Before reading, I would like to remind you that this article is for informational entertainment only and should not be superstitious!
"Sheep with wolves, know that there is no disaster, sheep with lions, self-well-being. The zodiac sheep symbolizes tameness and peace, but its philosophy of life is also deeply rooted in wisdom, which is about choices and avoidance in interpersonal interactions.
"Near Zhu is red, close to the ink is black", this is a thousand years of ancient teaching, for the zodiac sheep, the way to choose friends is particularly critical, if you are not careful with the negative energy of the people, it is tantamount to a sheep into the mouth of the tiger, blessings may not survive for a long time.
"Things gather by like, and people are grouped. ”
"In interpersonal interactions, who we choose to be with often determines the direction of our lives.
For the zodiac sheep, some people are the nobles of fate, while some people may be potential "bad friends".
Today, we will talk about the six types of people that the zodiac sheep should be wary of and stay away from, so as not to slip away without realizing it.
The first category: marauders
"You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. "We need to be especially wary of the wolf-like predators, like hungry wolves lurking in the shadows, with cunning and greedy sparkles in their eyes, waiting for an opportunity to move, and when their prey lets their guard down, they will pounce on them and extract what they need without mercy.
Such people are well aware of the weaknesses of human nature, and are adept at exploiting the kindness and humility of others, like a skilled fisherman, throwing out tempting bait and waiting for the fish to take the bait.
They have a clever tongue and a sharp hook hidden in their sweet words, and once you step into the trap they set, you will not be able to extricate yourself.
Not only will it squeeze your material resources, but it will also ruthlessly devour your spiritual power, making you like a dead wood that has been sucked dry of blessings, and there is no longer life.
"The Yellow Emperor's Neijing" has a saying: "Tranquility and nothingness, true qi comes from it, the spirit is guarded, and illness is always safe." ”
This warns us to maintain inner peace and calmness, and not to be swayed by the greed and temptation of the outside world.
The predators are like the noise that destroys harmony, disturbing your inner peace and causing you to lose the power to protect your spiritual home before you know it.
Think of the wolf and the sheep in Aesop's Fables, the wolf approaches the sheep under various pretexts, and finally bares its fangs and devours the sheep.
How similar to the behavior of the marauders, who are clad in sheep's clothing, but who hide their wolf hearts, ready to pounce on the unsuspecting flock.
Friends of the Zodiac Sheep, when you encounter such predators, you must keep your eyes open and stay vigilant.
Don't be fooled by their sweet words, and don't easily deliver your trust and resources.
You must know that "the world is bustling, all are for profit, and the world is bustling, all for profit," and it is very important to protect one's own interests and happiness.
The second category: the insatiable
"The human heart is not enough for a snake to swallow an elephant", their desires are like a bottomless pit, no matter how much you give, you will never be satisfied.
In the Analects, Confucius once said: "A gentleman is a man of righteousness, and a villain is of profit." The insatiable are the villains who are "profit-seeking", who only have interests in their eyes and have no morality. Dealing with them is like being in a never-ending vortex of demanding, and they will constantly make demands on you without thinking about giving you anything in return.
There is no shortage of such examples in history. For example, Shi Chong in the Western Jin Dynasty, he was prominent for a while because of his wealth, but he was still insatiable, and finally attracted the disaster of killing because of his wealth.
Shi Chong during the Western Jin Dynasty left a deep mark on Chinese history with his extremely luxurious lifestyle and insatiable character traits. Shi Chong (249-300 years), the word Ji Lun, was born in a family of eunuchs, is the son of Shi Bao, the founding father of the Western Jin Dynasty, and once served as the assassin of Jingzhou, Weiwei and other positions, because of its extreme means of accumulating wealth and extremely luxurious life.
Shi Chong's methods of accumulating vast wealth are controversial. According to historical records, during his tenure as the Assassin of Jingzhou, he accumulated a large amount of wealth through illegal means, such as plundering past merchants. He lived a lavish lifestyle, with a large number of servants and a magnificent mansion, including but not limited to gold, silver, jewelry, precious works of art, exotic flowers and trees, and a large amount of land and property.
Shi Chong is most famous for his "fight for wealth" with Wang Kai, the uncle of Emperor Wu of the Jin Dynasty. The two compared each other and gave each other priceless gifts, such as Wang Kai had a rare coral tree, which was quite proud, but Shi Chong took out his own more precious coral tree and gave it away, showing his huge wealth.
In addition, Shi Chong's Golden Valley Garden in Luoyang is an important embodiment of his extravagant life, where he holds lavish banquets and indulges in the extreme, in which the story of "Green Beads Falling from the Tower" reflects his greedy pursuit of beauty and ruthlessness. Shi Chong's favorite courtesan Green Pearl, beautiful and beautiful, when the powerful minister Sun Xiu took a fancy to Green Pearl and asked Shi Chong for no success, it caused Shi Chong and Green Pearl to suffer a catastrophe, Green Pearl finally jumped off the building to commit suicide to show his loyalty.
Shi Chong's greed did not bring him long-term peace, his wealth and arrogance caused dissatisfaction, and finally in the chaos of the rebellion of the Eight Kings of the Western Jin Dynasty, he was arrested due to political struggle, and was robbed and executed, and his former luxury and power were instantly wiped out.
His story warns us that greed is the root of all evil, and that excessive pursuit of material gain will only lead to an endless abyss.
Looking at modern society, how many people are in prison because of greed, and how many families are torn apart because of greed.
The insatiable are like viruses, eroding the body of society and corrupting the atmosphere of the world.
Friends of the Zodiac Sheep, you are kind and generous by nature, but your kindness should not be used as a tool by the insatiable.
When dealing with such people, it is important to be vigilant and learn to refuse their unreasonable demands.
You must know that "fighting rice feeds grace, and bearing rice feeds revenge". Excessive generosity may make them even more demanding, even taking your kindness for granted.
Staying away from insatiable people is a smart way to protect your energy and resources.
The third category: those who complain
"The complaint is too strong to prevent the intestines from breaking, and the scenery should be long-sighted. "In life, we always meet people who complain all day long and have a negative attitude towards everything.
They often blame the outside world for all kinds of unsatisfactory life, complain about the unfairness of fate, but rarely reflect on their own shortcomings.
As Mr. Lu Xun said: "Mourn its misfortune and be angry with it." "They indulge in self-pity, but they don't want to make an effort to change the situation.
The negative energy of such people is like a virus, silently eroding the emotions and mentality of the people around them. After spending a long time with them, you may also unconsciously fall into the whirlpool of negativity.
Friends of the zodiac sheep, you are naturally optimistic, and life should be full of sunshine and laughter.
Don't let the negativity of such people get in the way of your good life.
You know, "Life is like the ocean, only the strong-willed can reach the other side." ”
Maintain a positive attitude and stay away from the source of negative energy, and your life will be more colorful.
"Your mindset is your master. "Don't let the negative emotions of the complaining person dominate your life.
Remember, "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the storm." ”
The fourth category: the selfish
As the saying goes: "If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will perish." Although the words are sharp, they are not unreasonable.
When this idea is pushed to the extreme, a kind of person is born—the selfish.
They act in a way that puts self-interest above all else, with indifference to the well-being of others.
In ancient Greek mythology, there is a story about Prometheus stealing fire for mankind, but the selfish gods punished him by chaining him to the Caucasus Mountains and tormenting him.
This story is not only a celebration of selflessness, but also a profound satire of selfishness.
"It's the same root, so why be in a hurry. It is intended to warn people that as human beings, why should we be too selfish and pour out against each other.
The selfish turn a deaf ear to this, and they only see personal gains and losses.
Friends of the Zodiac Sheep, you are known for your kindness and compassion, but please be wary of such selfish people.
They may take advantage of your goodness for their own personal gain.
As the saying goes: "You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people." "It's a smart thing to keep your distance from.
"The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time. "Only time can truly test a person's qualities, and we should be vigilant in dealing with such people and not be deceived by their superficial sweet words.
Category 5: Those who do not want to make progress
Listen, friends of the zodiac sheep, I want to give you a serious warning: "Sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat." ”
This is a universal truth. You have to be wary of those around you who are content with the status quo and do not want to make progress.
Their lives are like stagnant pools, lifeless and unwavering.
This kind of people, as described in "Nineteen Ancient Poems", "are less than 100 years old, and often have a thousand years of worries."
The days are short and the nights are long, so why not travel with candles?" they only know to complain and worry, but they never take action to change the status quo.
Their inertia is like a contagious disease, and with them, you may unknowingly lose the motivation to fight and be dragged down by their negative attitude.
Think about the teachings in the Book of Filial Piety: "The body is skinned, and the parents who receive it dare not destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also." "Our bodies and lives are given by our parents, and we should cherish and constantly improve ourselves to repay their nurturing grace.
It's not like those who don't want to make progress, wasting their lives and living up to their parents' expectations.
"A good man does things to the end, and a good horse runs to the end. "Friends of the zodiac sheep, your life should be full of struggle and pursuit, don't let this kind of unenterprising person become a stumbling block on your way forward.
Personally, I think that being in the company of people who don't want to make progress is like putting yourself in a stagnant water, and over time, you will become as lacking in energy and passion as them.
So, be sure to stay away from these types of people and find like-minded and positive partners who share your goals.
"Tianxingjian, a gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement. "In this ever-changing world, only those who are constantly striving and self-improvement can be invincible.
Friends of the zodiac sheep, remember this sentence and always keep the momentum forward!
Category 6: Scheming
As the saying goes, "It's easy to dodge with an open gun, but it's hard to defend against a hidden arrow." This kind of person always behaves dignified and steady in front of people, and looks like a decent man and a gentleman, but behind it may be hidden scheming and unscrupulous to pursue his goals.
They are like some characters in "Water Margin", they are loyal on the surface, but they are actually cunning. For example, the "Zhiduoxing" Wu Yong, although he is full of wisdom, he often calculates others, which makes people unguardable.
You have to be on your toes when dealing with such scheming people, because you never know what they're going to do in the next second.
This constant mental stress and tension can undoubtedly be exhausting.
Ancient sages once said: "You must not have the heart of harming others, and you must not have the heart of guarding against others." This is still true in today's society. In the face of scheming people, we must not only learn to protect ourselves, but also learn to recognize their true colors.
Know that they may give you a fatal blow at a critical moment and catch you off guard.
I strongly advise you to stay away from such scheming people. Don't let the shadows of their lives overshadow your sunshine, and don't let their scheming affect your innocence and kindness.
When you meet a new friend, you might as well spend more time getting to know him and see if he is really someone worth dating.
You also have to learn to keep your distance and not let yourself fall too easily into the calculations of others.
"It is difficult to draw the skin of a tiger and draw bones, and you don't know your heart when you know people."
Friends of the zodiac sheep, please be vigilant, stay away from scheming people, and make your life simpler and purer.
Interpersonal communication is a complex art, and choosing who to be with is even more of a science.
Friends of the zodiac sheep, I hope you can keep your eyes open, identify and stay away from these six types of people, and protect your blessings and happiness.
Remember, "You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people." "In this complex world, it's important to learn to protect yourself.
May your life be full of sunshine and laughter!