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Between men and women, whether it is a lover or a husband and wife, the affection is affectionate and shallow, it is all related to the way they get along!
Fundamentally, there are no two people who are completely suitable or not suitable! Only two people who face each other's relationship and are willing to get along in a way that is suitable for the healthy development of the relationship!
People who get along well and get along with each other at the same frequency may not love so deeply at first, but in the process of getting along, they become indispensable to each other because of the "proper way"!
Between men and women, the love at first sight can't last a long time!
If you don't get along properly, the two people who swear to the alliance will still be separated!
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, there are often 3 states and 2 sentences, indicating that fate is "over":
First of all, there are 3 states of fate:
1: In the process of getting along, happiness is rare and torment is often accompanied
In the process of getting along, there must be one or two people in a relationship that is not happy and tormented, and is unwilling to change their way to get along with each other!
Therefore, the "no heart" and "no cherish" are vividly reflected in the state of boredom and tiredness!
When two people lose the motivation to manage their relationships in the past, and each fights with reason like a hedgehog, the relationship between them will be left with indifference, perfunctory and quarrelsome!
Affection is therefore exhausted, and fate is coming to an end!
Whether it is a lover or a husband and wife, without mutual understanding, empathy, help, and thoughtfulness, there is no place for fate!
2: Relative silence and silence are golden
Some men and women seem to feel that each other is relatively silent and does not quarrel with each other, which is a very common public state.
However, over time, the value of the relationship will be invisibly weakened.
Because, if you can't establish a good communication relationship and a relationship that you can't share all the time, you won't be able to experience and feel at the same frequency.
Two people in this state, their respective emotional and emotional needs are perfectly ignored, how deep do you think the fate between each other is?
Remember:
No matter how good and clean it is, it can't stand the indifference!
When two people are together, silence replaces quarrels, and each alienation replaces intimacy, and the relationship becomes dispensable, or dispensable is greater than what is available......
In this way, is there still a foothold for fate?
3: There is no relationship, no longer taking into account each other's feelings, only reality and calculation remain
Whether it is a lover or a husband and wife, the relationship will last only if the heart is in one place!
When each other does not hesitate to destroy each other's interests and reputation for the sake of personal gains and losses, and their own feelings, it is enough to show that:
Relationships have begun to show the evil of human nature!
Under the influence of the evil of human nature, when two people open the operation of reality and calculation, the promise of the past becomes the joke of the moment!
In the relationship between men and women, the more unscrupulous the means are for the sake of interests, and when revenge is started in order to make the other party unhappy, the fate is exhausted, the relationship has deteriorated, and the former love can no longer be repaired!
In the face of desire, people's sincerity is insignificant.
Some people are courteous because of their property, and some people use their power to force people to comply, and their desires are difficult to fill, and they blindly calculate, which has pushed this relationship to the abyss.
Secondly, the two sentences of the end of fate:
1: If you open the scar
In real life relationships, the more intimate the person, the more "ability" there is to hurt people through a word!
When two people in a relationship blurt out forcefully when they are caught hurting each other, and they are launched like cannonballs, they have already laid the groundwork for the end of fate!
Whether it is a lover or a husband and wife relationship, some people expose each other's scars and poke at the sore spots, and some people attack each other and bear the ......
In short, no matter which form it takes, it means that the fate is exhausted and the hard support is useless!
When a person's self-esteem and self-confidence are trampled on by the person in front of them, the more rebellious the heart will be. When the strength is enough to counterattack, it will be a lose-lose situation for both sides!
In your opinion, how much more fate and how deep is the relationship in such a relationship?
What a love or not?
2: Complaining and accusing
A good relationship is when two people are willing to accept each other's shortcomings and seek common ground while reserving differences!
In a healthy relationship, we are each other's life mentors, life management assistants, emotional sharers, and sooths each other's stressful emotions......
In this mode of getting along, two people become the only irreplaceable in each other's hearts because of their indispensable existence value!
On the contrary, when two people are together, they cannot give each other the right guidance, cannot establish a "win-win" life management relationship, and blame each other and complain about each other when problems arise......
It's no surprise that fate is over!
No matter how deep the feelings are, they can't stand the blame and complaint, and the two people who don't have the perseverance to take responsibility and solve the problem can't go to the end!
At this point in the text, I just want to say to all emotional men and women:
If you don't want to end your fate, just output the "I love you" in your mouth correctly, don't push the other party away in the wrong way, and complain that you haven't met someone worth cherishing!
You can't hide from fate when it comes, and when fate is gone, it's hard to continue!
There is not much rest of my life, I hope that all emotional men and women can truly "cherish" correctly, and they will not hold hands and promise in vain!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
I am an author in the field of high-quality emotion, a professional counselor, and have provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.
Topic discussion: Have you met that person worth cherishing?