Some people describe love as an adventure, some people are like a passerby after the passion fades, and some people are passers-by after a night of spring supper.
The key depends on whether the man has "swelled" in these two places after having a relationship.
First of all, let's talk about the first "bulging" part of a man - the wallet.
I know that some friends may think that talking about money is too mundane, but in reality, money is often the best test of true love.
Imagine a man who spends a good night with you, if he is sincere to you, then he is absolutely willing to spend a lot of money for you, and he can't wait to pack the whole universe for you.
Just like my friend Xiao Liu and his goddess Xiao Li, although Xiao Liu is not a wealthy tycoon, but after confirming the relationship with Xiao Li, it is a bloody investment.
Not only did he contract Xiaoli's shopping cart, but he also created surprises from time to time, from brand-name bags to overseas trips, everything was unambiguous.
Once, Xiaoli inadvertently mentioned that she liked a certain singer's concert, but the next day, Xiao Liu quietly booked VIP tickets, and gave Xiaoli a big surprise.
This is what true love looks like, willing to spend money for you, and spend it openly and happily, without reservation.
Let's talk about the second "bulging" part of a man - belly volume.
It is said that women's minds are difficult to guess, but in fact, men's minds are not seen through at a glance.
But no matter how calm and rational he usually is, once he truly falls in love with you, it will definitely become your Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles PLUS.
Your little emotions and little willfulness, he took them all in, without even blinking an eye.
Why?
Because he regards you as a part of his life, he is reluctant to worry about the trivial things of sesame mung beans with you.
Take another friend of mine, Lao Zhang, and his virtuous wife, Xiaofang, for example, Lao Zhang is usually a standard workaholic, serious and a bit obsessive-compulsive.
As a result, since she tied the knot with Xiaofang, she has been chasing all kinds of bloody Korean dramas with her, although she may be drowsy watching it.
Every time Xiaofang was moved by the plot, Lao Zhang handed over tissues to the side, looking at the two of them with a distressed look and smiling warmly.
This is the power of true love, which makes you willing to let go of stubbornness and accept everything from the other person.
If a man not only treats you generously after having a relationship with you, but also is extremely tolerant of you, then he must love you so much that he doesn't run away!
On the other hand, if he suddenly becomes cold to you, or is in a hurry to draw a line with you, then he is most likely just trying to get a short-term stimulus and not reassuring you at all.
I wish each of us can meet the other half who is willing to spend a lot of money for you and tolerate your endless little willfulness.
Life is short, it is not easy to meet someone who is sincere to you, and cherish it!