My husband and I met in college and have a deep relationship. After graduating, he chose to stay in the city and became a civil servant, while I went to work for a foreign company. My husband has a traditional and calm personality and only receives a basic salary every month, and my current salary is twice as much as his. Sometimes my friends will persuade me to find a better partner, after all, my conditions are not bad, why choose only him. At first, I was still angry when I heard them say this about my husband, but now I agree with them. The reason why I chose him is that I feel that his gentle personality complements me, and I believe that we will live a happy life. Before I got married, my family paid for the house and car, because my husband's family was poor, they only gave some jewelry as a bride price, and I didn't care. However, I've found that people tend to be like that, and the more generous you are, the more they will get an inch. My in-laws came to live at home for two days, but they stayed for half a year, which made me deeply understand this truth.
After two years of marriage, although our relationship is not as hot as a newlywed, it is not to the point of boredom. However, every time I had a slight argument with my mother-in-law, she would always ask me to leave on the grounds that the house belonged to her son. This made me feel very helpless, because this house was obviously purchased by my parents, and my name was written on the real estate deed, how could it become her son's house? What is even more unacceptable to me is that they even proposed to sell this house and replace it with a bigger one, because it feels a little crowded now. Such thoughts and behaviors really make me unacceptable.
Every time I had an argument with my mother-in-law, my husband, who used to always accommodate me, now chose to remain silent and even persuaded me to give in. It was a very different attitude from his previous attitude, and I was very disappointed. My in-laws have been living in our house for more than half a year, do they plan to stay forever? What makes me most angry is that one day I came back from overtime and found that they were still waiting for me to cook. I couldn't understand how I had to work hard outside all day and come home and have to serve them. They seem to take it for granted, it's my fault that I don't cook, and even if I do, they won't think I'm good. This attitude made me feel very aggrieved and angry.
Later, I clearly told my husband that the company would provide meals when he worked overtime in the future, and let him be responsible for taking his in-laws to solve the problem of eating. Unexpectedly, my husband was a little angry because of this, which was very different from his previous attitude. I really don't know how to deal with this situation now, do you have any suggestions?