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When the baby speaks, is it better to call dad or mom first?
Many mothers are anxious about this problem, but in fact, there is a certain difference between the two. Many mothers may think that it doesn't matter who they call first, as long as the baby can speak quickly, they also have a bottom in their hearts.
However, calling dad and mom is still particular, and the difference between the two still exists, especially the elderly also attach great importance to this view, many areas have been affected by customs, although there is no basis but there are still many old people yearn for.
There is a grandmother in the community who also attaches great importance to the baby's first sentence, saying that in their hometown, they all say, "Say dad first, and give birth to a daughter in the next child, if you call the mother now, the next child is a daughter"
Mothers should also know that there is no basis for such a statement, and do not be superstitious.
Mothers are indispensable to the baby's growth, so mothers also hope that the baby will call mother first in the first sentence, which will make them feel more fulfilled.
However, mothers need to face the fact that whoever the baby calls first, that person must be the biggest contributor to bringing the baby.
Last week, there was also a mother in the group who said why the baby called dad first instead of mom, and then accepted this fact after thinking about it.
Before there were no children, my mother had always worked in the company, because the salary was higher than that of my father, but after the baby was born, my mother was reluctant to give up this job, so she chose to be a working mother, but my father accepted the responsibility of raising a baby.
In the daily baby care, feeding are contracted by the father himself, and then the baby called the father for the first time, which can also be understood, after all, the baby pays the most, and it is not acceptable to call the father first.
Although the baby's first sentence is not to call his mother, it will make the mother jealous, but mothers also have to accept the fact that there is little company, which naturally still has a certain impact.
If the father spends more time with the baby, the father will guide the speech in front of the baby, and the baby will give priority to calling himself, so it will also stimulate the baby to call the father first. On the contrary, so is mom.
If the baby calls dad first, mothers should not be discouraged, after all, this is caused by a long time together, mothers have time and should accompany the baby more, so that the baby is more familiar with themselves to enhance the relationship between parents and children, and also helps the baby learn to call mom faster.
For father, mother, grandfather, grandma, are monophonic, so most babies at the beginning of the speech are given priority to these titles, when the baby begins to speak, mothers should also develop a good habit, interact with the baby more to stimulate the baby to speak faster, this is still very important.