01. Introduction

Marriage, like a big tree, brings infinite vitality to life.

If a woman is betrayed by a man, marriage seems to lose its meaning of existence.

The foundation of the marriage has been severely damaged, and the loyalty and trust between the husband and wife are gone, and it is difficult to continue.

They may face an embarrassing situation with each other, and they will completely tear their faces and turn against each other for their own interests.

When encountering "betrayal", women must understand: hit the snake and hit the "seven inches", and then shoot at the right time.

02. Men are most afraid of bad reputation, so collect evidence first

Previously, a visitor, Yang Ting, found an earring from her pocket that did not belong to her while cleaning her husband's dirty clothes.

Subsequently, according to some clues left by her husband, the fact that he betrayed the marriage was determined.

She knew that this was a critical period for her husband to compete for the position of director, and if such a disgraceful thing happened, it would definitely affect his future.

Yang Ting quietly began to collect evidence, so that she could have more bargaining chips when negotiating.

In the end, her husband agreed to Yang Ting's divorce conditions because he was afraid that Yang Ting would make his scandal of betraying his marriage public and destroy his reputation.

When betrayed by a man, if a woman acts impulsively, she will only make herself more passive.

If a woman can have evidence of a man's betrayal of marriage, she will be able to take the initiative in negotiation.

Women need to know what a man's weakness is, and then adjust her countermeasures, and then take action when the time comes.

A man is afraid of the negative effects of betrayal of marriage, which will damage his reputation, and will be detrimental to his personal image and career.

Find a man's weaknesses and collect evidence first, so that he can better protect his rights and interests.

03. Men are most afraid of losing their property in divorce and sorting out their property

In "Good Things Come in Pairs", after Wei Ming and Lin Shuang got married, they have been secretly transferring property.

The house where a family of three lives is written in the name of Wei Ming's parents, and all his income has been transferred away by him in various names.

After Lin Shuang found out that he had betrayed his marriage, he began to collect evidence and sort out his financial situation. And find a way to make him take the initiative to spit out some of the money.

Subsequently, she found out from Wei Ming's call records that he may have transferred a large amount of property abroad.

When negotiating with Wei Ming, Lin Shuang was calm and calm, and put all the information in front of him. Wei Ming, who has always been very deep in the city, was visibly panicked with the naked eye.

In the end, he had to give up custody of his daughter and sign the divorce agreement.

The man did not choose to divorce outside of marriage, largely because the cost of divorce was too great for him to afford.

He was afraid of losing his property after the divorce and lowering his standard of living. And women can also start from this aspect, sort out their property, and grasp where their money goes.

When a man betrays her, a woman faces a vicious battle, and the more information she has, the better.

At this point, women no longer need to care about the relationship between husband and wife, but must sort out their property and strive for the benefits they deserve.

04. Men are most afraid of being separated from their children and taking care of their children

The man betrays the marriage, and the family is about to fall apart. There are no eggs under the nest, and the biggest victims in this crisis are children.

Men are afraid of being separated from their children and can't bear to let their children face a broken family. Women should take care of their children with their hearts and reduce the injuries suffered by them.

Even if two people no longer have the will and need to continue, try to avoid arguing in front of their children.

Don't let your children see the hideous side of their parents.

Even if the loyalty between husband and wife is gone, trust has collapsed, and the old love has been exhausted, do not try to destroy the image of the other person in the hearts of the child.

Try to give your child more care and love, and communicate slowly. Let the child understand that even if the parents are not together, the love for him will not be reduced in the slightest.

Perhaps, men will choose to return to the family for the sake of their children. A woman and her child establish a deep relationship, which is more conducive to fighting for the custody of the child.

There is still a long way to go, don't let betrayal become a hurdle that you can't get over, and don't let the broken family become a shadow of your child's life.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

Xi Juan said: "All the misses, regrets, and pains, whether they can be made up or forgiven, have become a reality that must be faced with personnel changes. ”

Women should try their best to put away their sadness and anger and bring themselves back to their senses. Think about what you want to protect the most, and think about what men are most afraid of.

With more hole cards and more evidence, you will be able to increase your chances of winning and safeguard your own interests.

Try to get out of the pain, give up the marriage that has deteriorated, pick yourself back up, and believe that you deserve a better life.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.