Experts say: "Women are the ones who suffer in marriage!"
Recently, a woman in Jiangxi asked for a 38.8w bride price at the scene of "Wang Po Said Matchmaker", which attracted many netizens to discuss.
Someone questioned: "What kind of breed is a Jiangxi woman?
But there are also people who think: "There is nothing wrong with people asking for a bride price!"
In this way, for a while, there were different opinions on the Internet, all of which were "the public said that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law is reasonable......
So, "should women ask for a bride price when they get married" has become the hottest topic today!
In the face of this situation, we have to think of a sentence from Chu Yin, an expert of the "Doctor of the National People's Congress", that is: "Women suffer in marriage!"
As expected, as soon as this sentence came out, many men were indignant: "Why do you say that only women suffer in marriage?"
Indeed, in today's society, everyone pays attention to "equality for all".
But then, expert Yin also explained that the reason why women are the ones who suffer is because after women get married, women will face the mission of having children.
And after giving birth, if women want to return to the workplace, then they will definitely be hit very hard.
Not only that, but most of the labor in marriage also needs to be undertaken by women.
In the end, to put it simply, "It is natural for women to ask for a bride price in the process of marriage!"
However, some people believe that in marriage, giving a bride price to a woman may mean "objectifying women", and "bride price" is often regarded as "buying people with money".
Here, Professor Yin also explained that the "bride price" is actually the process of "social wealth redistribution", and women have the right to get this money and then distribute it freely.
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And Professor Yin's words can be said to have spoken the voices of women.
At the same time, it has also been recognized by most people.
Many times, we have to consider whether this society is too strict for women.
As a "woman in the new era", she must not only get married and have children, but also be financially independent.
However, in fact, how many women are able to do both.
But some netizens believe that Professor Yin's words are actually a "killing" of women!
There are even people who bluntly say: "Women feel that marriage is a loss, so they can not get married!"
Like the "high-priced bride price" in many regions, men are already overwhelmed, and who has considered the mental state of boys?
If married women feel at a loss, then why don't men feel at a loss?
After a lifetime of hard work, the bride price alone will make the family bankrupt, even if such a marriage is married, it is estimated that it will not be happy.
Here, I want to respond to the majority of gay men: "It's okay to ask for a bride price, but the price shouldn't be too high!"
To put it bluntly, marriage is a matter for two people.
They all come out of two families and form a new family.
Since both of them want to start a family, the focus of everything should be considered for their own small family!
But in the same way, if some men think that there is no need to take tens of thousands of bride prices, then in fact, it is better not to get married.
Otherwise, even if you get married, it's a piece of chicken feathers!
They all say, "Everyone should compare their hearts with their hearts!"
It is indeed the case that while men lament that women are pregnant in October and work for the family, women should also understand the difficulties of men.
Only in this way will it last longer in the future marriage!
And like the above-mentioned "Jiangxi woman asks for a bride price of 38.8w", I don't know if it's because the man over there has such "strength", or if the "sky-high bride price" is too common!
Finally, do you think what Expert Yin said makes sense?
Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss!
Reference Sources:
[1] 2024.3.1 Official website Douyin Ningbo Evening News "Is the bride price a guarantee of life or the objectification of women?
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