I have lived for more than 20 years, and before college, I only stayed at home, watching TV and playing on my mobile phone, and I never went out of my county. Because my parents don't have money for me, in their concept, going out to play is burning money, and it is impossible for rural families who work hard to grow rice but can earn 2~30,000 yuan a year, it is impossible to pay you to go out and play. Your so-called going out to learn and expand your horizons is untenable for them. Even if I go to my classmates' houses to play, my mother is very worried because she is worried that I will have any accidents on the road and does not want me to go to other people's houses to cause trouble, so I rarely go to my classmates' and friends' houses to play.
After stepping into college, the roommates have taken off their singles, and one is addicted to reading novels, that is, otaku. I was the only one who wanted to play, but I didn't know how to play or what to play, and at the same time I inherited the mental habit that my parents were reluctant to spend money. In my impression, going out to play is to buy a cup of milk tea first, then see a snack on the side of the road and buy one, watch a movie, and then just go shopping without buying, and encounter a video game city to play with the doll. Or go hiking, climb to the top, take a few group photos, and nothing else.
During my graduate studies, I learned a little about makeup and dressing, and I felt as if I had a new understanding and feeling for playing, as if I understood the joy of girls taking pictures, looking at my beautiful self, looking at the contrived poses in order to take beautiful photos, and I was always asking my photographer friends if they were okay. Even if you are alone, looking at couples, uncles and aunts checking in and taking pictures, there is a trace of tranquility and beauty in your heart.
It seems that my state of mind has changed, and I am no longer sad because I go out to play alone, but I can absorb the joy of others. Because I seem to know that the meaning of playing is to make yourself happy, you don't need to worry too much, no matter how things develop, you are out to play, there is no need to be unhappy because we missed an attraction, there is no need to be unhappy because things are not going according to our plan, but to follow the development of events, maintain a calm mind, and feel the people and things in this new place. The people around you can bring you joy, and the beautiful food can heal you and make you sigh frequently. As far as food is concerned, I have to recommend Changsha, Changsha is the city where I studied for graduate school, and among the Wuhan, Guilin, Yunnan, Shenzhen, and Shunde I have visited, Changsha I think is the best and the best.