Recently, at the full moon celebration of the scarab daughter, various valuable gifts appeared in turn, especially the gold bracelet given by the grandfather and the gold lock given by the grandmother.
However, in this lavish ceremony, the husband's "inaction" caused a lot of controversy on social media. This is not only a social phenomenon drama involving family, wealth and family roles, but also a modern family topic worthy of our deep thought.
At the full moon ceremony of the scarab's daughter, the gold bracelet given by the grandfather symbolizes wealth and auspiciousness, while the gold lock given by the grandmother symbolizes peace and longevity. These heavy metal ornaments not only show the deep affection and good wishes of the ancestors to the next generation.
It also reflects the habit of delivering blessings through physical objects in traditional Chinese culture. However, in the context of modern emphasis on spiritual education and personality cultivation, does this "flaunting wealth" full moon ceremony emphasize too much materialism and ignore the meaning of family affection itself?
Compared with the generosity of the elders, the husband of the scarab daughter is very low-key at such an important moment, and has even been described as "inaction".
This behavior raises questions about his role in the family. Modern society advocates equality between men and women, and the role of fathers in the child-rearing process is becoming more and more important.
At such a particular moment, does the husband's "silence" mean that he is not fully fulfilling his fatherhood, or that he is expressing his love for his children in another way, or that he is resisting the excessive materialistic parenting ethos in his actions?
Social media platforms have enabled the public to intuitively observe and evaluate the lives of others, and the full moon ceremony posted by Scarab's daughter has naturally become the focus of people's judgment on her parenting concepts and even family values.
Some people believe that material security is a manifestation of parents' love for their children, while others advocate that spiritual companionship and education are more important. This clash of ideas prompts us to think about how to find a balance between the material and spiritual dimensions and build a healthier parenting environment.
Through the incident of the scarab daughter's full moon ceremony, we can see the differences and blends of different generations and gender roles in parenting concepts.
How to update the concept of parenting with the times while respecting tradition, and how to pay attention to cultivating children's spiritual world while emphasizing material security.
And how to distribute parenting responsibilities fairly and reasonably among family members, these are all questions that need to be answered urgently in front of modern families.
The full moon gift list posted by Scarab's daughter looks like an act of showing off her wealth on the surface, but in fact it opens a window to see through the contemporary family structure, parenting concepts and family role positioning.
Whether it is the material gifts represented by gold jewelry, or the "inaction" of fathers in the process of parenting, they all trigger our in-depth thinking about family education in the new era.
On the road of parenting, every detail is a lesson, and every parent is a learner, and should also be a thinker and doer. So, what do you think about this?
In your opinion, what should the ideal parenting style look like?Welcome to share your views in the comment area and participate in this big discussion about family education.