Being in love is what everyone yearns for, but being in love doesn't mean being blind. Before falling in love, we need to have a pair of discerning eyes to identify the potential "scumbags" around us and avoid being hurt.
The following are the 8 tips I have summarized for you to identify scumbags, I hope it will help you.
The first trick: observe his behavior
A person's behavior can reflect his inner world, especially his attitude towards feelings. A real man cares about his words and deeds, especially when it comes to his girlfriend. If you find that a guy always behaves disrespectfully to you, such as saying hurtful things regardless of your feelings, or always doing things that make you uncomfortable, then he is most likely not a responsible man.
The second trick: look at his circle of friends
A person's character is usually related to his circle of friends. If his friends are unreliable and often hang out in bars, nightclubs, etc., then he is likely to be the same person. If he often dangles in front of you with a bunch of fox friends, then you have to be careful. At the same time, you can also learn about his personality and way of dealing with the world through communication with his friends, and see if he really has a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
Trick 3: Listen to his past
A really good man cares about his past, and he will tell you about his emotional experience and upbringing, rather than deliberately hiding or avoiding it. If he always avoids talking about his past or always shows dishonest behavior between words, then you have to be careful.
Tip 4: Don't trust his promises easily
A truly good man will prove his love with his actions, rather than making promises easily. If he always says sweet words but doesn't actually act, then you have to be careful. He may just be coaxing your feelings.
Tip 5: Pay attention to his spending habits
A responsible man usually has good spending habits, he will plan his spending reasonably according to his financial situation, and will not overspend or splurge at will. If he is always spending lavishly and often borrowing money to spend, then you have to be careful. He may not be a person with a plan and will not be accountable to you.
Tip 6: Look at his attitude towards other women
A really good man will know how to respect women and will not behave impolitely or disrespectfully towards other women. If he always shows disrespect or ambiguity towards other women, then you have to be careful. He may not be a responsible man and will not be responsible for you.
Tip 7: Don't be easily attracted to him
Before falling in love, we need to keep a clear head and not be easily attracted to him. We need to think carefully about our own needs and expectations, and not be easily fooled by him. We need to understand his character, values, lifestyle, etc., and not be easily deceived by his appearance and words.
The eighth trick: clarify your bottom line and principles
Before falling in love, we need to be clear about our bottom line and principles, and don't easily compromise or change our values and lifestyle. We need to tell each other our bottom line and principles, and let them know that we are a principled person, not a casual person. This will make the other person respect us more, and it will also make our relationship healthier and more stable.
Being in love is a beautiful thing, but it can also bring some hurt and pain. We need to think carefully about our own needs and expectations, and not be easily swayed by other people's opinions. Only by protecting yourself can we better enjoy the beauty of love! Finally, I wish everyone can find someone who is truly suitable for them and enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by love!