My husband and I are both from modest backgrounds, but we have stable jobs, so we decided to follow the traditional rules, with his family taking care of the down payment for the house and my family taking care of the renovation. The decoration cost is not low, and it costs more than 200,000 yuan to decorate a house of more than 100 square meters. His family spent more than 300,000 yuan on the down payment, and we plan to repay the loan together, so that the pressure on life can be much less.
Everything went according to plan, the certificate was received, the house was renovated, and it was only waiting to move in after the wedding. One day at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law suddenly told me that the house would not write my name, saying that it was their family's rule. I was so angry that I thought it didn't make sense.
Why, the renovation cost of my house doesn't count? Is it my family's nothing? I'm not the kind of daughter-in-law who is easy to bully. Since graduating from university, I have been crawling around in society alone, and I have to rely on myself in my work and life, and I have seen everyone. It's not like I've never seen a person like my mother-in-law who wants to take advantage and doesn't want to take responsibility. I said bluntly at the time, it's okay not to write my name, and the 200,000 yuan decoration fee will be regarded as a gift from me to their home. But don't want me to pay a penny to repay the loan in the future, there is no door!
He has to repay more than 4,000 loans a month, and her husband's salary is more than 6,000 points. It is conceivable that in the next twenty years or so, we will all be overwhelmed by this loan. At that time, the faces of the in-laws immediately changed, and it was obvious that they also realized the seriousness of the problem. The next day, when I was still at work, my mother-in-law called me and told me to hurry up and add my name to the real estate certificate.
Indeed, some people think that I have gone too far. But in my opinion, if they lead you by the nose before you enter your mother-in-law's house, then you will definitely have a hard time in the future. I'm just sticking to my bottom line, and I don't think I'm overdoing it. After all, marriage is a matter for two families, and it requires mutual respect and dedication from both parties. If they couldn't accept my insistence, maybe our marriage was destined to be full of contradictions from the beginning.