Sometimes, people think differently because of a person's profession.
This time, for example, when a husband told people that his wife was missing, people might be concerned about the wife's whereabouts, but when the husband's wife was a teacher by profession, the comments changed.
This is the disappearance of the female teacher, but fortunately, the female teacher was finally found, she is all right, as for the reason for not contacting her family, the female teacher also explained that she chose to run away from home for personal reasons.
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This is a private matter, but because the girl's identity is a teacher, many netizens believe that this teacher is not responsible enough, and after such a thing happens, it is not suitable to continue teaching.
As a teacher, you should be accountable to your students, and there is nothing wrong with that. But even if she is a teacher, she is an ordinary person, there is no specific boundary between a teacher and an ordinary person, she is a teacher, she can also be a wife, or a daughter. Why such cruel comments about a girl who has been missing for days?
In the days she was missing, we didn't know what she was thinking, no matter what, it was a good thing to get home safely, really don't blame her anymore!
If she did not ask for leave from the school before her disappearance, but left willfully, it may be morally condemned by her parents, after all, she needs to be responsible for her own work, but also responsible for her students, and the transfer of classes between classrooms also needs to be coordinated with colleagues, which is not a very simple matter.
But at the same time, we can't ignore that she has other identities besides being a teacher. Her daily life may not be taken care of by us onlookers, but we should also allow a person to have his own temper and character.
Under what circumstances are female teachers allowed to have their own emotions? Unlike robots, teachers are real people, with real emotions, angry, painful, and perhaps uncomfortable.
In those days, she didn't choose to contact her family, which is enough to show that she is very uncomfortable in her heart, since this is the case, netizens should not make matters worse, I believe that if she is given a few days to think about it, she should be able to figure it out.
After all, she is a teacher, and the knowledge and quality she has will also tell her how to live next. When it comes to life and work, people should always try to find a balance. Work is important, but life should not be let down either.
She is a wife, she is also a mother, in addition, people see more identity in this matter, is her profession, yes, teaching is her profession, people may subconsciously have such a cognition, as long as the other party is a teacher, it must be behaved, so after seeing the reason why this girl ran away from home, so emotional, even angry.
People's anger is only because their subconscious minds conflict with the reality of the scene, and the two cannot justify themselves. You must know that a school cannot have only one teacher, and if a teacher is not available to teach, if the school is not in place, then the school should also be responsible.
Within a few days of the teacher's disappearance, as long as the students have not been delayed in class and have not been affected by other adverse effects, then the teacher should be allowed to have his or her own emotional rights within the appropriate range.