Text/Flying Fish
The relationship between husband and wife actually has a shelf life, and after a long time, the relationship will slowly fade.
Time can dilute everything, including feelings.
Husband and wife live together, no matter how good the relationship is, they must learn to keep two hearts, because people's hearts are changeable.
As the saying goes, if leisure changes people's hearts, but people's hearts are changeable.
Zhu Deyong said: Marriage is like a dangerous building, you never know when it will collapse, and when you realize that it may collapse, it has already collapsed.
The husband and wife have been together for a long time, in fact, they are getting better and better, and even because of interests, there are many couples who calculate because of money, you may not think that the person who calculates himself is actually his own pillow person.
Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife cannot help but be tested.
No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, they should keep two more eyes, this is a vision, and it is also a way out for themselves in the future.
1. Don't trust the other person's commitment too much, keep yourself and be positive.
Even if you are married, you should not easily believe that the other person tells you to give up your job and take care of the children at home, saying that he earns money to support the family.
Many people have changed their minds because the other party has changed their minds after a few years, there are people outside, and it is difficult for the money to support the family to reach them, and secondly, they have lost their jobs for many years, and it is difficult to go out to find a job, so they regret it.
People's hearts will change, don't easily believe in your partner, even if you believe it, you must keep an eye on it, stay positive, don't lose yourself easily, and don't let yourself lose your job and ability to make money.
If you have no income for a long time, no job, just waiting for the other party to give you money, but the other party dislikes you, when you want to start working again, when you see that you are positive, they will suppress you and deny you, which means that they no longer love you.
Whether it's work or life, you have to constantly adapt and change yourself, don't stand still, maybe the other party won't wait for you in the same place, when the other party is far away, maybe they won't turn back and pull you, so that the distance between the two people is getting farther and farther, and they are destined to separate.
In marriage, we always have to keep ourselves, the bottom line is earned back by ourselves, and the sense of security is also given by ourselves, and we can't pin all our hopes on our partners.
Second, they should trouble each other and have restraint with each other.
Husband and wife live together, you don't listen to each other for everything, don't give each other everything to manage, you should master what you should master, you must also learn to fight.
For example, when buying a house, two people make money together for the house, then you also have to fight for a name for yourself, you can't write all the names of the other party, the marriage is full of variables, the other party wants to buy a house, but also through your consent, so that you are protected.
For example, in property, two people start a company together, and in some important documents, they cannot be signed by the other party, but they must contain each other, so that no one suffers a loss, and the other party is not bad-hearted.
Some people say that if a husband and wife live like this, isn't it a stranger's pattern?
Not really.
If you don't want anything, don't want anything, then others will worry about your property, and when you want to fight for it, you can't keep it, and even someone has already transferred it, leaving an empty box for yourself, leaving you with no way out.
People are selfish, and so are husbands and wives living together.
Only by restraining each other will the other party not mess around, and you can protect yourself.
In short, in marriage, the husband and wife can share the hardships together, but they may not be able to share the wealth together, only pay attention to themselves, no matter where the marriage goes in the future, they will not suffer too much.
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