introduction
In today's world where there are more men and fewer women, the high-priced bride price has stumped many handsome guys.
A senior netizen said that there are more than 5,000 people in their village, and there are at least 800 young men who have not found a target now.
What is a high-priced bride price?
The so-called "high-priced bride price" refers to the number of bride price is relatively exaggerated, and the local per capita annual income is not proportional, but the specific amount of bride price is considered a high-priced bride price, there is no accurate statement, anyway, some scholars say that more than 100,000 bride price are high-priced bride price!
A sociologist said that although the income level of farmers is rising, for many rural families, the high-priced bride price will also bring an extremely heavy economic burden to the rural family, and a high-priced bride price will not only empty the wallet of the whole family, but also have a major impact on the problem of rural pension. Under the influence of the high-priced bride price, even if some rural young people are married, they do not dare to have children casually, because they are afraid that the burden of the high-priced bride price will fall on their shoulders sooner or later. In this case, there will be a real problem of difficulty in giving birth to children in society, which will further reduce the birth rate of the population, which will have a very huge negative impact on the formation of a reasonable population structure.
The sociologist went on to say that there are very complex historical reasons for the emergence of the phenomenon of high-priced bride price, for example, China has had the ideology of "preference for sons over daughters" since ancient times, and under the influence of this consciousness, it will lead to an imbalance between men and women in rural areas, and when the gender imbalance between men and women appears, some parents with girls will deliberately raise the price of the bride price, and after other families with girls see the price of the bride price gradually rising, the psychology of comparison will appear, so that the price of the bride price will become higher and higher. In this way, the phenomenon of high-priced bride prices appeared.
The sociologist went on to say that the phenomenon of high-priced bride price has deviated from the original intention of love and the essence of marriage, making marriage evolve into a material exchange.
The sociologist finally said that in principle, a bride price of less than 100,000 yuan cannot be counted as a high-priced bride price, and if a woman asks for a bride price of less than 100,000 yuan, then this woman must be the object of competition for single men!
However, this is not really the case. No, a 27-year-old woman in Sichuan, Shi, has been on a blind date since she was 20 years old, and the price of the bride price offered by her mother is only 80,000, but to this day, the blind date is still not successful!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
Shi, a 27-year-old Sichuan woman, is a very delicate girl. In order to enable her to marry as soon as possible, her parents have been looking for a matchmaker to help Shi find a partner since she was 20 years old, and only offered a bride price of 80,000 yuan, but what is unexpected is that in the past 7 years, the matchmaker has introduced no less than 100 people to Shi, but no man is willing to marry Shi as his wife, which causes Shi's mother to be very anxious.
Shi's mother said: "In our place, the price of the bride price is 188,000 yuan, and our family only needs 80,000 yuan, which is more than half of the normal bride price.
Shi's mother continued: "My daughter is very handsome, life is completely self-care, who marries my daughter, don't need to worry about my daughter, if there is any man who likes my daughter, as long as he takes out a bride price of 80,000 yuan, as for what's 'sedan chair ceremony', 'sedan chair ceremony' can be exempted." Interested men, contact me quickly!"
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen gentleman loves money: To be fair, the bride price of 80,000 yuan is indeed not a high-priced bride price, besides, Shi is also quite handsome, which is worth considering for older single men. I hope that those older single men will contact Shi's mother as soon as possible, so that they can achieve a good marriage as soon as possible.
Netizen Himalaya: The bride price of 80,000 yuan is not much, if I am single, I am willing to marry Shi. It's a pity that I'm already married, so I'd better cut my love and leave Shi to other older youths!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
The marriage is wonderful.
A marriage expert pointed out that people are running around in the hustle and bustle of the sea of people, and people hope to have a romantic marriage, but fate is a wonderful thing, and they may not be able to meet it!
Lao Hu thinks: Shi's mother doesn't need to be anxious about Shi's marriage, after all, marriage and love depend on fate. As long as fate arrives, Shi will be able to find his favorite. After all, the bride price of 80,000 yuan is not much, and under the "temptation" of such a small bride price, is Shi still worried that he will not be able to get married? Presumably, it is impossible!