In June 2012, in a small area in Sichuan, a figure jumped from the 13th floor.
By the time he was discovered, he was already breathing.
And the person who chose to end his life in the early hours of the morning was Luo Hongling, a Korean language teacher at Sichuan University.
Originally, according to the trajectory of her life, she was about to study for a doctorate, and at this time she had just been married for a few months and was in the newlywed period.
At the age of 31, she ended her young and fresh life in this way, which is difficult for many people to understand, and at this moment, her parents broke a shocking truth, it turned out that Luo Hongling's death was inseparable from her son-in-law's special habits.
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Love at first sight but a lifetime mistake
Luo Hongling is a girl from rural Chongqing, and in that poor era, her parents saved money to pay for her school, hoping that she could use knowledge to change her destiny.
Luo Hongling is the only child in the family, her parents did not continue to have children after giving birth to her, she grew up in the love of her parents since she was a child.
Despite the poverty of the family, the parents never skimped on their love for their daughter, and in order to earn money for her to study, the parents worked tirelessly.
And the sensible Luo Hongling never makes excessive demands on her parents, and will not beg to buy new clothes or toys.
Diligence and wisdom seem to be a gift from God to Luo Hongling, and in school, she is always the one at the top.
Later, in 2000, Luo Hongling took the college entrance examination, and with excellent results, she was admitted to the Department of Foreign Languages of Ocean University of China, a key university in China.
Luo Hongling's university life is rich and fulfilling, with her extraordinary talent and diligent and diligent learning attitude, her grades have always been at the forefront, and she is deeply loved by teachers and students.
Four years are fleeting, and in the face of graduation season, Luo Hongling made an unexpected choice. Unlike other classmates who were competing for a high-paying career, she gave up all offers and decided to continue her graduate studies at her alma mater.
During her graduate studies, she studied under Professor Lee Kwang-jae, a well-known expert in modern Korean literature.
Under the careful guidance of her supervisor, her academic ability has become stronger and stronger, and her master's thesis "A Typical Comparative Investigation of "Matchmaker" in Chinese and Korean Classical Marriage and Love Literature" has not only won high praise from the academic community, but also was rated as an excellent master's thesis in the country that year.
In addition to her academic achievements, she also went to South Korea for academic exchanges as a representative of the school.
In 2007, Luo Hongling graduated from Ocean University of China and left Qingdao with her for 7 years in high spirits.
With her attachment to her alma mater and her longing to teach and educate people, she returned to Chengdu, near her hometown, and became a Korean teacher at Sichuan University.
She loves this job because it allows her to teach to support her family and take care of her parents, while continuing to pursue her PhD in addition to preparing for her classes and fulfilling her academic dreams.
God rewards hard work, and Luo Hongling's teaching and scientific research are very good. As a teacher, she is also loved by her colleagues and students.
In everyone's eyes, she is a highly educated and talented woman who combines beauty and wisdom, lively and cheerful, progressive in life, and has unlimited future prospects.
Who would have thought that fate would play a big joke on this hard-working girl, and a chance encounter would make her life completely deviate from the original track......
Fate is wonderful, and sometimes inadvertently, two parallel lines that have nothing to do with each other suddenly intersect.
A class reunion in the summer of 2011 was the beginning of the relationship between Luo Hongling and Cheng Jiansheng.
30-year-old Luo Hongling is at the age of being as delicate as a flower. In the eyes of her classmates, she has achieved top-notch grades from childhood to adulthood, has outstanding appearance, studied in a prestigious school and became a university teacher, the road of life is straight and flat, and the future is bright.
is such a strong woman, but the emotional matter has always been blank.
When I was a student, I studied hard and missed the love of youth and ignorance, and I worked hard after work, and I had no time to take care of lifelong events.
Just when her family and friends were worried about her life's events, Cheng Jiansheng's appearance made Luo Hongling's eyes shine.
When she saw this boy with black-rimmed glasses and Sven Wen, fate came inexplicably.
Although Cheng Jiansheng's appearance is not handsome, his shy and gentle temperament deeply attracted Luo Hongling.
Cheng Jiansheng and Luo Hongling are fellow countrymen, they were alumni in high school, and now they are both working in Chengdu.
During the exchange, Cheng Jiansheng's bits and pieces moved Luo Hongling.
He is considerate and meticulous, and carefully notes all Luo Hongling's preferences, he is humble and polite, and he takes the right amount of proportion when dating, and never exceeds the rules.
Especially when she heard that Cheng Jiansheng was born in poverty, his parents divorced at the age of 7, and his mother was lost at the age of 12, Luo Hongling was even more pitiful and felt that he was very self-motivated.
How did Luo Hongling, who fell in love, know that Cheng Jiansheng's seemingly innocent and harmless appearance hides an ulterior secret.
The Tragic Truth About Marriage
On the evening of June 14, 2012, Luo Hongling's husband Cheng Jiansheng posted a Weibo to reveal the marriage between the two.
Luo Hongling left her last words on Weibo, then closed her eyes and jumped from the 13th floor in the early morning of June 15.
In this way, 31-year-old Luo Hongling chose to end her life in despair.
The marriage of the two only lasted for 5 months, what kind of Weibo did Cheng Jiansheng post to make such an outstanding woman with a bright future willing to give up everything and give up her life?
In 2011, Luo Hongling met Cheng Jiansheng through a party introduction.
A few months after the two established their relationship, they received their marriage certificate in early 2012.
After marriage, Luo Hongling took care of her husband in every way and fulfilled all the responsibilities and obligations of a wife.
But Cheng Jiansheng became more and more cold and indifferent to her.
As time passed, Cheng Jiansheng's cold violence showed no signs of improvement, and during the day, he always ignored it under the pretext that he was busy with work.
In the evenings, they either socialize or go to the gym, and rarely go home.
Even on weekends, he will find various reasons to go out, and he can't avoid the intimate contact with Luo Hongling and his wife, and he will find all kinds of excuses to shirk.
It stands to reason that the two newlyweds, even if they are not intimate, should be a normal way of getting along between couples.
The two people who were obviously close before they got married became even more cold after they got married.
Luo Hongling was puzzled, her husband's strange behavior made her suffer.
She asks for help online only to get an answer that she can't believe – your husband is most likely gay.
At first, Luo Hongling was still holding on to luck and didn't want to believe it. Until one day, she accidentally saw the same-sex dating software and photos in Cheng Jiansheng's mobile phone.
There are also ambiguous messages sent to him by other men, Cheng Jiansheng uses the Apple mobile phone he bought for him to hook up with other people of the same sex with various dating software, and uses the money he earns to buy gifts for other boys.
Under questioning, Cheng Jiansheng finally admitted that he was gay, and he married her just to hide his eyes.
This cruel fact made Luo Hongling despair. She fell into a deep depression.
It was enough to make her miserable and desperate.
What makes Luo Hongling even more unacceptable is that Cheng Jiansheng not only had affairs with many men behind her back, but also took them to their love nest to do shady things, and he admitted that he cheated twice during the marriage.
What's even more excessive is that when the two parties negotiated the divorce, Cheng Jiansheng also admitted to coming out on Weibo in public, exposing the privacy of the two to the world.
In an instant, Luo Hongling fell from a well-cared for female teacher to the object of everyone's guidance.
This is the husband she chose to give away everything she had after knowing her for a few months, and the initiator of the whole deception game.
Cheng Jiansheng's Weibo made Luo Hongling feel that her world had completely collapsed, and she was in pain, even during the day she was still a responsible university teacher, but who could see the holes in her heart.
Perhaps, death can make everything end.
The sad news of the sudden death of their daughter plunged the old couple into great grief more than two hours later.
They blamed Cheng Jiansheng for deceiving his daughter's feelings, which led to her suicide.
So the old couple found a lawyer and wanted to seek justice through legal channels. They demanded compensation from Cheng Jiansheng for mental damages, because this fake marriage directly led to Luo Hongling's death.
However, after the trial, the court still rejected all the claims of the Luo family.
The verdict undoubtedly made the old couple grief-stricken, their only child was deceived until he died, but the murderer was completely impunity.
After Luo Hongling's death, many of her friends and colleagues rushed over to question Cheng Jiansheng, who only said that the two did not quarrel that night and everything was normal.
So does Luo Hongling's death really have nothing to do with him?
Luo Hongling's tragedy has also triggered a strong response from all walks of life.
Many people lamented her tragic life experience, and similarly, the word "same wife" once again appeared in front of the masses.
Those women who marry homosexuals not only have to endure the cold violence of their husbands, but also have to worry about their physical and mental health at all times.
Many people are deceived and do not know that their husbands are homosexual before marriage, and it is not until after marriage that they gradually become clear.
And Luo Hongling didn't want to believe it before, but in the end she paid the price with her life.
Countless shadows are cast over this short life that has ended, and what can we do?
Looking back at Luo Hongling's growth process, it is so vivid and inspirational, a rural girl, with her diligence and talent, walked into the hall of a famous school step by step, and stood on the three-foot podium, which made countless people envious.
However, her life was not all smooth sailing, and her beautiful life came to an abrupt end.
In addition to mourning, we should learn a lesson.
I hope that no girl will encounter Luo Hongling's misfortune in the future. May every woman have a happy life and live the way she wants.
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In the name of life, I ask the female doctor about the pain of "the same wife" _China Economic Net - the national economic portal