For parents, every child is like the meat of their hearts, a gift of life, and the love given to them seems to be equal.
But as mortals, their emotions are also complex and changeable, and deep down they may have a preference.
Even if every child is the fruit of love, parents may still favor the one they think is the best on the emotional scale, which is more likely to cause trauma in the child's heart in a family with many children.
What happened
A mother of three children posted a video of her daily life at home on the Internet, showing her 8-year-old second child skillfully mopping the floor, which revealed her appreciation for the second child's sensible and capable work.
As she further described the different characteristics of her three children, netizens discovered the problem.
The eldest is good at drawing and satisfies the vanity of his parents, but his personality is eccentric and difficult to call;
The third child has excellent grades and outstanding appearance, but he is lazy and likes to talk back.
As for the second child, he has mediocre talents, average learning, and no special talents, but he is obedient and sensible, never contradicts his parents, and is willing to help with all things in the family.
Perhaps it is such a second child who has become the least favored child in the family. Mom said that although she loves her three children the same, deep down she still prefers the eldest and third with personality. Although the second child is obedient, he always feels that he is "unpleasant".
Netizens are hotly discussed
In fact, every child is a unique individual and they should be treated equally and with respect. Parental partiality not only hurts a child's psyche but can also affect their growth and future.
epilogue
May every parent reflect deeply on their own behavior and cherish and love every child. Because in this world, nothing is more precious than family affection, and nothing is more important than the warmth of family. Let's work together to create a better future for our children!