Do you know?
Those middle-aged women who really have two brushes, they don't play their cards according to common sense at all.
Don't look at them as low-key as cats on the surface, but in fact, they have three treasures in their hearts, which makes them live a thief.
But what about those stupid women?
I like to do it the other way around, do you say it's angry?
Let's talk about this first treasure - crazy love for yourself.
You see, Oscar Wilde said it all:
Love yourself, that's the prelude to a lifelong romance.
Look at Mayer Musk, this old lady is the mother of Tesla CEO Elon Musk, but what is even better is that she is also a model with silver hair on the catwalk, and two master's degrees, a proper nutrition expert.
At the age of 71, who dares to disagree?
When she first got married, she thought she had picked up a treasure, but the groom's official turned his face faster than a book, and immediately exposed the essence of domestic violence after marriage.
It's like hell.
But Meyer was stunned for nine years, and it was not until the local law to protect women came out that he escaped with the baby.
In the days that followed, she worked hard for her career while raising a baby, and she was stunned to mix well in the modeling circle and the nutrition world.
Meyer shouted in "Life by Me":
Go your own way and don't care what others say!
The harder you work, the luckier you get!
Love yourself first, and others will love you!
Look at this old lady to live enough, right?
No matter how old you are, loving yourself is king!
Let's talk about the second kind of treasure - obsession with reading.
Listen, Grandma Yang Jiang has spoken:
You just don't read much, but you think a lot.
She has been soaking in the stacks of books all her life, writing books, sorting out manuscripts, and being very busy.
The family is gone one by one, and she still lives a good life.
She said:
Reading is to replace loneliness with enjoyment, cool!
There is also that Sanmao, who has loved books since she was a child, saved her and made her successful.
It's hard time in the desert, right?
But she was stunned to write vividly and interestingly, attracting tourists to check in.
Besides, a friend of mine, Xiaowan's family is poor, she came out early to work, and she didn't go to college, but she was stunned to squeeze out time to read and write, and now that her children are in college, she still gets up early every day to read and write.
Why?
I just want to live as I like, reading and writing makes me fulfilling, and I don't get tired at all!
You see, these women who love to read are never pretentious, have wide vision, strict requirements, and treat people leniently, and live a transparent life!
is like what is said in "Caigen Tan":
The wind blows the grass outside, and the clouds inside are light and the wind is light.
Reading and writing make people rich in their hearts, look down on material things, and live their true lives!
Let's talk about this third treasure - boundless love.
Sanmao is right:
The most important thing in human life is the ability to love others, not to be loved.
In this year's college entrance examination, there is a news that makes people cry - Principal Zhang Guimei is sick but has accompanied senior high school students for 12 consecutive years, and also set up a free women's high school in the mountains, so that more than 2,000 rural girls go to college, but she is exhausted.
The students call her "Mama Zhang", and she is the goddess in the hearts of the children.
There is also an American movie "Freedom Writer", which is about a teacher who helps a group of black children out of a difficult situation, and finally promotes social reform.
Great people don't necessarily have to save the world, and they don't have to make any great inventions, as long as they have great love and are willing to brighten the lives of others, then they are cows!
A broad-minded person can see hope no matter how hard he is;
People with peace of mind can remain calm no matter how difficult it is.
Such a person is full of vitality and beauty when he is old!
In short, those middle-aged women who live a very good life, they know how to cherish themselves, face the years calmly, obsessed with reading, live transparently, and have a heart of selfless dedication.
Their smiles are like blooming flowers.
Their years have precipitated wisdom and graced time.
Such women, there is nothing they can do with them over the years, it will only make them more and more beautiful!