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The baby is only three months old, and it is the time of the fuss, the wife can't vacate and wants her husband to help wash the bottle, but she is told by her husband that he will divorce her next month.
Not long after the two got married, the husband got married once, and he had to pay his ex-wife 2,000 yuan every month for living expenses, but his current wife didn't care about this, because the husband was his first love.
Just two days ago, a husband's move made his wife extremely cold.
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That day, the wife was coaxing the child, and suddenly saw her husband eating noodles on the coffee table, the wife didn't say anything, but the child was about to take medicine, and wanted her husband to help brush a bottle out to flush the child and drink medicine.
Anyway, the husband didn't have much work at hand, and it wouldn't take long to shake a baby bottle, but sure enough, the woman was rejected by her husband, and the husband said to her, "Can't you go?"
The wife suddenly felt a sense of grievance, the child is crying non-stop now, someone must hold her, and if she has empty hands, she will never call her husband to help.
As soon as this sentence was finished, the woman was reprimanded by her husband: "You can bring it, but if you can't bring it, you can get out." ”
The woman was also angry when she heard this, and without saying a word, she stuffed the child into her husband's arms, but the husband did not feel pity for the child in his arms, but carried the child back to the house without looking at it.
The husband put down the child and turned his head to come out again to continue eating the noodles he cooked, and let the child cry in the back room, at this time the wife swallowed her anger and reluctantly washed the bottle, and then continued to go back to the house to coax the child.
The woman posted on the Internet: Her husband is a bit of a double standard, if the roles of what happened today are reversed, he will still blame himself, if the woman is doing something else and neglects the child, the husband will directly swear words, but he will not take the initiative to help.
The husband often takes a mobile phone at home and swipes, and it is difficult to see him get up to do some work when lying on the sofa, and if you want to ask him why he doesn't do housework, he will say: I want to eat, play games, and brush Tik Tok, in short, I am very busy, and I hope that my wife will not disturb him if she has nothing to do.
This scene attracted strong condemnation from a large number of netizens, who were talking about why they had to live in silence as a wife, now that the child is only three months old, and there will be three or thirty years in the future, does the family have to live such a life all the time.
Netizen spicy comment: Thanks for sharing, I think my husband is much more pleasing to the eye, at least he is a person.
The child is not a person's business, raising the child is the responsibility of both husband and wife, the woman's husband in the video not only does not help her watch the child, but also does not give her a hand, the most important thing is that he doesn't care whether the woman eats or not.
When netizens were persuading them to leave, the woman's husband came out to bubble.
A netizen found a detail, as soon as the child cried, the woman hurriedly ran to the child's side, but at this time, the woman had to wash the bottle again, and then the woman was like a headless fly, and the child cried for a while, and the husband didn't care anyway, netizens felt that the woman had collapsed herself too tightly.
Then the woman's husband "Mr. Yan" replied at the bottom: When the child cried, he immediately got up and went to coax him, and when he saw his wife coming over, he thought that she was going to come over to coax the child, so he went out to eat again, and the rule that their children must go immediately when they cry is still made by him.
Netizens said that Mr. Yan's rule is simply redundant, and in a short period of time, adults can completely free up time to deal with other things, no matter how bad it is to coax the child alone, it is okay to wash the bottle alone, what the hell is it to see someone coaxing, and he went back to eat again.
Also, there is obviously a new confinement woman at home, and if she is responsible, she will be given more care, and now many mothers have postpartum depression, and the heroine has not lost her temper.
Later, Mr. Yan said that he didn't take it into account and would correct it in the future, but netizens felt that Mr. Yan was just arguing with strong words, obviously he had already been married once, or did he have no experience in running a family at all?
looked through the woman's video records and found that her married life was very unsatisfactory, but it was a chicken feather.
The day before, the woman revealed that her husband had been domestic violence against her before, and even kicked her arm and fractured it, but this is not the end, the most suffocating thing is that the husband ignored her many times during the woman's pregnancy, and once coldly and violently violated her.
Finally became pregnant for seven months, and her husband punched and kicked her, and her nose and face were swollen.
The woman had several kittens at home, but whenever the couple quarreled, the husband would kick the woman and her cat out of the house, and sometimes throw the woman's luggage out of the house.
This is not the end, the woman chose a caesarean section on the day of delivery, and when she was resting in the ward after the operation, her husband scolded her for "lying there motionless and doing nothing", and after just ten days of confinement, she was forced by her husband to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce, and she was often beaten by her husband throughout the confinement.
For a while, I didn't understand whether the woman was a warrior who charged for love, or a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle, she was already like this and wanted to continue this marriage, and the dust in the universe was not as humble as her.
A netizen suggested: Don't have children, divorce and leave.
As a result, another netizen replied: I thought so before I had children, and after I had children, I couldn't give up no matter what.
Maybe what really trapped the woman was not her first love filter for her husband, but the child she brought out from the ghost gate with all her hard work.
The woman now has no job, no income and no place to live, and she has no idea where to go after leaving her husband.
The woman posted a chat record when the two quarreled last year, when the husband said that the child does not need to have his surname, as long as the divorce is done, he will not pay a penny for the child's maintenance in the future, and the living expenses transferred by the mother-in-law to her husband over the years, because the woman also spent a little, and asked the woman to return half of it after the divorce.
Then the man also said that the woman is selfish and irresponsible, and will only ask for gratitude, and ask the woman to go as far as she wants, without taking into account the feelings of the husband and wife.
The woman used to have a small apartment of her own, and after she got married, she rented out the apartment, and asked her husband to collect the rent when she collected it, and the money she recovered was used to buy things for the family.
Until I was five or six months pregnant, I had a very serious morning sickness reaction at that time, and I ran to the hospital twice in three days, and kept asking for leave to the leader, and then in the conversation with the leader, the woman lost her job, and that job was the ceiling for the woman, not only was she not tired of going to work, but also her monthly salary was very high.
Later, the woman sold her small apartment and was ready to buy a new house, but the developer did not know what was wrong and never gave the owners an answer, for which the woman's husband often said that she scolded her and blamed her.
As mentioned above, the man will give his ex-wife 2,000 yuan for living expenses every month, but in fact, the man's monthly salary is 3,000 yuan, and he doesn't know if the remaining 1,000 yuan is enough for himself.
The man was also not to be outdone, and complained in the comment area, saying that his wife was pregnant and didn't go home in the middle of the night and didn't know where to go, and the child ran out in the middle of the night to burn her head not long after she was born, and the family conditions were not good, and the man kept persuading her not to have children, and it was a woman who had to give birth.
In short, the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother says that the mother is reasonable, but this man has not denied the matter of domestic violence, and this one thing alone can see whether this man is worth entrusting for life.
also has his own life, and he has to give his ex-wife 2/3 of his living expenses, which is unreasonable no matter how you look at it.
Some netizens found that when the child was just born in January this year, her husband did take good care of the child, but just three months later, her husband came to a performance that changed people, which made the woman sad and speechless.
Since two people who are not related by blood choose to live with each other, it is nothing more than bowing their heads to each other in life, and one party wants to make the other party be "domesticated" through PUA, control, violence and other means, which is not right.
The weak party will slowly become psychologically distorted under long-term suppression, and once it becomes depression, it will not be good.
The only thing that cannot be lost in a marriage relationship is yourself, and you must not get by.
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[1] Then there is a play: the husband only cooks his own share, and the wife is chilled when she sees it: the child is three months old, I have no job and no income, and he also said that he will go to the divorce on the 22nd of next month #Marriage # Whoever leaves can't live