It is estimated that as soon as you see the word "nosy", many people will involuntarily have a sentence in their minds: "Nosy, no." ”
Indeed, "everyone sweeps the snow in front of his own door, and does not care about the frost on the tiles of others" and "manages himself, and does not cross others" and so on have become the philosophy of some people.
But life is not black and white, and people are not all indifferent and ruthless, if they do not maliciously interfere in the lives of others, satisfy their own selfish interests and infringe on the rights and interests of others, but sincerely help others solve problems, even if they occasionally meddle in things, they will not be disgusted.
Such "meddling" adds warmth to society and others, and saves other people's lives and property, but it is the kindness we should remember.
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"Nosy" to add warmth to society and others
"Ding-dong, ding-dong......"
As soon as the residents heard this "exclusive ringtone", they knew that the police Qu Bin was coming.
A few years ago, when Qu Bin visited the community, he met a brother and sister whose parents died young, and the brother and sister depended on their grandmother for their lives. He immediately took the initiative to take out part of his salary as a living allowance for the family.
One day, the brother and sister had to go to the city to run errands, leaving their grandmother alone at home. The brother and sister were not at ease, so they handed over the key to the house to Qu Bin and asked the "big brother" to have time to help take care of it.
Later, the brother and sister left the key in Qu Bin's hands, and whenever he visited the village, he would always go to this house to see what difficulties they had in life.
When some villagers who had been working outside for a long time and who had elderly people at home heard about this, they also gave another key to their home and asked Qu Bin to keep it on their behalf.
Since receiving the first key in 2015, Qu Bin has kept 119 keys to the villagers' homes!
In addition, he also takes care of many parents' small things, for example, people who work outside the home, sometimes ask him to visit his home and help pay the water and electricity bills, and some people ask him to send documents from home to the place where he works......
It can be said that what Qu Bin holds in his hands is not only a key, but also the deep trust and great responsibility of the masses.
Great love is invisible, all in daily life, permeating all aspects of life.
In life, we do meet people who are indifferent to others, they may be immersed in their own little world, and lack interest and care in the people and things around them. This attitude may make them feel at ease on their own, but for those around them, it can feel cold and alienated.
Nor should we lose faith in humanity because of this. In this world, there are still many people like Qu Bin who are willing to lend a helping hand, care about the needs and feelings of others, and use actions to convey warmth and love, so as to make the world a better place.
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"Meddle in your business" and save someone's life
's brother Kang Ruwei carried a young man, but as soon as the guy got in the car, he threw him a wad of 100 yuan in cash, saying that it was a tip for him.
Kang Ruwei was confused and hurriedly asked what was wrong. The guy spoke with a crying tone, his mood was very unstable, and he said the destination "in the middle of Tuoer Bridge".
Kang Ruwei was startled at first, but after noticing the abnormality, he immediately calmed down and patiently listened to the young man's thoughts of suicide due to emotional and family reasons. He was like a confidant big brother, comforting the guy while quickly turning the steering wheel and driving to the police station.
On the way, the guy asked Kang Ruwei many times to send him to the bridge, he always patiently persuaded him, and the guy asked puzzledly: "I can't even recognize you, can you help me do something?"
Kang Ruwei said: "I'm afraid that you will regret it, and I am afraid that your family will regret it." "You get in my car today, don't worry!"
As he spoke, the car had already driven into the police station.
After repeated enlightenment, the guy's mood gradually stabilized, Kang Ruwei returned a wad of cash "tips" to him, and the police also sent the guy home safely.
Kang Ruwei's sentence "You get in my car today, rest assured" not only sewed up a broken heart, saved the guy's life, but also saved a home that was almost torn apart.
Ask yourself, if we encounter a similar situation, do we pretend not to hear or see, or do we have the zeal to reach out and stop the impending tragedy?
There will always be various challenges and difficulties in life, which make us feel confused, frustrated, hopeless, and even doubt the value and meaning of our own existence, while a warm word from others, a caring action, is like a beacon that illuminates the way forward, so that we are no longer confused and afraid.
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"Nosy" and keeping other people's property
A few days ago morning, Master Fei, a barber in Zhejiang, welcomed Mr. Li, a regular customer in the store.
During the chat, Master Fei felt that Mr. Li's mood was not quite right.
It turned out that a friend of Mr. Li told him that there was a "policy" in a place where he could do business there without having to repay the loan. He didn't want to miss the opportunity to make money, so he decided to invest 160,000, but his wife refused to let him go, and the two got into trouble to the point of divorce.
Master Fei was puzzled, and Mr. Li dug out the chat records to corroborate.
When Master Fei saw it, he felt very unreliable and reminded Mr. Li if he had met a liar.
But Mr. Li didn't take it seriously at all, and said that his friend who was originally in the noodle shop business had closed the store and took out a loan of 100,000 yuan, and recently bought a luxury car......
Master Fei couldn't persuade him, so he had an idea, and persuaded Mr. Li to perm his hair on the grounds that "I want to talk about big business next". Mr. Li readily agreed.
Taking advantage of the waiting, Master Fei excused himself to go out to buy something, and quickly ran to the police office next door to call the police. The anti-fraud police officer checked the contents of Mr. Li's mobile phone and determined that it was an investment and financial fraud.
Mr. Li woke up from a dream and realized that he had been fooled.
Imagine, if Master Fei "has nothing to do with himself", Mr. Li's 160,000 yuan is very likely to be lost, and maybe there will be a wife separation.
I have to say that Master Fei is a good person, not only can cut his hair, but also very wittily "cut" the occurrence of a telecom fraud case. Such a "nosy", full of positive energy, is not much for 10,000 likes.
I believe that there are still many "Master Fei" around us, thank them for making the right decisions at critical moments, and thank them for being willing to extend a "nosy" hand.
Although we may sometimes be misunderstood as meddling, it is this seemingly superfluous and misunderstood kindness that converges into a warm current that gives warmth and strength to others.
We should not put away our kindness because we are afraid of being misunderstood, but should be more courageous to reach out and practice and pass on the goodness of human nature. At the same time, let us embrace those seemingly "nosy" behaviors with a heart of understanding and tolerance.