediately went to visit and comforted: "Don't worry, let's find a way to solve it together." Difficulties are only temporary, and as long as we work together, we will be able to get through them. His words were warm and firm, and his in-laws felt endless support and encouragement.
With the help of Li Xiaobai, the in-laws gradually got out of the predicament and regained their confidence and courage in life. They were very grateful to Li Xiaobai and expressed their desire to work more closely with him to create a better future.
Li Xiaobai's story became a good story in the Tang Dynasty, and people followed his example and paid attention to communication and exchanges with their in-laws. They understand that only by carefully managing and maintaining the family relationship can this family relationship be deeper and lasting.
And Li Xiaobai has also continued to grow and progress in this process, and he has won the respect and love of more people with his wisdom and kindness. He knew that being kind to others and living in harmony was the true meaning of life, and it was also the most valuable wealth he left in the prosperous era of the Tang Dynasty.
This story teaches us that when we interact with our in-laws, we should pay attention to our words and actions and avoid saying things that hurt each other's feelings. At the same time, we need to know and understand each other with our hearts, and respect each other's differences and personalities. Only in this way can we truly establish a harmonious and harmonious relationship between our families and families, so that we can support each other and grow together on the road of life.