I have a friend who has seen many people who don't have ears because he is a plastic surgeon.
I also know a colleague who has met many bosses of listed companies, because he is in charge of one of the links of the company's listing in the organ, and the bosses come to him to do things under the leadership of some local comrades.
These people are all because of their coincidental occupations, so they are able to meet some groups that ordinary people can't see. In fact, I am also a person, and I also have some coincidences, so I have seen a group that ordinary people can't see, what is this group?
It's a gold worshipper!
When many people mention the gold girl, everyone's first reaction is that this person loves vanity, advocates famous brands, is not diligent in his limbs, does not distinguish between grains, and thinks about pies falling from the sky all day long, so as to let himself lie on the kang and drink sesame oil......
In fact, if you think so, it is biased, because you have not been close to their group, and when you really walk into it, you will find that the worship of money is of the highest quality, which is called money worship. Such cultists regard the men who receive large amounts of money as gods!
First of all, what would it be like if a little girl in her early 20s, beautiful and shiny, and a half-old man in his 40s and 50s?
When I was younger, I ran a tabloid newspaper because I had to earn money to support my family, and I wrote about this many times. For example, in the old society, while beating the legs of the landlord during the day, the aunt and wife thought to herself, how to go to the meeting the night after tomorrow, that tall and strong long worker.
Another example is the old singer in Shanghai, who laughed with the capitalist master while thinking about how to make money quickly, and then ran away with the second tiger who pulled the cart.
Of course, there are also witty and brave female underground parties, such as Aqing's sister-in-law, which is called Zhidou!
But in fact, I have seen a group of girls around me now, and they have feelings for those old men in their forties and fifties, even in their fifties and sixties, or even in their sixties and seventies! That love comes from the chest, from the heart, from the heels to the legs, and then to the waist to the chest and to the brain.
I can't pretend to be emotional, and I've seen a lot of men with "sexual redundancy".
What is sexual redundancy?
It's the kind of man who sits in the first class cabin and the little girl can stuff a note in his pocket. Sometimes the stories that exist around them are unbelievable to tell. It made me wonder what were their merits, what attracted the young girls to hunt them with their bright beauty!
Of course, the simple answer is money. Combining money with an old man is like combining milk and coffee, so wonderful, so sweet.
Let the gold-worshipping girl drink like food!
Some time ago, there was a beautiful lady on the Internet, what a "fish", and as a result, she had an unbearable affair with an uncle. also asked the uncle to take a picture and post it on the Internet, making it known to the world. In fact, what kind of fish is this, she is also a beautiful girl, with a very high education, who is not allowed to pay attention to it when she stands out, and take a look at it.
And what about the so-called uncle? In some circles, sharing sports videos of oneself has become a dirty hobby for many middle-aged people. And the heroine who appears in these videos will certainly not be the woman who is called sister-in-law by her buddies!
But why do some fish fall willingly at the foot of the undisguised prodigal son?
Actually, I found one thing. This kind of fish girls often have a common characteristic, that is, the family environment is not good.
The so-called family environment is not good, it does not mean that the family lives in poverty, or that the parents are only shallow and have no culture. Rather, such a girl has no status in her original family, and her father has no status!
I've been in close contact with several of these girls, and now there's another one in front of me, and they're almost all carved out of a mold.
Some of these girls come from intellectual families, some come from performance families, and some are from ordinary urban families. But parents are very energetic, and they train their children to be both beautiful and artistic. Attention, I really haven't seen any girls in the poor ravines in the countryside worship money, and it may be that kind of girl can't get into the eyes of the big guy!
Just like the girl in front of me I knew.
When she talked to me, I was surprised to hear that her mother hadn't said a good word about her dad all the time she was growing up. Her mother's evaluation of her father was two words: "Womb!" And her view of her father was the same as that of her mother.
The girl's father was a junior civil servant. In her mouth, her father is like the image of a submissive little civil servant in Chekov's novels, of course, maybe her father is not like this, but in the eyes of her and her mother, his father is that virtue:
窝囊,一辈子没本事!
My father has worked at the grassroots level for many years, and it seems that he was given a section-level treatment when he was about to retire, but in fact, this is very common in the grassroots civil servants, and the director of some of the town's institutes is a regular department, and there are dozens or even hundreds of people below, how do you let everyone be promoted.
When I was in the Central Straight in the past, the comrades who came to work below always said politely when they saw me, Section Chief Meng. I was embarrassed, but I had only been in the agency for a few days, and I said, "Don't don't, we don't have that high rank, just ordinary clerks." ”
But those comrades politely said to me:
"Hey, in your unit, isn't it just a matter of a year or two? I guess the next time I come to do something, you will be the deputy director!
Indeed, on the one hand, it is the politeness of the comrades who come up to do things in the localities, and on the other hand, there is indeed a lot of room for some large units to rise. When it comes to the point, the real fight is basically above the department level, and many of our colleagues can get you a second tour even if they work in the most plain way, and when they finally retreat. But the problem is that it doesn't work locally!
And I really don't think that a person has to be a director in order to be successful. You have to be a boss, you have to earn a few small goals, and you have to be called a successful person!
Really, many of our young lesbians today have a very old idea, much more stale than one of my aunts. Some people say that since ancient times, women have had a concept of Muqiang, which I also admit, and I am also Muqiang!
In my life, I have met many wonderful men.
For example, my ex-husband, Comrade Chen Daren, was wounded on the battlefield in the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam, and when I saw his shoulder injury, I felt a sense of admiration. Another example is Mr. Ben, whom I used to know, who is a patriotic overseas Chinese who has been volunteering in China for ten years. This is something I admire very much.
Let's talk about my wife.
My wife is a very good person, sincere and simple, loyal and kind. And self-denial, self-cultivation and self-discipline. Yes, my wife was very responsible in her youth, and she didn't have the kind of so-called man's greasy thoughts in society. What people have been in the flowers, that feeling.
It was only after I married him that I found out that he was an original floral letter. This makes me admire. He is thirty years old, and he must know that he is also an officer in the army! And his family conditions are also very good.
Although I was the eldest daughter of Huanghua at that time, the problem is that I am passive because I am not in good health, and I have been taking medicine for a long time, and no one dares to pick it. I'm afraid that I will break my flower seedlings again when I pick them, but my wife, who can cultivate herself to this extent, makes me admire!
I think there are many excellent men in the world who deserve my admiration.
For example, I know an eldest brother who is very well educated and writes calligraphy, he wrote to me, and we exchanged poems together. The letter of the eldest brother has always been neat and tidy calligraphy, and the word "pause" is added at the end. Heck, there are fewer people who can write such a complete and beautiful codex these days!
On the other hand, this eldest brother is just a street cadre, and he is about to retire when he speaks, and he has not been promoted in his life, but this does not affect my admiration for him! The eldest brother's handwriting is really good, and I recently wanted him to help me carry a fan!
I also know a big brother who is a filial son. This eldest brother is a taxi driver, and later went to pedal for a three-wheeled tour. Why? It's because his mother has Alzheimer's disease, jumping and making noise at night, and his eldest brother can't sleep well, so he doesn't dare to drive. changed jobs, and he personally served the old lady. Day and night. This touched me very much, this can be filial piety in the past! Therefore, I look at my eldest brother differently!
These men all have their shining points, and they can all be worthy of our admiration. Confucius said, there must be a teacher for threesomes. But the problem is that in the current social environment, many women's worship of men is left:
Qian Jiaquan!
Right!
It turned out that a classmate in our class was called Qian Jiaquan, and I didn't think anything at that time, but later when the university party came, everyone said, hey, your kid is amazing, I thought of everything!
There is money and power. There are a few people in this world who can earn money and hold power at the same time. Is it true that such a person can achieve such so-called achievements by virtue of ability, true knowledge, and ability? Is there any so-called collusion in this, and is there any so-called vertical and horizontal in the middle?
To be honest, I have also been in Vanity Fair, and I have seen many things very clearly, and even if I am not in bad health and can continue to work in this Vanity Fair, I will not have reverence for all the people in high positions, because I have seen some people eat ugly.
Such people have long put morality on both sides, and put the word Li in the middle, as the saying goes, thin-skinned, can't eat thick-skinned, eat enough. We don't have any comments on this. I just want to say that those who make a lot of money are not necessarily worthy of worship, you can feel that his business vision is more keen, but it is really implemented in character and morality, quality and education, oops, there are a lot of messes!
But some of our mothers, the education of girls, is to imperceptibly describe to her a portrait of an excellent man, and two words are highlighted on this portrait, Qian Jiaquan!
So, the girl is desperate, so the girl doesn't care about the shame, so the girl is ingenious, full of tricks, so that she will really love, to worship, to stammer, to flatter the kind of powerful old man, they are not annoyed and pouting to beat the old man's legs, but are anxiously waiting for the master's favor!
I especially hate the word "pet" that is popular on the Internet today. Could it be that a man's love for a woman is a pet?
What is a pet? A superior is a pet to a subordinate. People bark at cats. Is this the status that contemporary women should have?
But now, there are so many girls around us who identify themselves and should be spoiled by men in this life. They believe that with their own advantages and their own female resources, they should be worthy of the flop and favor of powerful old men!
"I don't want your tenderness that accomplishes nothing, and true love that is worthless. "There were so many good young men next to them, but she didn't even look at them.
Because of the excellence of those young men, they may be motivated at work, positive and optimistic in life, they may be helping others, they are strict with themselves, they are down-to-earth, and they work actively, but none of these advantages can enter the eyes of the girl, she only needs Qian Jiaquan. The young man who has not been blessed by money and power is handsome in her eyes, and he has no temperament!
"Only a man like my godfather is worthy of my 20 years of cultivation!"
The girl's words were categorical. She said: "Those working boys, in my opinion, are very naïve and obscene, and I can't be interested in them at all!"
In fact, this little girl herself is also very good, whether it is academic qualifications and appearance, that youthful face, walking in our courtyard, will cause other people's side eyes, people ask me, who is such a beautiful little girl?
What can I say, I can't imagine how I can answer until now. I tell the truth, I say to others, this girl is like a flower and a jewel, this is what my brother raised outside......
At this point, the little girl has gone completely crazy, and she has been planted in Uncle Kuo's rich nest with all her heart, and her parents can't pull it back even if they want to. The little girl's mother also used to greet her daughter and then asked her daughter to hand me the phone. I hope I will persuade her daughter.
To be honest, I can understand and sympathize with this painstaking effort, but I also said in my heart, you can't persuade you as a biological mother, but I can persuade her as her godfather's sister?
I really don't understand some of the current social phenomena, and I really don't understand why some parents can educate their children so badly. I waited until this time to cry and cry to find the girl, but it was already night, and the girl was all grown, and she was running along your ideology, and the more she ran, the more crazy she became.
Husbands and wives should respect each other!
This is not only an interpretation of the relationship between husband and wife, but also a need for the correct education of children. If a mother belittles her daughter's father all the year round, then this will have a great impact on her daughter's future view of mate selection.
In fact, I will also say one more thing here, many older leftover women can't find a suitable spouse in the end, and it is also because they limit the definition of spouse to Qian Jiaquan in a narrow sense!
Only men with high incomes and high positions can trigger the spring hearts of some girls, but they turn a blind eye to ordinary young men, to those young men who are down-to-earth and work hard.
It is said that a woman's love comes from worship, but the problem is that many women stand on the left bank of marriage, and on the right bank, aren't there only a few men who can be worshipped by them?
How many women were able to cross the river? In the end, the vast majority remained. I can only look at the elites here and sigh, and ignore the masses!
Some people summarize this in animal nature, that is, in the wolf pack, only a few upper male wolves and leaders have the right to breed, and the rest of the wolves can only stand aside, but the problem is that the wolf pack, not the crowd.
Monogamous marriage itself is intended to allow more women and men to have the right to reproduce. It's a protection for both men and women, but now, somehow, some people seem to have transitioned from the crowd to the wolves again......
Women who love money are pathetic, but those women who only look at the elite men are even more pathetic!
A while ago, there was a poisonous chicken soup, which was quite popular on the Internet.
How can a woman who has been protected by an eagle fall in love with a sparrow?
But the question is, there's a hole in this, that is, you, as a person, where are you? Can you be independent? Can you have an independent consciousness other than being protected by the eagle or the eagle? Can you have an independent mind? I think as long as you are a truly independent woman, you are not afraid to live with sparrows! On the contrary, they will also appreciate the beauty of sparrows.
Because such women do not depend on others and do not need to be protected by others, on the contrary, they will appreciate the snow and moon and the wind and flowers, will appreciate the joy of life, and will appreciate more diverse success and wider excellence!
I remember that when I was working, I had a very good colleague who had a good education, good conditions in all aspects, and he was also a reserve cadre in the unit. At that time, I asked him, what kind of daughter-in-law do you want to find. He said without hesitation, I just want to find a comfortable room and IKEA, so that I can teach my husband and children in a down-to-earth manner and support my work in the future. Later, this gay man gave up the pursuit of the daughter of a certain big leader and married a little nurse in the infirmary of our unit!
The little nurse is not tall, delicate and elegant, and at first glance she is a good woman who takes care of her family, and now these two people live very beautifully. The man's career has also climbed, and the wife is devoted to the family, and the two babies are very good!
Margaret Thatcher's husband was an ordinary British businessman. The husband of iron-fisted President Angela Merkel is an honest chemistry teacher, a real big woman with a full heart, who is not afraid of getting married, and respects ordinary men!
Because they don't need to rely on marriage to get some kind of affirmation, they don't need to rely on marriage to get some kind of climbing, all they have is to rely on themselves. There is no need to use the female dividend to find a backer for yourself.
It's like a meme often said on the Internet. My husband said a word, I will raise you, but this raising is actually for steamed buns.
But I want to say the last sentence, my definition of my wife's sentence "I raise you" is to be able to eat white flour steamed buns, which is to give us a subsistence. This is the lifeboat in marriage. Lifeboats, you still expect luxurious facilities in there, dig a pool!
People can dedicate a lifetime of white steamed buns to me, and I am very content and grateful. If I need a better life, I will run by myself, why wait for others to offer it?
It sounds right for a woman to get married, but if everyone wants to get married, and everyone wants to change their fate through marriage, then it will cause a stampede, and many women will miss out on marriage. It will also result in many women becoming supernumeraries in the family......
In fact, many of the older leftover women I have contacted are not the kind of women who are very disgusted with marriage and frown when they see men, they just lost PK in the tragic war of getting married, they are uneasy and hateful for life!
But in fact, if we change our thinking, there are thousands of roads, why do we climb higher? There are so many things, we don't understand! We can't change them, but we just want to complain!
So, just make this note, talk about the heart!
