Everyone's marriage comes to the end, is it all chicken feathers?
We have been married for 15 years, the economic conditions are good, there are two restaurants in the local area, a tobacco and alcohol shop! The husband and the eldest brother of the hotel are in charge, and I am in charge of the tobacco and alcohol store, all the stores are combined, and the net profit is about one million per year! The child has just entered junior high school, and his life is very busy, but now I find that he has transferred money and expenses very strangely several times, and he told me to buy gifts and leave the favor, but these gifts and related things have a fixed time!
So after several careful observations, I found out that he was buying things for other women, from bags to jewelry, from eating to opening a house!
After a few thoughts, I still felt that I could not budge. I finally got out and gave way to the third sister, it's not cost-effective...
Divorce, let three live in my house, spend money that I can't spend, make my husband who is trained well, and beat my baby?
The first step is to ask a lawyer how to do it!
The most important thing is to grasp the property in his own hands first, let him sign the marital property agreement first! I didn't say anything about this matter first, after all, my husband also wants to save face, first fool him, and then take advantage of his current guilt, house, car, and ticket are all fooled into my name!
Stored gold jewelry, buy bags and cash out
Now the price of gold is rising, it is difficult to maintain the value of brand-name bags, I buy gold jewelry, this belongs to personal property, first grasp the financial power in hand, is worried that there is no handle to grasp the economic power, at this time use his guilt psychology to grasp the property!
Then buy imitation big-name bags many times to get the money out (he thinks you are angry with Xiao San) and transfer it to a account of his own. It depends on my mood in the days to come.
Play the emotional card cliché
I am divorced, and the mistress is happy! I can't leave! I play the emotional card with my husband, set his words, and see how much I have spent on San, as the joint property of the husband and wife, I can sue for a part of it in the future! Don't use divorce to balance him, you have laid down the country with your own hands, you must be calm and calm, weigh the pros and cons, and after calming down, find out that the meaning of marriage is no longer a husband, improve yourself and love your children well!
If you really want to get a divorce:
1. Put all the property in your own name, let him go out of the house, and then divorce without leaving home, divorce without telling outsiders, behave well and do not commit remarriage again, which is equivalent to excessive property, which can ensure that you have the lowest loss!
2. Sue for all transfers to Xiao San, all kinds of expenses for purchasing items. My girlfriend has done all this, and the lawsuit is also my own lawyer, and the sentence is all returned, and I have to pay interest.
Marriage Notice
In the end of life, dust returns to dust, soil returns to earth, live for yourself when you live, take good care of yourself and your children, spend money generously, and have some things to hold in your own hands. And don't think too much! Money and children are the only thing! Isn't he just a person who works for you!
Everyone has their own fate, and marriage is like opening a blind box, and it is a combination of various factors that cause their own marriage. If you find the right person, of course, it's best. If you don't find the right person, don't try to change the other person, consume yourself internally, and pursue feelings. Just find a lifestyle that makes you comfortable. As partners, each performs its own duties, and everything is safe. Reading books, exercising, drinking tea, being close to nature, we still have so many things to love.