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"Living on campus" has always been the only way for students to study, and now students are looking good for the decoration of the dormitory.
At the same time, they are also paying more attention to personal privacy issues, and many college students hang curtains on their beds.
You can do whatever you want without affecting others, after all, it's more convenient to change clothes or something.
However, just recently, a post about "colleges and universities prohibiting students from hanging bed curtains" rushed to the hot search, trying to explain the bad of this phenomenon.
can't help but make people wonder what is wrong with decorating their own dormitories to protect their privacy, which instantly caused a heated discussion on the Internet.
Many college students are very dissatisfied with this "explicit prohibition", and even the central mother can't help but come out and say, "Is it necessary to prohibit college students from hanging bed curtains in their dormitories?"
More importantly, the sentence "It seems to be conscientious, but in fact there is a suspicion of lazy government", how many colleges and universities have been approved that do not do their jobs?
It is a common phenomenon for college students to hang bed curtains
The word "live on campus" may seem simple, but it is not too uncomfortable for people who have never left home, some people can adapt to living in a group, but some people can't.
However, even if you can go to school nearby from elementary school to high school, you still can't avoid this lifestyle when you go to university. And at this time, the appearance of the "bed curtain" undoubtedly saved them.
In today's school, it is a normal performance, not only to protect privacy but also to decorate the dormitory beautifully.
It is also common in women's dormitories, after all, girls are easy to be shy, and it is really embarrassing to change clothes and look at each other.
It can be said that this solves the problem of students not adapting to dormitory life to a certain extent, in fact, as long as the hygiene and tidiness of the dormitory can be guaranteed, there is no big problem.
Looking at the dormitories decorated by the girls, it is hard to believe, is this really not your own home?
This level of delicacy is almost catching up with the cloakroom of the rich lady, should I say that the current girls are indeed very strong.
Maybe it's because it's too delicate and lacks the breath of school, and some colleges and universities have begun to ban "hanging curtains on the bed." ”
For a time, many college students complained about this kind of regulation, which did not affect their studies and increased their "sense of belonging".
As a result, I didn't expect it to become a bad atmosphere in the eyes of some colleges and universities, and even when faced with this kind of problem, they responded like this: "invisible walls block safety and interpersonal communication".
It's really puzzling, what security can a piece of cloth affect, and it's only pulled at night, on the other hand, what I want to say is that if the interpersonal relationship is good, it doesn't affect anything, and it's not good.
What's more, this phenomenon is very common in student dormitories now, and they have long been used to it. Suddenly, it was difficult for many college students to accept it, and there was a yin and yang in the comment area.
Netizens commented strongly dissatisfied
"This is easy to solve, just one person in one room. "Should I say it or not, netizens can talk.
Since there are many rules for living in groups, it is better to simply give students a single room, I am afraid that the school does not have so many rooms.
When some netizens saw this hot search, they directly angrily said, "Why don't you take care of campus bullying in your spare time", "Campus bullying, you don't care, it's okay to care about these indiscriminate".
Just recently, there have been a lot of fights on the Internet, and "school bullying" is not only dependent on schools, but also parents should care more about their children.
In addition, some netizens directly came up with an idea: "It is recommended that men and women sleep together, and in case of accidents, boys can protect girls." ”
Good guys! Treat others in the way of others, good skills to draw inferences from one trick.
"Cancel the morning eight, it's easy to die suddenly if you don't sleep enough" It can be seen that "morning eight" is not only very uncomfortable for school people, but also for office workers.
Some netizens said, "Check the dormitory three times a week, are you afraid that I will blow up D in the bedroom?"
In addition, in response to the phenomenon of not allowing bed curtains to be hung, netizens directly proposed "cancel the upper bunk, so as not to climb the stairs and fall to death".
What makes netizens speechless the most is that "the counselor does not approve the leave", obviously the parents have agreed, and the college student is an adult, but the instructor does not approve.
Some netizens said in the comment area, "The school has issued a notice stating that it will be punished for hanging curtains", is it still a crime to protect your privacy?
"The school gate has also been demolished, blocking the students' interpersonal communication" I really want to be laughed to death by netizens.
And what I didn't expect was that "the counselor has to take care of it when you send a circle of friends", which really doesn't know what to say.
But there are many, many netizens who have a deep understanding of things like this, and doing so is also conducive to protecting themselves.
It's not that there is a saying called "the heart of defense is indispensable", because you don't know when you will become the object of ridicule by others.
Seeing that things are getting more and more fermented, the controversy among netizens remains high, and even Yang Ma came out to speak this time.
CCTV voiced "is it necessary"
Yang Ma's copywriting reads: "Is it necessary to prohibit college students from hanging bed curtains in dormitories? It seems to be conscientious, but in fact it is suspected of lazy government."
In cooperation with the "small things that should not be taken care of" mentioned by netizens earlier, you can understand the meaning of Yang Ma's words.
In addition, this kind of "good for you" style of paternalism is also named by the central mother, you must know that they are adults after going to college.
College students have their own judgment skills, and efficiency should be more educational. If you treat them as high school students or even junior high school students, there is no need.
Don't look at Yang Ma's only a few short sentences, in fact, I don't know how many colleges and universities have been approved under the guise of "for your good" but are not on point.
On the other hand, they are all college students and adults, and colleges and universities do not need to be so strict within the scope of not violating the law and endangering safety.
Everyone has their own privacy, and learning to protect privacy is also a commendable performance, rather than "ripping off" the fig leaf of others regardless of their feelings.
Instead of having so much time to worry about the little things that don't matter, it's better to focus on the real things.
In any case, the foundation of university education lies in "adulthood", not for three-year-old children to think and act independently.
Colleges and universities should not only achieve education, but also give them free space to avoid "self-dwarfing"!
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Beiqing.com, April 23, 2024 - CCTV: Is it necessary to prohibit hanging bed curtains in college students' dormitories?
Douyin CCTV Quick Look, April 24, 2024 - Is it necessary to prohibit college students from hanging bed curtains in dormitories?
The Paper, April 23, 2024 - Colleges and universities in many places prohibit students from hanging bed curtains, and counselors: "invisible walls" block safety and interpersonal communication