"What's wrong with my dad? ”
In "The Gate of the Mansion", Bai Yingxuan, the second master of the Bai family, gives people the image that he does not have much responsibility, and he doesn't even seem to have any sense of existence.
His "reputation" that can't bear the Bai family is estimated to be well known to everyone outside.
But his wife and second grandmother are indeed a great character, a woman, but she can support the entire Bai family.
And behind this, of course, Bai Yingxuan's contribution is indispensable, and his dedication cannot be ignored, but "I have never opened my arms in my life".
In fact, in the final analysis, Bai Yingxuan is the real man, the most worthy man to marry.
So where can it be seen?
Bai Yingxuan has no talent to learn, but he has not done anything
In the Bai family, the most admirable thing is the second grandmother, such an ordinary woman, who can support the Bai family by herself, and make the Bai family stand tall, and even pay most of her life.
And there is another person who is admirable, that is the old lady Bai.
At the beginning, the Bai family was in the hands of Mrs. Bai, and it was well organized by Mrs. Bai.
But as Old Lady Bai got older and older, he realized that his time was running out, so he began to think about the next head of the Bai family.
The admirable point of Old Lady Bai is that he dares to hand over the Bai family, which his family has worked so hard for, to a person with a foreign surname, and he is still a woman.
In the case that many people did not understand, Old Lady Bai was still firm in his decision and personally handed over the power of the Bai family to the second grandmother.
In fact, at that time, Mrs. Bai was also a little compelled to live, and Bai Yingyuan, the uncle of the Bai family, fled to Xi'an to live because he was hunted and killed by the imperial court.
Bai Yingyuan is a person with superb medical skills, and he should have inherited the Bai family's business, but because of the grudge between him and Zhan Wangfu, he caused a fatal disaster.
Fortunately, he is kind-hearted, and he only saves people in his heart, because he accidentally saved an old man on the side of the road in the past, and he happened to be a person in prison.
So in order to repay Bai Yingyuan, the other party saved his life, and Bai Yingyuan settled in Xi'an from then on.
But his wife thought he had passed away, and when she couldn't accept it, she chose martyrdom, leaving only 4 children.
And Bai Sanye, Bai Yingyu, is a person who does not learn and has no skills, every day he just knows that he runs crazy outside, and he has no shape, do you say that he can hand over the Bai family to such a person?
Then only the second master Bai Yingxuan is left, but Bai Yingxuan is the most featureless, without the superb medical skills of his brother, and without the outstanding emotional intelligence of his younger brother, it is naturally difficult for him to be favored without characteristics.
It can be said that Bai Yingxuan is a transparent person in the Bai family, with no sense of existence and no achievements.
But his wife and second grandmother are different, and Mrs. Bai also saw the ability and leadership of the second grandmother, as well as her actions over the years, so she dared to rest assured that she would hand over such power.
It turns out that Mrs. Bai is far-sighted, and the second grandmother has lived up to his trust and expectations.
Carrying the second grandmother of the Bai family with one hand
Since the second grandmother took over the Bai family, she has given almost everything she has to the Bai family and managed the Bai family in an orderly manner.
In the case of being questioned, the second grandmother used facts to gag the mouths of those who didn't believe her.
As the leader of the Bai family, the second grandmother did not become a head taller than others because of this, let alone rely on her own rights to seek personal gain, and did things for the Bai family wholeheartedly.
After the Bai family's business stabilized, the second grandmother did not take all these into her own hands, but began to distribute, as long as she was a member of the Bai family, everyone had a share.
The second grandmother is soft-hearted and generous-minded, she knows that her eldest brother is living a hard life in Xi'an, so she asked Bai Jinglu to take over the store in Xi'an, so that she can take care of her father.
When distributing the shares of the Bai family, the second grandmother generously left the big head to the big house, and the third master Bai who was not usually very good at dealing with each took three shares.
The second grandmother is really admirable, and it is the most correct choice for Mrs. Bai to let her take over the Bai family.
In addition to the Bai family's business, her son Bai Jingqi's marriage broke her heart.
So while taking care of the Bai family's business, she also has to suffer from Bai Jingqi's anger at all times, Bai Jingqi also follows the character of the second grandmother, has a strong heart, and is unwilling to admit defeat, which has created Bai Jingqi's stubborn character.
Bai Jingqi married Huang Chun, the illegitimate daughter of the enemy family, which was enough to make the second grandmother angry, and even brought back the woman in the kiln, but he really didn't take the second grandmother seriously.
In the face of such a life, the second grandmother is under tremendous pressure to deal with all kinds of trivial matters every day, and if you put ordinary people, she can't stand it for a long time.
The second grandmother did not flinch, just because there was someone behind her support, that is, her husband Bai Yingxuan.
The man behind the second grandmother - Bai Yingxuan
Although Bai Yingxuan can't be a good leader, he is indeed the first good husband, and he has always been by the side of the second grandmother and is the backer of the second grandmother.
Bai Yingxuan's sentence "I feel distressed" made the second grandmother want to manage the Bai family well.
It can be said that the second grandmother protects the Bai family, and Bai Yingxuan protects the second grandmother, he is the harbor of the second grandmother, and he is the backer.
Just when the second grandmother took over the Bai family, she was questioned by the third master Bai, and said why she let a girl take care of the house.
At this time, it was Bai Yingxuan who stood up, in order to protect the face of the second grandmother, of course, he also believed in the ability of the second grandmother, and directly said to Bai Yingyu that he was not as good as a girl.
In addition to these, no matter what the second grandmother wants to do, Bai Yingxuan is unconditional support and companionship, and companionship is the most affectionate confession, this is Bai Yingxuan's love for the second grandmother.
As long as it is the decision of the second grandmother, he firmly supports it, he believes in the second grandmother and loves the second grandmother even more.
It is precisely because of his love that the second grandmother can be so beautiful outside, and she can dare to do it, all because of Bai Yingyuan's unconditional tolerance behind her.
In front of outsiders, Bai Yingxuan is a well-known coward and has no action, but in fact, he is indeed the most careful one, giving the second grandmother a sense of security and making people feel very down-to-earth.
Especially when Bai Yingxuan was a child, he was very outstanding in academics and medicine.
Then why is he a coward at this time, it is because he gave everything to the second grandmother, to his lover, and never made the second grandmother angry.
Therefore, Bai Yingxuan, who has been a "nest" all his life, has silently achieved the second grandmother, and he is so ungentlemanly, but in the eyes of the second grandmother, he is the most gentlemanly man.
Anyway, Bai Erye is the best man in the whole play, and he is the most trustworthy man.