In the "Four Teachings of Liaofan", it is said: "My life is made by me, and I ask for blessings." ”
There is no doubt that people's happiness is created by themselves, and so is wealth.
When you want to get rich from society, ask yourself: Are you qualified?
If you calm down and think about it, you will find that before a person makes a fortune, there will be the following signs in his body.
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"Steady mouth": say less and do more, stay away from right and wrong.
As we all know, the mouth is the root of trouble.
If you disagree, it will cause public anger and may even break the law and commit crimes. Whether it is instigating others to make mistakes, or scolding others, spreading rumors, or opening up rumors, it is not a good thing.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Duke Qi Huan and Guan Zhong discussed what to do next. They are ready to attack the state of Ju and make it a vassal state of the state of Qi, so as to gain more wealth.
Before sending troops, Guan Zhong found that Ju was fully prepared and had to give up the attack.
After investigation, it turned out that when Guan Zhong and Qi Huan were discussing, there was a small official next to him. Through the shape of the mouth, the word "Ju" was judged, and according to the ideal of Qi Huan Gong to dominate, he came to a conclusion - to attack the State of Ju.
The officer said, "I can't hear the sound of deliberation, but the shape of your mouth says it all." ”
Remember, if you want to do great things, you have to keep your mouth shut up often. As the saying goes, if you don't want people to know, you can't say it unless you don't say it.
If you don't say anything, but others say how you are, that's spreading rumors, and the initiative to counteract is in your hands.
A cousin of mine set up a stall in front of the school and sold ice water.
Someone asked him how the noodles were at the stall next door. The cousin said casually: "It's all overnight noodles, what's the good thing." ”
In a word, the two stall owners started the scolding mode. My cousin was forced to give up setting up a stall and lose a business.
If my cousin didn't speak, wouldn't all these evil consequences be gone?
Remember, if you want to create wealth, you don't just have to move your mouth, you have to use your hands.
You've got your way, get started. When your career is doing well, reach out to help others. It won't be long before your life will be full of virtue and endless rewards.
You get a lot of money, but you don't flatter yourself and keep a low profile. It copes with the law of "wealth is not exposed". Others will not be jealous of you, but will cooperate with you further and are willing to help you earn more money.
Mr. Lu Xun once said: "If a person still has a heart of right and wrong, it is better to say it directly; otherwise, even if he is spitting, a discerning person will also see him." ”
If you manage your mouth well, the less right and wrong, the smoother your career development and interpersonal relationships.
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"Ear steady": block out the noise and focus on the goal.
These days, the flow of information is so great that you can hear who is discussing what you see on the network anytime, anywhere. You can also listen to the radio and listen to rumors. Listen to store advertisements, etc.
Therefore, we need to improve our shielding power, choose useful information, and don't take everything to heart, as wisdom.
King Hui of Qin wanted to get the land of Shu and expand the territory of Qin.
However, it is difficult to go to Shu and to go to the sky. King Qin Hui was very worried, how could he send troops to Shudi?
For a period of time, King Qin Hui built a building of a golden ox at the junction of Qin and Shu, and put a lot of gold behind the ox.
Then, the people of Qin spread the news: "Qin has cattle that can pull out gold, and whoever picks it up will get rich." ”
The people of Shudi, after hearing the news, immediately took action and dug the road to the Qin State. Some people did get the gold sent by King Qin Hui, and said that the next step was to send a golden bull.
In order to bring the golden ox home, the people of Shu built the road wider.
There is no doubt that the Qin army attacked Shu by the way.
There is a word called "mixed fish".
What the eyes see is not necessarily true, and what the ears hear is even more unreliable.
The philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche once said, "If our ears are full of what others say about us all day long, if we even speculate on what others think about us, then even the strongest people will not be spared." ”
Think of the ear as a "filter". When you hear something, ask yourself: Is the information true, where does the information come from, and is the information useful to you?
After a while, the information you hear will either disappear, be denied, or become a joke.
Even if it is the advice of others to you, you should also listen selectively, don't generalize. There are always people who say jealous words, hinted words, and misguided words.
When your ears are cleared, you can focus on your own things and be less distracted.
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"Stable heart": the heart is peaceful, and the desire is strong.
Many people can't get rich, not because they don't have money in their hands, but because they are too greedy, which leads to blind investment and falls short.
Once upon a time, there was a beggar who met Lu Dongbin.
Lu Dongbin turned stones into gold and gave them to beggars.
The beggar thought to himself, a piece of gold, one day it will be spent. It would be nice if he could get Lu Dongbin's finger and point out the gold at any time.
Lu Dongbin soon learned the beggar's true thoughts, picked up the gold and left, without a trace.
For the desire of his heart, he lost the gold in his hand. Such things happen frequently in our lives.
Scholar Zhou Guoping said: "The best state of life is abundant quiet. ”
To make a fortune is not to hold up a mountain of gold in your hand, but to be very rich in your heart, and your claim for wealth has its own scale.
To make the heart rich, on the one hand, it is to read books to improve one's ability to make money, and on the other hand, it is to control one's desires and resist bad temptations.
Don't think crookedly, don't want ill-gotten gains, don't seek to get rich...... Make money slowly, and the wealth will truly belong to you. Life will also be stable because of wealth.
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The thinker Hong Yingming said: "Accumulate knowledge with the heart of accumulating wealth and goods, read morality with the heart of seeking fame, and love your parents with the heart of loving your wife." ”
It turns out that it is not difficult to make a fortune, as long as you have knowledge, merit, and love for your family, you can succeed.
If you want to be rich, but you ignore the people around you, and you still count your family, it will be even more difficult to get rich.
Pulling out the root of poverty from oneself and planting a seed of happiness is the best way to become rich.
Be a wise person, do what you do, and all things can be accomplished.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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