At night, the bustling city lights flicker and traffic flows. In the center of the city, in a towering skyscraper, in the president's office, Li Xuan was buried in a pile of papers. Suddenly, the phone vibrates, and the screen shows a call from "home".
"Hey, wife. Li Xuan's tone revealed a hint of exhaustion, but it was gentle.
"Xuan, are you going home for dinner tonight? I made your favorite braised pork. On the other end of the phone, his wife's voice was sweet and concerning.
"Oh, I'm afraid it won't work tonight, there's an emergency meeting to be held. Li Xuan looked at the schedule and replied helplessly.
"Okay, then you pay attention to your body, don't get too tired. The wife seemed to be used to such an answer, and there was not much disappointment in her tone.
After hanging up the phone, Li Xuan sighed softly. He knew that his wife was kind to him, but this kindness seemed to be slowly eroding their marriage.
Li Xuan and his wife have been married for five years, and his wife is a typical good wife and mother, and the family's affairs are well organized. She not only decorates her home warmly and comfortably, but also often prepares various delicious dishes for Li Xuan. To outsiders, they are an exemplary couple.
However, as time passed, Li Xuan gradually found that his wife's kindness to him seemed to have become a burden. She was so focused on his every move that she even interfered with his private space. Li Xuan began to feel suppressed and constrained, and their marriage cracked as a result.
On this day, Li Xuan decided to have a good talk with his wife. He sat on the sofa in the living room, watching his wife's busy figure, and a complex emotion surged in his heart.
"Wife, let's talk. Li Xuan finally spoke.
His wife stopped what she was doing and sat down across from him, "What's wrong?
"No, you're doing a good job. But I want to say that your kindness makes me feel a little depressed. Li Xuan said frankly about his feelings.
After hearing this, his wife's face turned a little pale, "I...... I just wanted to make your life better, I didn't expect it to stress you. ”
"I know your intentions, but marriage is not a one-sided give-and-take. We all need to have our own space and freedom. Li Xuan tried to explain his thoughts.
The wife was silent for a moment, then nodded slightly, "I understand, I'll try to change." ”
In the days that followed, the wife began to try to adjust her ways. She no longer paid too much attention to Li Xuan's every move, nor did she interfere with his private space. Li Xuan also gradually felt the freedom and ease in marriage.
However, new problems have arisen. Because his wife was too accommodating to Li Xuan, she began to ignore her own needs and feelings. Her mood became depressed and she even began to doubt her own worth.
Li Xuan noticed the change in his wife, and he realized that his problem was not completely solved. He began to reflect on his actions and try to find a solution.
By chance, Li Xuan attended a lecture on marital relationships. During the lecture, the lecturer mentioned the idea that both parties in a marriage should be equal, respectful and supportive of each other. Either party giving too much or relying too much on it can lead to an unbalanced marriage.
Li Xuan was so inspired that he decided to apply this idea to his marriage. He began to pay more attention to his wife's needs and feelings, respecting her choices and decisions. At the same time, he also encouraged his wife to stick to her interests and hobbies and not to be completely dependent on him.
Gradually, their marital relationship began to change. His wife became more confident and happy, and Li Xuan also felt happiness and satisfaction in her marriage. They begin to plan for the future together and face life's challenges and difficulties together.
In this process, Li Xuan deeply realized the true meaning of marriage: mutual respect, mutual support, and common growth. He understands that his wife's kindness to him is not the problem itself, but how they balance each other's needs and expectations, and how they maintain independence and autonomy in marriage.
Now, Li Xuan and his wife have gone through the bumpy road of marriage, and their relationship is deeper and more stable. They know that as long as both parties work together and understand each other, they will be able to create a happy married life.
In this process, Li Xuan also deeply realized the similarities in corporate management as a president. He realized that both marriage and business management needed balance and respect. In marriage, he needs to respect his wife's independence and autonomy, and in business management, he needs to respect the individuality and needs of employees. Only in this way can we establish a healthy and stable relationship and achieve common development and progress.
Li Xuan's story tells us that the "good" in marriage is not a one-sided giving and acceptance, but requires the joint efforts, mutual respect and support of both parties. Only in this way can we create a happy and happy married life. At the same time, this concept of balance and respect can also be applied to corporate management, helping us to build healthier and more stable corporate relationships.
In fact, according to relevant research data, the stability of the marriage is greatly reduced when one partner is overly committed and the other partner is overly dependent. And when both parties are able to maintain balance and respect, the happiness and satisfaction of the marriage can be significantly improved.
Therefore, when we face marriage, we might as well have more understanding and respect, and less requirements and expectations. Let's work together to create a better married life!