I once heard such a sentence: "In a person's life, you will meet countless times, some of them are the scenery you have seen and forgotten, and some of them are rooted in your heart."
That was the first emotion in my life, and it was also the most beautiful memory. ”
But after a long time, no matter how beautiful the scenery is, you will get tired of it, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be as light as water.
When you are no longer in touch and no longer caring,
That's when it's time for you to break off contact.
- Love to the end, just touched
There is a friend, after falling out of love, he has asked himself countless times in his heart: "If I hadn't been with her at the beginning, what would happen to me now?"
He always asks himself, but never thinks about the answer.
But when he really went through this relationship, he found that the person he used to be was no longer the relationship he once had.
Later, they broke up. The two have never been in touch since. But even so, he would often think of her, of the days they had walked together.
Later, I happened to chat with a friend, and I learned that the two of them had long since broken off contact.
It turned out that at the beginning, the friend found out about the change after she was with that person.
As she herself said, "He changed me from a big grin person to a strict one for myself." ”
- The one who loves you will not leave
In life, there are many people who, even if they love again, will never be contacted again.
It's not that they don't want to love, but they don't have confidence in the relationship, it's not that they don't want to cherish it, but they feel tired.
If you love someone, you will not forget because of time, but only because you have not loved.
You don't have to worry about your relationship coming to an end, you just need to remember:
I'm there for you anytime, anywhere.
Even if I forget your phone number and WeChat ID, I can still find you through my phone.
As long as we can connect, it means that we love each other.
Since you still love me and care about me, then I will always love you and care about you.
No matter how good the relationship is, it can't stand the polish of time.
You know: some people are destined to only accompany us for a while, while others are just passers-by.
- Those who love you are reluctant to let go
Love is a thing that people look forward to and are afraid of. Each of us is trying to pursue a relationship, and in the process, we will meet many people, some of whom are just passers-by in our lives.
But those who really love you, they are reluctant to cut off contact with you. Because they're afraid of losing you. Because they know that even if you cut off contact, they will silently watch you in their hearts, and they are reluctant to let you leave their side like this.
If you meet such a person, then please cherish it. Because in this world, it is not easy to meet someone who truly loves you. If he really loves you, he won't keep you waiting too long. So in this relationship, if you have been in touch, then please cherish him!
- It takes time to put down a person
Life is not a journey, it's a journey. No matter how determined you are, in the end, you will find that life is a journey, and all experiences are meaningful.
However, not everyone will understand this truth. Learn to let go when the person you love no longer loves you.
No one is obligated to be nice to you, and no one is obligated to accommodate you. If one day, you find that there is no longer any contact between you, it means that the relationship is over.
Whether you will contact each other in the future or not, cherish each other. There is no obstacle in life that you can't overcome, and time will help you resolve everything.