The son was lost
The Jialing River meanders in, and the West River sweeps through the ancient city like a light ribbon, and the mountains and cities blend together, and the cities and rivers embrace each other. In this Zhongling, Yuxiu Nanchong, Sichuan, the profound cultural heritage revealed in the simplicity has raised the simple Nanchong people. He Delin and Zheng Jiaqiong live here. Lively children add a little warmth to the life that is not rich.
In July 1991, the couple sent their five-year-old son to his grandmother's house in Tumen Town, Yilong County. However, everything changed in an instant: at about four o'clock in the afternoon on July 29, He Ping followed his cousin to the street to buy steamed buns as usual, and the sister and brother jumped out of the door. On the day of the market, crowds of people came from all directions, and the two little people avoided the crowd and unconsciously distanced themselves. In the noise, there was a female neurological patient jumping around on the street, and the sister and brother were crowded in the crowd to watch the excitement. The bustling crowd gradually separated them, and when the young lady turned around, she couldn't see He Ping's figure anymore......
Find for love
After He Ping went missing, his family began to look around, and they once suspected that the female neuropathy was a gang of human traffickers, but all the search and efforts were in vain, and He Ping disappeared in the vast sea of people. How many nights did mom wake up crying from her dreams - son, where the hell are you?
Time flies, soon to 2009, He level still has no information, He Delin, Zheng Jiaqiong and his wife pinned their hopes on every possible opportunity, on April 3 of the same year, they registered on the baby's home website.
He Delin said that his son He Pingping, born on April 1, 1986, has a single eyelid and a little natural curly hair, and his face near his left ear has been bitten by a dog and has been stitched with seven stitches, leaving a vertical and long scar.
He was wearing a black sleeveless undershirt and black shorts when he disappeared. Back then, a bronze statue commemorating Zhu De was built at the bus station near his home, and his mother took him to see it. There was a courtyard in the house, and in the middle of the courtyard stood a tree, with curly trunks and branches. When He Ping was a child, he liked to play with his two sisters the most, called the eldest sister Xia Wazi (eldest sister He Cuixia), and the second sister He Xiaoxia. He Pingping, who is at home, admires his father very much, and likes to say that his father is repairing the house, and when he sees a good house, he shouts to live in it...... He Delin muttered on the other end of the phone, but his voice was gradually choked.
Son, dad will never forget every smiling face of you, the family is thinking about you, come back quickly!
After Ye in the dust sorted out the information, he immediately posted a missing person post on the baby's home network:
Looking for He Pingping, who was born in 1986 and disappeared in July 1991 in Tumen Town, Yilong County, Nanchong City, Sichuan Province, 5899
http://bbs.baobeihuijia.com/thread-82591-1-1.html
Mother Zheng Jiaqiong is looking forward to it every day: suddenly one day, her son will appear at the door of the house, crying sweetly as usual: "Mom", and then pounce into her arms.
In November 2014, volunteer Hubei Yu found a highly suspicious family member on the website, Hubei Yu analyzed, there is a lot of consistent information in the two family search posts: age, hair is a little naturally curly, female traffickers (female neuropathy), Yilong County is a mountainous area. But after careful comparison by the volunteers, this family search is not of a good level.
Never give up
Time flies, there is still no news about He level, in 2012, Ye in the dust withdrew for personal reasons, looking for He level's post to settle down, but the volunteers will not give up every wanderer, in April 2015, He level of the search for relatives task by volunteer Yuhan continued to follow up.
Yuhan first contacted the registrant, He Pingping's younger brother, and asked He Pingping's younger brother to inform He Delin and his wife to collect blood. A few months later, Yuhan learned that He Ping's younger brother did not tell his family to collect blood, nor did he tell his family Yuhan's contact information. Around November, the eldest sister of He Ping entered the baby home reception group again, ready to register again to find relatives. After Yuhan learned about it, she contacted the eldest sister of He Ping, and then learned that the family needed to add some information, hoping that the younger brother could still remember the familiar fragments of the year, so Yuhan made some information supplements according to her sister's recollection:
At that time, He Ping had been in kindergarten for nearly a year, and he had already remembered, usually his mother taught him to remember the names of his parents, "He Delin, father He Delin, mother Zheng Jiaqiong, he knows", and he sings his parents' names every day. In June 91, the groundbreaking ceremony of Zhu De's bronze statue garden in Yilong County, the loudspeaker broadcast propaganda penetrated into every household, and He Ping shouted every day to ask his mother to take him to see the bronze statue...... My sister poured out her desire to go home to He Ping, and the family affection was not diluted by twenty-five years, as if these happened yesterday, and the memories of her younger brother are still fresh in my thoughts.
My sister told Yuhan that her father now lives in Beijing, and he had collected blood and compared it in the early years. So Yuhan obtained He Delin's phone number from his sister, contacted him in time, and inquired in detail about the situation that year. He Delin said: As early as 2009, the couple had taken blood and compared it with a child, but there was no comparison at that time. Next, He Delin sent the appraisal certificate at that time. Yuhan considered that he could not be sure whether the blood collection was in the warehouse at that time, so he inquired about the storage records.
As Yuhan expected, the blood samples of He Delin and his wife were not in the warehouse, so Yuhan asked them to collect blood again. Another month passed quickly, and Yuhan asked He Delin, but the answer he got was: I was too busy with work and had no time to collect blood. So Yuhan urged He Delin to explain the necessity of DNA storage: it is possible that children have already collected blood and waited for their blood samples to be put into the database. At the same time, Yuhan gave an example of finding a child during blind comparison. In April 2016, his father informed Yuhan that he had returned to his hometown from Beijing to collect blood from the criminal police team of Yilong County, Nanchong.
Sad childhood
In April 2016, the volunteer Brother Confused received a message for help signed by Shi Jing, in which Shi Jing told the plot that he thought could only be seen in TV dramas: he now lives alone in a rental house in Fuxing District, Handan City, Hebei Province, with no parents, no siblings, and no carefree childhood......
Brother Fool's place of residence is not too far from Shi Jing, so he decided to learn some information in person, and after meeting, Shi Jing cried and told about his misfortune: When I was four or five years old, I was playing on the side of the road in front of my house, and a man in his thirties said to take me to find my mother. I was unsuspecting and happily followed him. After walking for a while, he picked me up on the bicycle, and when I cried and didn't leave, he threatened and said, "If you cry again, you will be killed!" I was so scared that I followed him for an hour or two until I came to a mud house in a farmland. There, no matter how much I cried, he ignored it. Then I got annoyed and started beating me and wouldn't let me eat, and I cried and cried and fell asleep. It seems that the next day, the man took me to the train station, and then to my adoptive parents' house in Handan.
When I was a child, I was naughty, and my adoptive parents were also negligent in discipline, and I started wandering when I was a teenager. I wanted to go home, and I also went to Zhejiang and other places to find a home, but I couldn't find it, so I had no choice but to return to Handan to adoptive parents' house. My adoptive parents were numb to me, claiming that they didn't know me and didn't give me a household registration.
I don't know where my family is, and I can't go back to support my family, so I can only wander around and work to support myself. I remember vividly now that my house was a wooden house, there was a cement road in front of my house, there seemed to be a few sisters, and there were things that looked like water chestnuts hanging on the door, and there should be a small mountain near my home. But it's hard for me to determine exactly where my home is.
After hearing about Shi Jing's tragic experience, Brother Confused immediately contacted the police of Fuxing District of Handan City, and the police of Fuxing District collected blood samples for Shi Jing. At the same time, the information was analyzed and sorted out, and a family search post was released:
Shi Jing, born in January 1985 and abducted and trafficked to Handan City, Hebei Province in January 1989, 177320
https://bbs.baobeihuijia.com/thread-273961-1-1.html
After the family search post was released, the baby home volunteers paid attention to and forwarded the family search post, and everyone actively analyzed and provided suspected family search information. Brother Confused contacted Shi Jing every once in a while, firstly to enlighten him to recall clues, and secondly, to pay attention to his life, encourage him to be self-reliant, start a family while looking for relatives, and live his own small life.
Mountains and rivers are restored
On June 25, 2016, Yuhan received a notice from the website that the blood samples of He Delin and Zheng Jiaqiong had been put into storage, and they could contact Stitch for details with Stibi in Taizhou, Jiangsu. But then, Yuhan couldn't contact Shi Di anyway. Volunteer Xiao Yang asked a friend to go to Taizhou to raise a family to inquire, but the news he got was that he had left, and there was no news about Shi Di on the Internet. In this way, He Pingping's twenty-five years of return home was blocked on the last journey. He Delin was so anxious that he couldn't wait to see his son immediately, and every few days he would ask Yuhan if he had any news of his son. Yuhan also applied to the website for a headline push, but with little success.
The time soon came in March 2020, Yuhan suddenly received a call from He Pingping's eldest sister: He Pingping is home! Under Yuhan's inquiry, He Delin explained the reason for the matter: He Pingping's name was "Shi Di" when the DNA blood sample was collected, and the adoptive family was called Shi Jing, so for three years, the volunteers have not been able to inquire about his whereabouts. Recently, the Sichuan police informed He Pingping that the blood relationship had been determined through DNA comparison, and he could go home with confidence. According to He Pingping, in the days of wandering, there were three supportive families in Hebei and Jiangsu and other places, and they tasted the warmth and coldness of the world, and the sadness in them could not be explained in one or two sentences.
There's a long way to go
In August 2021, Brother Fool contacted Shi Jing again and learned that he and his wife had moved to Xi'an. Shi Jingluo regretfully told Brother Tu that he received a notice from the Sichuan police in March last year that his biological parents were determined after DNA review, and after recognizing his relatives with great expectations, he felt that he did not have the warmth he imagined, but because of the trivial matters of the family, he was psychologically burdened, and he was forced to flee from the families on both sides with his wife, intending to start a new life in a new environment.
Shi Jing said apologetically to the confused brother: I really don't have the courage to tell you that I found my biological parents!
Brother Confused comforted Shi Jing, taking care of his wife and children is his biggest task at present, for biological parents, it takes time to accept each other, and the relationship must be cultivated slowly. Living the present and looking forward to it is the greatest happiness!
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